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I am torn

Posted by: Torn2018
Fri 12, Jan 2018 at 6:06am
Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

I been seeing this guy for 6 months... We got along pretty good.. We knkwn each other 9 yrs.. Dated briefly and just moved on... Found each other again and decided to give it a try.. But about 2 months or so ago I felt weird like he's becoming distant... I don't kn ow if I made a mistake but I decided to have the "what are we" talk... He said we were exclusive but for some reason I have a hard time believing him...
Also he's a single full time father of a 6 and 3 yo die to their mom passing away... He was not married... So I do understand it's hectic to all of the suddden become a full time dad... But I think there should be a time that he can take for me... I feel he doesn't want to spend time with me...i think if he wanted to he would make a way to... I am frustrated and I tell him..and I know it frustrates I asked him if he thought we should just move on...that way we save each other the aggravation... He first asked me if that's what I wanted... Not sure why he answered my question with a question.. So I said to him why are you answering with a question... And then he said... I don't want to move on...why doesn't he want to move.. I don't want to either but I feel is not going anywhere... Do I move on on my own altho he said he doesn't want to move on... Or do I keep trying.. Frankly I do love him we said I love you already... He actually said it first... But I don't think he does... Urghh Help

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  • User-anonymous divya56 Flag

    I have always been self conscious about relationships, my life was shattered ever since Ryan left me for another woman due to unknown reasons. i swore to never love a man again. mum always advised me to move on, but i love Ryan . Ryan meant everything to me . i looked for means to bring him back and he never came back to me, i was asked to try a spell caster online. i tried a few but all proved abortive until i met Dr Ogudu. he is such a nice man , and he helped me bring back Ryan in 4 days .Ryan came back begging me to forgive him. Right now, we are both together growing stronger and stronger each day. you can contact Dr Ogudu on "DROGUDUTEMPLE@AOL.COM". Thank me later

    Fri 12, Jan 2018 at 11:35pm