Many couples stick to the same positions, restrict themselves to the bedroom, or follow a predictable lovemaking routine.
Yet, these tactics may make sex dull and limit pleasure. If you and your partner feel stuck in an intimacy rut, you can embrace tactics to have a more fulfilling sex life together. Find out how couples can become more sexually adventurous.
Introduce Adult Toys to Your Sex Life
Sex toys can introduce you and your partner to new sensations, pleasures, and activities you might never have known existed. Don’t settle for vanilla sex and shake up your routine with fun sex toys from My Amazing Fantasy. Have more fun and experience more pleasure by tying up your partner with love rope or tie-me-up tape, trigger new sensations with a Satisfyer, or seek new pleasures together with a pegging kit for beginners. You will wonder why you didn’t incorporate many adult toys into your sex life much sooner.
Master New Sex Positions Together
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Sticking to the same positions will lead to boring, predictable sex. Make the most of lovemaking by attempting to master new positions together. Try at least one new sex position each week, which will keep intercourse exciting and unpredictable.
Guaranteed, you will find a more pleasurable position to missionary and doggy style with a little research and experimentation. Also, don’t limit new positions to intercourse, as you could try new oral sex and shower sex positions to become more sexually adventurous.
Learn About Various Fetishes and Kinks
There is a difference between fetishes and kinks. A fetish is a strong sexual interest in a person, a non-sexual body part, or an object. However, a kink is something that turns a person on, such as wearing handcuffs during sex or the heat of candle wax on the skin.
While there are some kinks and fetishes you might not be willing to explore, you shouldn’t be afraid to embrace new ideas in the bedroom. If you are willing to explore kinks and fetishes you might not know about, you can visit Thestartofus and implement something in your relationship.
While there are some kinks and fetishes you might not be willing to explore, you shouldn’t be afraid to embrace new ideas in the bedroom.
For example, you and a partner could try:
• Role-playing
• BDSM
• Ropes and bondage
You never know what will get you or your partner hot and bothered until you give it a try.
Explore Your Dominant and Submissive Sides
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Many men and women fantasise about domination or submission. If you like the idea of taking control of your partner in the bedroom, don’t be afraid to explore your sexually domineering side. Yet, you might prefer for your partner to pull the strings to enjoy more unpredictable sex.
Even if you prefer to dominate your partner in the bedroom, embrace a more submissive side at least once. Exploring submission and domination could help you tap into a kink you never knew you had and transform your sex life.
Have Sex Outside the Bedroom or Home
Sex inside the bedroom can feel restricting. Make the act more exciting by taking intercourse outside the bedroom, such as having sex in a shower, on the dining room table, or in a guest bedroom, to name a few options.
If you are feeling daring, you could try having sex outdoors. You might both enjoy the thrill of potentially being caught. Yet, you must take steps to ensure this doesn’t happen, such as ensuring you have sex in a remote or private setting in a public space to avoid repercussions.
Watch an Erotic Movie Before Sex
An erotic film cannot only get your pulse racing, but it could trigger ideas, desires, or positions to try with your partner in the bedroom. With so many options available, it is important to find a movie you and a partner would like to watch. It could open the door to a new role-play fantasy or experiences to try.
Play Strip Poker Together
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Strip poker is a must-try for couples. The more skin you reveal, the more you will get your partner’s blood racing. You could even introduce thrilling rules, such as adding foreplay acts into specific undressing stages. You can guarantee it will be one of the most exciting card games you and your partner will ever play. However, don’t be surprised if you don’t make it to the end of the game.
Discuss Your Sexual Fantasies Together
Life is too short for vanilla sex. Fulfill every sexual fantasy by discussing them with your partner and encouraging them to do the same. Sharing your deepest desires requires you to be vulnerable, but it could be one of the best decisions you make for your sex life.
Think carefully about the types of fantasies you would like to experience with a partner. Common fantasies include:
• Threesomes
• Sex in public
• Group sex
• Rough sex
The act of talking about a fantasy with a partner could be enough to get your heart pumping and your blood racing.
Remove the Senses
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Removing one sense could help you focus more on others, which could improve your sexual pleasure. For instance, wearing a blindfold may make you feel more in touch with physical sensations, as you will need to rely more on touch due to a lack of vision. Also, once a blindfold is removed and your vision is restored, you will likely have a greater desire for your partner.
Trigger Senses
In addition to removing senses during sex, you could aim to add new sensations. Heightening every sensation could increase your pleasure, as it will engage your whole nervous system. For instance, you could burn candles, use essential oils to trigger the senses, or introduce various fabrics into sex, such as leather, silk, or lace.
Conclusion
If your sex life is a little bland, make it your mission to shake things up inside (or outside) the bedroom. Sex toys are a great place to start, as they can push you outside your comfort zone, heighten pleasure, and introduce you to experiences you never knew existed.
Also, you must try to be a little more daring when intimate with a partner, such as having sex outside the bedroom, embracing kinks and fantasies, removing or triggering senses, or playing strip poker.
