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Neighbor scaring me

posted Thu 29, Sep 2016 at 3:01am

Hi, I'm just looking for some opinions on something going on right now with my neighbor. I'm happily married 4 years, we have two kids, things with my husband and I are overall good. We have kno...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Long term relationship; should I be leaving for good?

posted Thu 29, Sep 2016 at 1:39am

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We've been together in high school and we're now in our freshman year of college. Our relationship has had many ups and downs and when I probably...

Tags: long-term relationships,advice,asap,boyfriend,leave or stay
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

What do I do

posted Thu 29, Sep 2016 at 12:52am

Me and my partner have been together for 7 years we have 3 children and one on the way the relationship doesn't feel like a relationship we don't sleep together we sleep separate we don't do anythi...

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Bringing up Children Together, A Psychologist's Perspective

I want to read between the lines...Should I?

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 7:54pm

We've known each other for 2 1/2 yrs. We met thru my work. We live 5 hrs apart. She is a 1st Responder and I'm in outside sales. For the last 12 mos, we've spoken regularly and visited each month. ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

IS MY WIFE STARTING TO HAVE AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR?

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 5:13pm

I busted my wife sexting in 2011 with a day care provider. She was complaining that were weren't connecting at the time which is true. The way she went about the whole thing initially was to cast a...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Hate Mornings and morning talks

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 2:30pm

I have a particular situation. I am NOT a morning person. I would rather spend my drive to work focusing on work, instead of talking about random nothings with my mate. The result of this is a morn...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Mixed Families

Choosing between wife and daughter

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 5:54am

My man who is an amazing boyfriend and father can't figure out how to juggle his six year old daughters needs and me as his potential wife. Not only do i go through baby mama drama but we have to p...

Tags: love,daughter,distance,choices,happiness,selfish,job,income
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Work, Living Apart Together

Interacacial sex

posted Mon 26, Sep 2016 at 12:13pm

All i think about is interacial sex (black men with white women) im white btw im not being over confident but i have good build n genrally quiet good looking most women think anyway. it stemed ...

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Money, Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Having a Child with Additional Needs, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Need advice

posted Mon 26, Sep 2016 at 1:34am

I have a long distance relationship from 4 years. My partner has a business and that's the reason that he can't move. Also I'm a single mother and I'm trying to give my best for my son. When we sta...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

posted Sun 25, Sep 2016 at 6:37pm

He lives in the US and I live in Germany, but we’re both from the same country, although he’s also an american citizen. He’s pursuing a PhD. He says he wants to come to Germany after he gets his de...

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Making a Commitment, Life transitions, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

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Advice please?

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 3:06pm

Hi there, i am a young mum of 19 and i have a 5 month little girl, i have been with her dad for almost 2 years but he wont get serious and isnt really interested in our daughter as she was a mistak...

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Becoming a Parent, Making a Commitment

Has he fallen out of Love with me?

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 4:38pm

I've been with my boyfriend for about 2years and 2months, and i love him, so so much. But the past 6 months has been up and down all the time,but recently it's been a nightmare! He said to me 3 mon...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

problems with guy please help?

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 6:18pm

ok so i have been talking to a guy who i met online for about 8 months now but he is quite a lot older than me i am 17 and he is 31 and has been single for 6 years , and i dont think he is a playe...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Can I trust her

posted Sun 4, Oct 2009 at 1:35am

This is a two fold problem . Our relation is up and down, My Fiance of 19 months always expresses her self by swearing. Last week we wen out to a Casino with friends and every second word was fowl,...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Fallen out of love

posted Sun 4, Oct 2009 at 2:54pm

What do you do when after being with somebody for 29 years and you find out over a period of time that you don't really have anything in common anymore, that you have drifted apart so much your pa...

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Money, Getting on Better with my Partner

Am I being unreasonable

posted Sun 4, Oct 2009 at 7:15pm

I met my new boyfriend a month 5 weeks ago in a club back home in the North-East after an hour of him staring at me and going red he finally plucked up the courage to ask me out on a date, we have ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

a bit scared about the future...

posted Sun 4, Oct 2009 at 11:23pm

Usually when i read articles about relationship issues - i read recomendations like u should be more tolerant to each other, be more caring and explain to your partner how much you love this person...

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Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

So confussed

posted Mon 5, Oct 2009 at 10:09am

Please help, have no idea who to turn to for some unbiased advice. Been with my partner for 10 years, we have a child together. It has been a very fragile relationship for the majority of that t...

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Making a Commitment

i'm worried my boyfriend is cheating on me :(

posted Mon 5, Oct 2009 at 10:25am

So I did something I thought I'd never do. I've met someone on an online gay dating site, I never thought I would but I did. I spoke to him online for a good month and a bit before i got the con...

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Affairs and Jealousy

I just dont know!!

posted Mon 5, Oct 2009 at 3:10pm

Well I just dont know where to begin. I have been dating my boyfriend for the last 9 months and two weeks ago my tenancy was up on my house and we had discussed us moving in together. He had asked...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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