Is it because webcams are more personal than porn?
Or is it because with live cam models guys get to actually play out their (well-hidden) fantasies? LIVE? In real-time?
Or maybe it’s because they lack something in their relationships?
This leads us to your legitimate question, the one that might have been bugging you lately: “Should I be worried about my boyfriend watching cam models? Is that… cheating?”
But first things first: let’s try to dig up the main reasons behind men’s fascination with cam girls.
Reason #1: Engaging with Cam Models Is More Personal than Watching Porn
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It’s also more interactive, and more engaging. It’s… different. And it’s precisely that level of interactivity and intimacy of live shows with webcam models (compared to porn) that gets men grow so addicted to them.
They’re not mere prerecorded videos that dozens or hundreds (or more) of other guys have already watched. And will continue to watch. Webcam shows are LIVE. They happen right then and there.
Plus, if we’re talking about private cam shows, the temptation is even higher: they get to have their own particular, very specific fantasies played out. For them only. 1-on-1. This leads us to the second main reason why guys grow obsessed with cam models.
Reason #2: They Want Someone to Play Out Their Secret Fantasies With
One of the main reasons why guys frequent cam sites is because they get to have those cam models bring their secret sexual fantasies to life. That’s something they can’t experience when watching porn.
And, in some/many cases it’s something they’re ashamed/afraid to experience at home, with their real partners (more about this in a bit).
This is why having hot cam models putting on exactly those sexual fantasies they’ve been having for a long time, just for them, following their very specific indications, is… exhilarating. And addictive.
Reason #3: They Feel (More) Comfortable Exploring Their Kinky Fetishes with Cam Models
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Maybe they’re into femdom kinks. Or into (particularly) kinky roleplay fetishes. Or they have other well-hidden kinks, fetishes, and overall sexual fantasies they don’t feel comfortable enough sharing with their partners. Out of fear of being judged, shamed, or out of fear of… ruining their relationships completely.
And this is where a cam model, ready to explore all their most secret desires with them, comes into the picture. And where the fascination for such live webcam shows comes from.
Reason #4: They Want to Connect with Their “Fantasy Women”
Enjoying a live (private) show with a cam model is a guy’s chance to “get in touch” with that fantasy babe from his hottest fantasies. That bombshell that looks exactly like the one in his wet dreams and who’s as kinky-minded as she is.
Who’s eager to satisfy all his needs and to play out all his fantasies. No matter how dark or rare. Or maybe his fantasy woman is actually the “sexy, easy-going girl next door” type. Who’s fun to be around, easy to talk to, and to share your most secret desires with.
And maybe that’s something he doesn’t have in this real relationship. This brings us to the next reason why guys obsess over cam models.
Reason #5: They Lack Something in Their Relationships
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They may lack precisely the understanding and acceptance they’re looking for when it comes to their secret kinky fetishes.
They fear that their partners might judge them for their fetishes, and might not have the time and availability to listen to their secret sexual desires. Or might simply get upset if they knew about them.
And this is why they turned to strangers. To cam models.
In Conclusion: Should You Be Concerned About Your Boyfriend?
It’s all about the intent here. Is he fantasizing about these cam girls, going out of his way to get to know them better, in real life? To get involved with them? If it’s a yes, then you should be (at least) a bit concerned.
Is he interacting with cam models because he wants to explore certain fetishes and fantasies he has? Then you might want to have an honest and open talk with him about his secret desires.
Try to make him feel as comfortable as possible sharing them with you. It’s probably the fear he might upset you or… shock you that made him turn to cam models in the first place. “Communication is key” is not a cliche after all
