I’ve been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I’m back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I’m trying to juggle homework and baby.
We have exchanged words about helping me out and he says he will help, and he does for a week or so, then it disappears and it’s all down to me again, but our sex life is dreadful I have lost a lot of confidence over the years and can’t put my finger on why this is, but I try and try my hardest to be how I was but I feel like I’m hitting a brick wall with it, and now he is getting really stroppy and says he has to make the first move all the time and is getting fed up with it, for instance, he has hardly said a word to me for 2 weeks and we go to bed one night and we cuddle I happily enjoyed the affection and he turns his back and says “your going to sleep ain’t ya I’m getting fed up with this” because I’m not making Any moves straight away!
Please, someone help.