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Lost wifes trust and love

posted Thu 24, Apr 2014 at 6:37am

So I am currently in a deployed location and about a month ago i got in a little dispute with my wife about money that led to her telling me she wanted a divorce, well it turns out the divorce wasn...

Tags: divorce
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

EARLY OVULATION AND I GAVE BIRTH AFTER DIAGNOSED WITH CERVICAL CARCINOMA.

posted Thu 24, Apr 2014 at 5:37am

Hello Everyone, I am glad I found this site. After I read many success stories for woman at age 42 getting pregnant my hopes are high again. I am 42 years old woman. I have a son who is 12. I re...

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i love him but im not happy anymore

posted Wed 23, Apr 2014 at 8:26pm

hello all .. and apologies in advance as i feel this is going to be a long post. my partner and i have been together 4 years and we have 2 beautiful children aged 3 and 8 weeks. i love him but i j...

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Money, Work, Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

No Contact Advice? Desperate Childs play?

posted Wed 23, Apr 2014 at 9:47am

Is no contact an american fad or could it make my ex miss me & get him to come back? Have many people successfully tried it? If anyone would recommend it, should i text and apologise for all the n...

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Ex boyfriend issues

posted Tue 22, Apr 2014 at 10:16pm

My ex boyfriend and i dated for two years and had broken up about two years ago. A week after we broke up he had a new girlfriend that he randomly met that week and i thought it was just going to b...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Help dating advice

posted Tue 22, Apr 2014 at 9:50pm

Hi I have recently been out of daring due to last relationship , my friends keep telling me to try move on , I can't stop thinking about my ex keep having dreams about her and can't sleep and every...

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Friends & Family

Two girls...kindof

posted Tue 22, Apr 2014 at 5:41am

So my ex ended it and started to see another guy. Without the whole story, we had some troubles obviously in our four year relationship. But we were engaged at one point just a couple years ago. An...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together

Am I just a display model?

posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 9:19pm

Hi, I have been with my Girlfriend for a few months now and have got some doubts. When we initially started dating we seemed to progress a bit faster than I anticipated (i.e. for a first date we ha...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Strong feelings for a close friend that has a boyfriend

posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 9:16pm

I've lived in a shared house with a girl and three others for 2 years and have absolutely fallen for the girl. It started over 3 months ago and I've tried so hard to turn off these feelings but I j...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

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Marriage advice

posted Tue 29, Dec 2009 at 2:17pm

I'm after some advice from you good people about what you think I should do with regards to my marriage of 18 months. I am having more and more doubts about whether to continue working at it becaus...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Splitting Up

posted Wed 30, Dec 2009 at 12:36pm

Hi im after a little advice,so hopefully im in the right place! I have just split up with my girlfriend of three months,for no apparent reason,she rang on 27th Dec and told me it didnt feel right a...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

teasing

posted Wed 30, Dec 2009 at 9:54pm

Well here's my story. I'm not actually a parent or married at all, so if I'm not supposed to be on here sorry. I just wanted some feedback. Here's my story: I dated my gf for six months and k...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

not sure if trust is completly back

posted Thu 31, Dec 2009 at 2:44am

me and my boyfriend have been together for 3yrs. during the first 5 months of us dating he cheated on me with a girl who he was trying to get with before we started dating. and he apologized and sa...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Not sure what to do now !

posted Thu 31, Dec 2009 at 3:21am

I thought I was fairly happy in my marriage, however, my husband isnt and thats making me unhappy. I have tried all sorts of different things to try make him happy, to try get his attention and ma...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

urgent help needed

posted Sat 2, Jan 2010 at 8:29am

hi, i have an issue and need some serious advice. i dated a man 5 years ago, where we got on so well, we never argued and things were fantastic, but from the beginning he told me that he was moving...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Making a Commitment

He loves someone else

posted Sat 2, Jan 2010 at 5:19pm

I have been in a relationship with my partner for 25 years. Over the last 3 months he has been behaving very strangely. I suspected an affair and this was confirmed on Boxing Day. Its not that s...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Just separated, is it the right choice?

posted Sat 2, Jan 2010 at 10:21pm

I have been married for 4 yrs now but been together 7yrs. Within our first year of marriage and while i was pregnant my husband cheated until i found out, which i have forgiven but cant forget! ...

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Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

The 'mess' which is my life!

posted Sat 2, Jan 2010 at 11:50pm

When i think about whats happened over the past year, it almost seems silly writing a post for advice on whether or not i should even be trying to save this relationship. Sometimes i think i should...

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Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

can someone make sense of this please?

posted Sun 3, Jan 2010 at 10:49pm

Where do i begin.....in september my ex finished with me after being together for six months and we fell in love with eachother (there was an 8yr age gap....21 and 29 me being the eldest). There w...

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Making a Commitment

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs & Jealousy

What do I do now?

posted Wed 21, Apr 2010 at 4:17pm

I have just recently split up with my husband of 10 years, we have been together for 13 years in total. We are very lucky and have 2 wonderful children together. Throughout our married life we re...

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Affairs & Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs & Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs & Jealousy

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

She left me but is she using me?

posted Thu 28, Mar 2013 at 12:17pm

Hi My girlfreind of 12 years recently left me, with our 3 yr old son, saying she was unhappy and that she did love me but 'not like that anymore' Before she left she stayed at the house for a...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together
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