I have been dating one of my closest friends for about six months (we have known each other for four years so it is not as a new relationship). We are not that young as I am 27 years old.
We are both foreigners working in another country. He will be moving away (2 h by car) in the next couple of months due to work commitments. I want our relationship to move forward, but instead, he is moving away. I do not know if I will move country or he will move to our or another country and every time I think about all of this, the possibilities that our relationship will last seem close to zero. I do not want to be pessimistic but it is what I feel. I really think he could be the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, but of course, these things need time.
I do not feel like he wants to move in or think of anything further what we have now, in the near future. What should I do?
Should I leave him and find someone willing to commit (he is two years younger than me)?
Thank you for your help.