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Don't know what to do. Please help

Posted by: TashaRoza
Wed 11, Oct 2017 at 2:53pm
Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Having a Child with Additional Needs, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

Ok so let me start off by saying I know it's wrong to get involved with someone who is married, but there is no love in the relationship, or so I thought. My boyfriend of almost 2 years is still married. She lives in another state now, and he is living in a motel to be closer to me instead of staying in the house they lived in. I have major insecurity issues due to a not so good childhood. Anyways, everything is great between us, we laugh, love, talk, do things like normal couples do, but when I leave to go take care of things, he is on the phone with her. He says he's just trying to keep her content so when the divorce papers are served, she doesn't take him to the cleaners. She only wants him for his paycheck. But I have done some investigating and eavesdropping and it doesn't sound like they are over. I am 32 years old and I have 2 children from a previous relationship, one with Autism. He has a daughter that is 4 years older ten me. I am always finding things he contradicts himself on. I love him and i do truly believe he loves me, what should I do? Please help.

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  • User-anonymous kamilla Flag

    This is a bad situation. He sounds like hes playing you. Could be less painful to get out now....but make sure you have good reason, that he really is being inappropriate to her.

    Fri 24, Nov 2017 at 6:36pm