We’ve been together for 3 years now, we rarely ever have sex.
He told me he doesn’t like it,
I often wonder if he’s gay, but he says he’s not.
And when I ask for sex he asks me why am I so horny, but it’s not like I ask for sex every day. Maybe once a week. And to me, it’s not necessarily the physical feelings its emotions I’m an extremely emotional person… He sometimes thinks that I have sex with other guys cuz I ask for sex too much, not that he doesn’t trust me and I don’t have casual sex, like I said its not the physical feelings that I care I just wanna make love with the man I’m deeply In love with, most importantly I want him to want sex I feel unwanted, I feel useless, low self-esteem and please don’t tell me he’s not the one.. We’ve talked about having a child together in the future so I asked him if he doesn’t sex how are we suppose to have a child he said we might need to try artificial fertilization if that’s what it’s called, he can get a boner I mean he gets it a lot but he only wants handjob but not sex, I’m fact when we do have sex he loses his boner and he has no feelings for sex..
What should I do, I’m very depressed I feel that why can’t he just be a normal guy I don’t want to leave him and I plan on spending the rest of my life with him…
And please don’t say sex is not important, u haven’t experienced a relationship like mine how can u know what it feels like just imagine the person u love so much doesn’t want u, and we’ve never had a consensual sex..and we only had sex for like 10 times in 3 years, it’s been months or years since I had sex..