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Should we just give up!?

posted Wed 7, Dec 2016 at 12:20pm

Hello. This may be a long one, so please bare with me. So me and my partner have been together now for 3 years. We split up or as we call "had a break" a few months back and well only got ba...

Tags: Love,relationship
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Money, Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Too much to ask??!!

posted Sun 4, Dec 2016 at 3:10am

Hello, I have written many posts on here and here is another one. Is it too much to ask for a wife to want to spend time with her DH with the kids together, as a family? My DH is very self cente...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

My boyfriend is pushing me away

posted Thu 1, Dec 2016 at 12:58am

I am currently off work on long term sick and my boyfriend has been supporting us which I am incredibly grateful for. Recently the fact that he is the sole earner and I have no money coming in is ...

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Money, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

My boyfriend makes me feel like im not important, what should I do.

posted Wed 30, Nov 2016 at 8:29pm

My boyfriend is aware that I was sexually abuse when i was little that lasted about 6 years straight with different people in my family. To this point, I feel like I have not been able to cope with...

Tags: Family issues,intimacy,bipolar,PTSD,boyfriend,marriage,babies
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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Difficult situation with friend

posted Wed 30, Nov 2016 at 5:31pm

Due to flooding I moved to a different flat a five minute walk away and then my boyfriend moved in with me. My friend who lives in the flat above at my old address isn't happy because building work...

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Friends & Family

Will he ever propose

posted Mon 28, Nov 2016 at 1:55am

Hi there, my partner and I have been together almost 5 years and we have a child together. I am 8 years older than him..I'm 43 and he's 35. I was married for 20 years and he has never been married....

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, A Psychologist's Perspective

does size matter

posted Sun 27, Nov 2016 at 2:55pm

My partner and I are having a few problems with sex, he doesn't want it much and I decided to tell him it needs to change, he does know it's a problem and we have talked before, my real question i...

Tags: size
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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

What do I do about my non-intimate husband.

posted Sat 26, Nov 2016 at 4:03am

I need some advice, I have been with my husband for 18 years. Since we were 16 years old. We are on our mid 30's now and I feel like we have a lack of intimacy. I have a higher sex drive than him. ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Communications in relationships

Spending Christmas with his family

posted Fri 25, Nov 2016 at 6:50pm

Hi, we've been together for 2 years now. We are both final year university students and are living together. My family is far away (I haven't been home for more than 1.5 years) and I haven't been...

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Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

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what should i do

posted Thu 1, Oct 2009 at 10:25pm

for the past 3 weekend my girl has said she dosent know whether she loves me or not. and this weekend i think shes being really serious. but the way she has been talking to me is as if she want...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Is this the end?

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 11:26am

My husband recently started a new job which takes him away from home for a couple of weeks at a time. After his first trip he came home and we just could not connect anymore. I was overly attentiv...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

he lied to me....

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 12:47pm

i have been with my bf for just over a year now, the first six months of our relationship we were having an affair, both our relationships had brokendown and what started out as support and friends...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Advice please?

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 3:06pm

Hi there, i am a young mum of 19 and i have a 5 month little girl, i have been with her dad for almost 2 years but he wont get serious and isnt really interested in our daughter as she was a mistak...

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Becoming a Parent, Making a Commitment

Has he fallen out of Love with me?

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 4:38pm

I've been with my boyfriend for about 2years and 2months, and i love him, so so much. But the past 6 months has been up and down all the time,but recently it's been a nightmare! He said to me 3 mon...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

problems with guy please help?

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 6:18pm

ok so i have been talking to a guy who i met online for about 8 months now but he is quite a lot older than me i am 17 and he is 31 and has been single for 6 years , and i dont think he is a playe...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Can I trust her

posted Sun 4, Oct 2009 at 1:35am

This is a two fold problem . Our relation is up and down, My Fiance of 19 months always expresses her self by swearing. Last week we wen out to a Casino with friends and every second word was fowl,...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Fallen out of love

posted Sun 4, Oct 2009 at 2:54pm

What do you do when after being with somebody for 29 years and you find out over a period of time that you don't really have anything in common anymore, that you have drifted apart so much your pa...

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Money, Getting on Better with my Partner

Am I being unreasonable

posted Sun 4, Oct 2009 at 7:15pm

I met my new boyfriend a month 5 weeks ago in a club back home in the North-East after an hour of him staring at me and going red he finally plucked up the courage to ask me out on a date, we have ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

a bit scared about the future...

posted Sun 4, Oct 2009 at 11:23pm

Usually when i read articles about relationship issues - i read recomendations like u should be more tolerant to each other, be more caring and explain to your partner how much you love this person...

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Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

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