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HPV high risk from my ex...

posted Sat 23, May 2015 at 9:02am

Hi I am new here and I want to share my experience regarding HPV I did Pap exam in 2014 and they found some anomalies and my Dr. told me to do HPV test. I did it and came out with HPV increased...

Tags: hpv,human papilloma virus,std
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

Am I just being paranoid ?

posted Sat 23, May 2015 at 4:13am

I'm worried my boyfriend might be talking to someone else. He is secretive with his phone. If he is on his phone and I try to go near him he is very quick to click back to the home screen, away fro...

Tags: Snapchat,worried,Internet,cheating
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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships

Help!! In long term relationship but in love with someone else.

posted Fri 22, May 2015 at 10:52pm

Before I start, I'm new to all of this and at the end of my tether. Please don't judge me or be nasty. So I'm in a long term relationship of over 10 years (we met young.) we have been on and off...

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Sex and Affairs

time to be worried or not

posted Fri 22, May 2015 at 6:34pm

Hi all, I am new to this site but have some concerns or is it just me. Ive been married to my wife for about 10yrs now. Recently I tranfered a file to her email as my pc wouldnt print she then got...

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Everything comes second to his son

posted Fri 22, May 2015 at 1:13pm

So I'm aware (from my research on the internet) that this is a very sensitive topic. I'm probably going to be called a lot of names and made to feel really crappy about myself, but here goes anyway...

Tags: children,baby mother,drama,jealousy
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Finding Time for Each Other, Mixed Families, Life transitions

Is enough enough?

posted Thu 21, May 2015 at 6:42pm

Hello everyone and a massive thank you in advance for any help you are able to give. I will come clean and admit that this, like all relationship problems, is a bit of a long and complicated one. ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

How to deal with prozac induced ED

posted Thu 21, May 2015 at 3:54am

I have been living with my very sweet boyfriend for a year now. I love him very much. There is only one thing that Im not really happy about...he has ED and is basically impotent due to some side a...

Tags: ED
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Sex/Intimacy and romance

i need advice please !!!

posted Wed 20, May 2015 at 6:12pm

i'm in love with a person in other country on internet ( maybe is weird but i saw that there are many stories like me on internet ) and i love him lot he love me too and we plan to meet in futur is...

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My partner struggles to trust me because of how we met

posted Wed 20, May 2015 at 2:10pm

Hi, I am 26 and have been dating my fella, Joe (aged 24) for around 5 months now. We got together in a very sticky way. Basically, I was in a relationship with my fellas colleague, Chris for 3 y...

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How do I make wife forget about her ex she never mentioned before ?

posted Wed 20, May 2015 at 8:52am

Hi we have been married for 7 years and really love my wife. Initial marriage period was quite stressful and it was all about her expectations from the marriage. I found them quite unreasonable and...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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I think i want to be friends with my girlfriend

posted Wed 28, Mar 2012 at 2:26pm

Me and my girlfriend are both 18 and have been going out for about 3 years now, we live together and everything was basically okay apart from the obvious occasional arguments. but everythings chang...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is walking away for the best?

posted Thu 29, Mar 2012 at 7:24pm

I really don't know what to do. I'm 19 and have been with my boyfriend for the past 4 years, we currently live together at university. We've been together since I was 15 and I've never had another ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family

Feeling trapped and don't know what to do

posted Mon 2, Apr 2012 at 9:46am

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 8 years and we have three wonderful children together I love her very much but with the relationship as it is I am becoming more and more miserable...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

How to move on from the past and learn to trust again ?

posted Tue 3, Apr 2012 at 4:12pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. But right from 6 weeks into the relationship I discovered that he had a tendency to send flirty texts, emails and have flirty conversation...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

My pregnant girlfriend won't talk to me

posted Wed 4, Apr 2012 at 3:52pm

hi guys im new to all this  im really lost and looking for any advise and feedback even if its that i am the one who is wrong its a long story but bare with me. i knew my girlfriend or ex not reall...

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Becoming a Parent, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

the same argument week after week

posted Fri 6, Apr 2012 at 4:00pm

I have been with my partner for 6 years and have begun planning our wedding for next year. I love him so much and our relationship is completely perfect appart from one thing. The housework. Grow...

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Housework, Getting on Better with my Partner

How do I get her back?

posted Thu 5, Apr 2012 at 3:47pm

I recently started seeing a girl (2months ago) we were seeing eachother a couple of times a week and talking every day.Things were amazing, we were both saying how well matched we were and we could...

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feel my wifes social life means more to her than I do :(

posted Wed 4, Apr 2012 at 4:01pm

hi, My wife is always going out clubing with her work friends, I hate it and it had driven me mad to the point of depression (which she knows about). I didnt used to mid but then it kept getting...

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Affairs and Jealousy

20 Year Old Couple Who Never Has Sex...

posted Mon 9, Apr 2012 at 7:48am

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. Throughout our relationship it has always been hard for him to get an erection, and if he does he can't remain hard throughout. Over th...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Help!

posted Thu 5, Apr 2012 at 11:05am

I have been married since 1991, we have 4 children. My husband has always been the life and soul of any party and he enjoys being in the limelight. About 15 years ago we held a party and although I...

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Affairs and Jealousy

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