We have been together for around 15 years and have 1 child who is 7 years old. My wife has always been shy in the bedroom but only recently she has guided me more into what she likes. This has been an exciting time for both of us but she never really cares about my needs. We have sex only when instigated by me, I am happy to give oral but never receive, she never appears to be excited about having sex but once we start she is fine.
We have sex around twice a month, sometimes it can be more but normally less. My wife suffers from bad mood swings once per month and I am just hated through this period. The next day after sex she is always nasty or argumentative, I feel much closer to her but she appears to be the opposite, it’s like she punishes me, its very odd.
I just need to find out if anyone else feels like me and maybe some advice as its starting to really get me down.