To be mad or not to be mad

Hello,

Currently, I and my wife had a hard argument. The reason why we argue is because of her way of phrasing things or saying things. I believe she lacks people skills and has a hard time expressing herself in a good manner. She accuses me of something I did not do and told me to get out of my side of the bed in a bashful way. My question to you guys is should I be mad at this accusation and how she speaks to me? I get mad because I think I don’t deserve to be addressed in such belittle manner. We were arguing over this topic for about a year now. She believes I am sensitive and have anger issues but I think anyone would get mad if they were talked down or belittle in any way. I just want a second opinion, thanks.