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    how do i use the listening room? really need to talk to someone

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      Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
      At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!

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      Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
      At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!

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      Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
      At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!

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      Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
      At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!

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      Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
      At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!

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      Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
      At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!

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    1 child together. He has 1 from previous relationship. Him & his family treat our child completely different to his other child HELP

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      I went through the same thing with my X,s family and I am sorry to say we didnt sort it out I had numerous rows over it because I felt it was so unfair to my daughter. You have every right to be upset about this after all it's yr child yr protecting try and talk to yr partner or even his mum if that does not work then u have to cut them out of yr life or u and yr partner will be forever arguing over it I am with someone now who I have another son with and his family treat all my children the same even down to Christmas and birthday presents I think a lot of it with families is jealousy

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      • User-anonymous India Flag

        You really cant change someone elses behavior. You can confront them about it. But people will act stupid if thats how they are.

        Fri 12, Jun 2015 at 6:16pm
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      I went through the same thing with my X,s family and I am sorry to say we didnt sort it out I had numerous rows over it because I felt it was so unfair to my daughter. You have every right to be upset about this after all it's yr child yr protecting try and talk to yr partner or even his mum if that does not work then u have to cut them out of yr life or u and yr partner will be forever arguing over it I am with someone now who I have another son with and his family treat all my children the same even down to Christmas and birthday presents I think a lot of it with families is jealousy

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      I went through the same thing with my X,s family and I am sorry to say we didnt sort it out I had numerous rows over it because I felt it was so unfair to my daughter. You have every right to be upset about this after all it's yr child yr protecting try and talk to yr partner or even his mum if that does not work then u have to cut them out of yr life or u and yr partner will be forever arguing over it I am with someone now who I have another son with and his family treat all my children the same even down to Christmas and birthday presents I think a lot of it with families is jealousy

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      I went through the same thing with my X,s family and I am sorry to say we didnt sort it out I had numerous rows over it because I felt it was so unfair to my daughter. You have every right to be upset about this after all it's yr child yr protecting try and talk to yr partner or even his mum if that does not work then u have to cut them out of yr life or u and yr partner will be forever arguing over it I am with someone now who I have another son with and his family treat all my children the same even down to Christmas and birthday presents I think a lot of it with families is jealousy

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      I went through the same thing with my X,s family and I am sorry to say we didnt sort it out I had numerous rows over it because I felt it was so unfair to my daughter. You have every right to be upset about this after all it's yr child yr protecting try and talk to yr partner or even his mum if that does not work then u have to cut them out of yr life or u and yr partner will be forever arguing over it I am with someone now who I have another son with and his family treat all my children the same even down to Christmas and birthday presents I think a lot of it with families is jealousy

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      I went through the same thing with my X,s family and I am sorry to say we didnt sort it out I had numerous rows over it because I felt it was so unfair to my daughter. You have every right to be upset about this after all it's yr child yr protecting try and talk to yr partner or even his mum if that does not work then u have to cut them out of yr life or u and yr partner will be forever arguing over it I am with someone now who I have another son with and his family treat all my children the same even down to Christmas and birthday presents I think a lot of it with families is jealousy

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    My guy of 17 years has asked for us to separate. He says that he loves me but isnt in love with me anymore. The spark is gone. HElp

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      The question you should be asking yourself is whether is falling in love with somebody else or not. Just incase you need some help as regards this..let me know
      cheers

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      The question you should be asking yourself is whether is falling in love with somebody else or not. Just incase you need some help as regards this..let me know
      cheers

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      Let me assume…this must be your story:

      Once upon a time, you were 2 bodies but 1 soul...the perfect soulmates...Maybe the best couple in the area...nothing could separate you.

      But then something happened and your soulmate transformed into your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. After a long period of hurting separation, now you are dying to get your ex back. You are remembering those beautiful moments with your ex and crying and sad for what happened to two of you?

      Well,

      Patching up with Ex isn't that tough or impossible. You just need a perfect and invisible strategy to get ex back without giving any idea that it was a strategic move instead of a random emotional move to get the ex back. This guide is perfect to get help in making that strategic move to get your ex back.

