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Neighbor scaring me

posted Thu 29, Sep 2016 at 3:01am

Hi, I'm just looking for some opinions on something going on right now with my neighbor. I'm happily married 4 years, we have two kids, things with my husband and I are overall good. We have kno...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Long term relationship; should I be leaving for good?

posted Thu 29, Sep 2016 at 1:39am

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We've been together in high school and we're now in our freshman year of college. Our relationship has had many ups and downs and when I probably...

Tags: long-term relationships,advice,asap,boyfriend,leave or stay
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

What do I do

posted Thu 29, Sep 2016 at 12:52am

Me and my partner have been together for 7 years we have 3 children and one on the way the relationship doesn't feel like a relationship we don't sleep together we sleep separate we don't do anythi...

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Bringing up Children Together, A Psychologist's Perspective

I want to read between the lines...Should I?

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 7:54pm

We've known each other for 2 1/2 yrs. We met thru my work. We live 5 hrs apart. She is a 1st Responder and I'm in outside sales. For the last 12 mos, we've spoken regularly and visited each month. ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

IS MY WIFE STARTING TO HAVE AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR?

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 5:13pm

I busted my wife sexting in 2011 with a day care provider. She was complaining that were weren't connecting at the time which is true. The way she went about the whole thing initially was to cast a...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Hate Mornings and morning talks

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 2:30pm

I have a particular situation. I am NOT a morning person. I would rather spend my drive to work focusing on work, instead of talking about random nothings with my mate. The result of this is a morn...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Mixed Families

Choosing between wife and daughter

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 5:54am

My man who is an amazing boyfriend and father can't figure out how to juggle his six year old daughters needs and me as his potential wife. Not only do i go through baby mama drama but we have to p...

Tags: love,daughter,distance,choices,happiness,selfish,job,income
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Work, Living Apart Together

Interacacial sex

posted Mon 26, Sep 2016 at 12:13pm

All i think about is interacial sex (black men with white women) im white btw im not being over confident but i have good build n genrally quiet good looking most women think anyway. it stemed ...

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Money, Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Having a Child with Additional Needs, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Need advice

posted Mon 26, Sep 2016 at 1:34am

I have a long distance relationship from 4 years. My partner has a business and that's the reason that he can't move. Also I'm a single mother and I'm trying to give my best for my son. When we sta...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

posted Sun 25, Sep 2016 at 6:37pm

He lives in the US and I live in Germany, but we’re both from the same country, although he’s also an american citizen. He’s pursuing a PhD. He says he wants to come to Germany after he gets his de...

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Making a Commitment, Life transitions, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

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wether i should accept him or leave all my dreams with him ? i am so confuse and prob the most stupid person you have ever met.. but heh this is love and now i truley believe LOVE IS BLIND.

posted Thu 17, Sep 2009 at 7:38am

hey everyone please excuse my english and i hope u all understand what i am trying tu say. wen i was 16 [2 yearz bck) - free single , alwz wanted tu hve a bf who can treat me like a princess ...

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Making a Commitment

This is the end, rock botom and no more communication

posted Fri 18, Sep 2009 at 8:17pm

We have been together for 14 y and on our anniversary 2 days ago, my partner was feeling very depressed about his work. He tends to drink too much in doors,and drinks everyday. He will binge dr...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

broken up after 16 years

posted Sat 19, Sep 2009 at 8:34am

hi,mypartner and i have broken up after 16 years together. we have 3 children. the last 3/4 years probably haven,t been great and there has been many arguments, disputes and not much talking bet...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

End it or not??

posted Sun 20, Sep 2009 at 8:13am

Hi,will condense this as best as possible.Been seperated for 5 months and have 7 children.Still a constant battle with the children as they are not liking the fact that Mum cheated and is now pregn...

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Making a Commitment

Relationship crisis with new baby

posted Sun 20, Sep 2009 at 10:05am

My partner and I met over a year ago and found our we were pregnant 6 weeks into the relationship. We decided to go for it, as he promised to continue to support me if things didn't work out. We mo...

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Becoming a Parent, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

chat rooms

posted Sun 20, Sep 2009 at 12:09pm

I'm new to this site and to be honest i dont know where to start.. i have been married for 7 years have been with my husband for 10 years. we used to be so close we have never had anything in commo...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

help am i being paranoid in this dating game.

posted Mon 21, Sep 2009 at 11:16pm

I have just started seeing a new guy 18 months after my ex husband left me and my 2 daughters (5 and 2) for another woman. I keep thinking the worst now that something is going to go wrong.........

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Affairs and Jealousy

how do you deal with jealousy? need help with mine!

posted Tue 22, Sep 2009 at 10:34am

Morning everyone, I am struggling! I am 26, and living with my partner of a year. I love him more than anything else in the world. In the beginning I moved in with him, moving out of my area ...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Lonely & Scared

posted Tue 22, Sep 2009 at 11:43am

Hi everyone, I am new to this site-I hope someone can help me please. I have been living with my partner for 5 years and everything(I thought) was great, he proposed to me in May this year and I...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Worried....

posted Wed 23, Sep 2009 at 3:33pm

Help i need some advice, I tried yesterday, but no one answered!!!! Okay so here goes, my partner and I have been together nearly 5 years. I have just come back from holiday with the girls and...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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