My girlfriend is an AB/DL. Which means she likes wearing diapers and acting like an infant. Once every 3 months she spends the weekend with this couple who are her AB “mommy and daddy”. This couple treats her like a baby by feeding her Gerber baby food, changing her diaper (sometimes in public ie: in the truck of the car), they set up AB/DL play dates where she sits and colors and plays with other AB/DLs.
They have a giant crib where they make her sleep in with her teddy bear and pacifier. They also dress her up in giant baby clothes. Even though I find this all to be weird I do want to join in and experience this whole adult baby thing with her and see what exactly she gets out of it. She has asked me to be her daddy. I really just don’t know how to feel about it because I think the whole thing is quite weird, to be honest. But I do want her to be happy and if occasionally being adult baby makes her happy then I’m all for it, but I really don’t know how I should feel about this couple who she seems to care for more than her real parents.
I just don’t know how I can fit in and participate in this with her. At the same time, I also wonder how her being an AB/DL would affect us in the long term. She said she wants to have kids but I can’t imagine her having babies when she wants to be a baby herself. If anybody out there who is also dating someone who is AB/DL or just wants to chime in, can you please give me any advice on how to handle this?