      So, how will you get rebound relationship and get ex back? Well, there is a simple way to make the dream come true. You just need to follow this simple guide about how to text your ex back so as to get him or her back in your life.

      Get your 'Text your Ex back Guide: https://goo.gl/BKoK95

      Positive Points:

      Step-by-Step Plan to Get Ex Back
      Content can be downloaded in three formats (PDF, audio clip and video clip)
      Containing Tips to strengthen relationship
      100+ Text Message Templates
      Negative Points:

      Require efforts and time investment
      Not for people that want to get ex back overnight
      you will not get your ex in just one night instead it will teach you a step by step plan to get your ex back. If you follow these tips then you surely win your ex back and even you don’t need to wait for your ex to make the first move. Don’t forget you have 60 days money-back guarantee in case if you feel it is not working but I am sure you never even feel that!!

      Maybe this guide too couldn't help in your particular case. But what if it worked? You can't take a chance by leaving this opportunity as After-all nothing is greater than love. Am I right or not?

      So Grab this opportunity right now and get your soul back in your life and make it heaven again:

      Learn how to use tiny little text messages sent from the cell phone you have in your pocket right now to crawl deep into your ex-boyfriend's or ex-husband's or ex-girlfriend's or ex-wife's mind and reawaken his or her passion, love and desire for you literally at the push of a button. Even if your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend won't answer your calls, emails or texts now, you'll be amazed at how quickly his or her attitude towards you changes once you learn these simple secrets.

      If you still have any doubts, then my personal suggestion is to confirm by yourself by checking in detail here: https://goo.gl/BKoK95

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      Let me assume…this must be your story:

      Once upon a time, you were 2 bodies but 1 soul...the perfect soulmates...Maybe the best couple in the area...nothing could separate you.

      But then something happened and your soulmate transformed into your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. After a long period of hurting separation, now you are dying to get your ex back. You are remembering those beautiful moments with your ex and crying and sad for what happened to two of you?

      Well,

      Patching up with Ex isn't that tough or impossible. You just need a perfect and invisible strategy to get ex back without giving any idea that it was a strategic move instead of a random emotional move to get the ex back. This guide is perfect to get help in making that strategic move to get your ex back.

      So, how will you get rebound relationship and get ex back? Well, there is a simple way to make the dream come true. You just need to follow this simple guide about how to text your ex back so as to get him or her back in your life.

      Get your 'Text your Ex back Guide: https://goo.gl/BKoK95

      Positive Points:

      Step-by-Step Plan to Get Ex Back
      Content can be downloaded in three formats (PDF, audio clip and video clip)
      Containing Tips to strengthen relationship
      100+ Text Message Templates
      Negative Points:

      Require efforts and time investment
      Not for people that want to get ex back overnight
      you will not get your ex in just one night instead it will teach you a step by step plan to get your ex back. If you follow these tips then you surely win your ex back and even you don’t need to wait for your ex to make the first move. Don’t forget you have 60 days money-back guarantee in case if you feel it is not working but I am sure you never even feel that!!

      Maybe this guide too couldn't help in your particular case. But what if it worked? You can't take a chance by leaving this opportunity as After-all nothing is greater than love. Am I right or not?

      So Grab this opportunity right now and get your soul back in your life and make it heaven again:

      Learn how to use tiny little text messages sent from the cell phone you have in your pocket right now to crawl deep into your ex-boyfriend's or ex-husband's or ex-girlfriend's or ex-wife's mind and reawaken his or her passion, love and desire for you literally at the push of a button. Even if your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend won't answer your calls, emails or texts now, you'll be amazed at how quickly his or her attitude towards you changes once you learn these simple secrets.

      If you still have any doubts, then my personal suggestion is to confirm by yourself by checking in detail here: https://goo.gl/BKoK95

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    • flag

      Let me assume…this must be your story:

      Once upon a time, you were 2 bodies but 1 soul...the perfect soulmates...Maybe the best couple in the area...nothing could separate you.

