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Husband in fear of infidelity? Reoccuring nightmares!

Posted by: Tonycatsme25
Sun 28, Jan 2018 at 1:07am
Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

It has been an ongoing thing that my husband has been having nightmares about me cheating and leaving him for somebody else. I would like to help him get over this fear because he wakes up thinking that his dream is a reality because to him it seems really real. He wakes up with the same emotions he feels in the dream. It is very terrifying but at the same time I don't understand why he is even having these nightmares I have never been disloyal to him but he has cheated on me multiple times throughout our marriage. I honestly feel that if anybody should be in fear of infidelity it's definitely be me. So question number one is how can I help him? And question number two, it has been a while since he last cheated and has been doing very well with trying to earn my trust but unfortunately it's hard to trust him. How do I break my walls down and let him into my heart again and let him have my trust? We do not want to give up on our marriage. I would also like to add that I am a homemaker and I stay home and take care of the kids and he works nights and sleeps all day so we basically live two different lives while also living under the same roof because we hardly ever get to talk or spend any time together due to his work schedule.

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