6 months into our relationship my girlfriend went on holiday and I later found out that she had a threesome with two men she met in a nightclub while she was away. After she said it was just a crazy one off I forgave her. But I just can’t get the thought of her with the two guys out of my head and I feel insecure like I can never compete with this.
I really love her and I want to stay together – should I ask for details of what happened? I don’t know what to do. Porn scenarios keep running through my head and it does affect me sexually. I’ve tried to psychoanalyze why she did it. Can I ever really trust her or will she want to do this again in the future? She admits to have done it before and enjoyed it. She told her friends about it in a positive way which is how I found out.