      But then something happened and your soulmate transformed into your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. After a long period of hurting separation, now you are dying to get your ex back. You are remembering those beautiful moments with your ex and crying and sad for what happened to two of you?

      Well,

      Patching up with Ex isn't that tough or impossible. You just need a perfect and invisible strategy to get ex back without giving any idea that it was a strategic move instead of a random emotional move to get the ex back. This guide is perfect to get help in making that strategic move to get your ex back.

      So, how will you get rebound relationship and get ex back? Well, there is a simple way to make the dream come true. You just need to follow this simple guide about how to text your ex back so as to get him or her back in your life.

      Get your 'Text your Ex back Guide: https://goo.gl/BKoK95

      Positive Points:

      Step-by-Step Plan to Get Ex Back
      Content can be downloaded in three formats (PDF, audio clip and video clip)
      Containing Tips to strengthen relationship
      100+ Text Message Templates
      Negative Points:

      Require efforts and time investment
      Not for people that want to get ex back overnight
      you will not get your ex in just one night instead it will teach you a step by step plan to get your ex back. If you follow these tips then you surely win your ex back and even you don’t need to wait for your ex to make the first move. Don’t forget you have 60 days money-back guarantee in case if you feel it is not working but I am sure you never even feel that!!

      Maybe this guide too couldn't help in your particular case. But what if it worked? You can't take a chance by leaving this opportunity as After-all nothing is greater than love. Am I right or not?

      So Grab this opportunity right now and get your soul back in your life and make it heaven again:

      Learn how to use tiny little text messages sent from the cell phone you have in your pocket right now to crawl deep into your ex-boyfriend's or ex-husband's or ex-girlfriend's or ex-wife's mind and reawaken his or her passion, love and desire for you literally at the push of a button. Even if your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend won't answer your calls, emails or texts now, you'll be amazed at how quickly his or her attitude towards you changes once you learn these simple secrets.

      If you still have any doubts, then my personal suggestion is to confirm by yourself by checking in detail here: https://goo.gl/BKoK95

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      You have to change yourself in order to change him. Take a look at what you may not being doing and the things you are doing in terms of meeting his needs. Find out what his love language is and slowly implement things that address his love language. Do Not overload him, again start slowly.

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for six months, is it too soon to move in? We're both 23.

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      Yes. Enjoy going out with each other. There will be plenty of time to move in together if it’s right

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      After six month you're still in the "honeymoon period", maybe wait a couple of more month before moving in together - there are still so many things you still can't know about each other.

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      Only you know when the time is right. You should see how things go over the next six months and get to know each other a bit more.

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      Yes, you should see how things go over the next six months, get to know each other a bit more then see how you feel.

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    My girlfriend's pregnant, just found out she still speaks to her ex, any advice on how to handle this please?

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      Chill out, she's only speaking to him, after all she has decided to have a baby with you.

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      Chill out, she's only speaking to him, after all she has decided to have a baby with you.

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      Carefully, you and she are very vulnerable at the moment

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      Ask why she still feels the need to talk to him, and tell her how it makes you feel. It could all be perfectly innocent.

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    9. When’s the right time to propose? We’ve been together four years and he’s still not popped the question.

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    I am 37 my bf is 29. We have been together for 2yrs. He has serious trust issues withme even tho Ive never cheated . will he ever trust me?

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      Has he been betrayed in the past? sounds like pstd ...reassure him and be an open book about everything, show him he's worth feeling better about having a trusting relationship.

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      Has he been betrayed in the past? sounds like pstd ...reassure him and be an open book about everything, show him he's worth feeling better about having a trusting relationship.

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      It's so hard to rebuild, especially when there's no apparent cause. Why do they do it? There's quite a lot of stuff on the site about building trust - I've found it helpful, I hope you do too. The video clip is good too - well worth a try.

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      It's so hard to rebuild, especially when there's no apparent cause. Why do they do it? There's quite a lot of stuff on the site about building trust - I've found it helpful, I hope you do too. The video clip is good too - well worth a try.

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