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How I Got My Ex Back Instantly And Made Him Love Me The More

posted Fri 23, Jun 2017 at 11:14pm

I have been through hell ever since my ex left me 6 months ago, All my efforts to get him back through 3 different spell casters failed until I met Dr purity, He help me bring my ex and the joy of...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Sex and Affairs

I have no idea what to think about this new person...?

posted Fri 23, Jun 2017 at 8:09pm

Hi. I met a man several weeks ago, while I was on business out of town. We talked. I felt a strong pull to him and connection. Also what I noticed was how calm I felt in his presence, which is odd...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Confused continued

posted Wed 21, Jun 2017 at 11:02pm

Been dating in our 50's 2yrs. Go for wonderful weekends away we really enjoy each others company. Yet every 8 or so weeks he goes on plenty of fish probably 2 days in a row for 10 mins. Usually aft...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

my boyfriend called our baby annoying

posted Tue 20, Jun 2017 at 2:35am

My boyfriend and I both work and we have a 9 month old baby together. Very rarely if the babysitter cant come one of us will watch her. Today he had to watch her and it is always a huge job for him...

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Becoming a Parent, Friends & Family, Bringing up Children Together, A Psychologist's Perspective

Lost...

posted Mon 19, Jun 2017 at 8:01pm

I'm 28 mom of 3 going on 4, married, a homemaker. My husband is 25 and works construction for the last 6 or so years. He is definitely my soul mate, but lately it hasn't been feeling like that. ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Trouble in bed

posted Sat 17, Jun 2017 at 8:51am

Ok me and my boyfriend have been together almost 7 years with only one break up and make up with each other. We both live in the same town just not with each other, but we are making plans to mov...

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Sex and Affairs

My boyfriend feels like a roommate.

posted Fri 16, Jun 2017 at 8:07am

Hello, thank you all for taking the time to read this, I'm sorry but it it going to be quite long, but I do feel like this might help me. So, I have been dating my boyfriend for a year, and aft...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Silent Treatment

posted Fri 16, Jun 2017 at 1:42am

I've been with my husband for 7 years, married for almost 4. It is the second marriage for both of us, and my 15 yo son has autism. Early on in our relationship, he would completely shut down for a...

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Having a Child with Additional Needs, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships

Heart broken, and Confused

posted Tue 13, Jun 2017 at 3:11am

I have been dating my guy for 7 years . I been engaged three times we never lived together but he managed to get his own place without me never seeing where he stayed. There has been a lot of good ...

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Bringing up Children Together, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

A drastic change in relationship. I need help.

posted Mon 12, Jun 2017 at 3:02pm

First thing first, my boyfriend and I met online and have been together for about a year and a half. We lived close but it was still a moderate distance away. Before we "physically" got together we...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Sex and Affairs

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I don't know if he wants me anymore :(

posted Wed 30, Sep 2009 at 10:25pm

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we met off a dating site. He live's 80 mile away from me but at the begining of the relationship he was doing all the chasing and would come down straigh...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Can an email friend be a threat to our relationship?

posted Thu 1, Oct 2009 at 2:18pm

My wife has a male friend who she corresponds with using email. She had kept this a secret from me but told me recently. I am grateful that she found someone to give her the confidence and support ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

what should i do

posted Thu 1, Oct 2009 at 10:25pm

for the past 3 weekend my girl has said she dosent know whether she loves me or not. and this weekend i think shes being really serious. but the way she has been talking to me is as if she want...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Is this the end?

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 11:26am

My husband recently started a new job which takes him away from home for a couple of weeks at a time. After his first trip he came home and we just could not connect anymore. I was overly attentiv...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

he lied to me....

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 12:47pm

i have been with my bf for just over a year now, the first six months of our relationship we were having an affair, both our relationships had brokendown and what started out as support and friends...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Advice please?

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 3:06pm

Hi there, i am a young mum of 19 and i have a 5 month little girl, i have been with her dad for almost 2 years but he wont get serious and isnt really interested in our daughter as she was a mistak...

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Becoming a Parent, Making a Commitment

Has he fallen out of Love with me?

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 4:38pm

I've been with my boyfriend for about 2years and 2months, and i love him, so so much. But the past 6 months has been up and down all the time,but recently it's been a nightmare! He said to me 3 mon...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

problems with guy please help?

posted Fri 2, Oct 2009 at 6:18pm

ok so i have been talking to a guy who i met online for about 8 months now but he is quite a lot older than me i am 17 and he is 31 and has been single for 6 years , and i dont think he is a playe...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Can I trust her

posted Sun 4, Oct 2009 at 1:35am

This is a two fold problem . Our relation is up and down, My Fiance of 19 months always expresses her self by swearing. Last week we wen out to a Casino with friends and every second word was fowl,...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Fallen out of love

posted Sun 4, Oct 2009 at 2:54pm

What do you do when after being with somebody for 29 years and you find out over a period of time that you don't really have anything in common anymore, that you have drifted apart so much your pa...

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Money, Getting on Better with my Partner

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Really long term relationship with major issues

posted Sun 8, Jun 2014 at 4:13pm

My heart goes out to all of you whose posts I read about problems in relationships of a few years or even a few months. Looking at it from the long perspective (over 40 years) I wish you all co...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

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