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PLEASE HELP!

posted Wed 22, Oct 2014 at 5:08pm

Okay people- be prepared for a long post! I already know what most of you will say- get out!!! But it is so much easier said than done, when you are in love with someone. I am a 23 year old f...

Tags: boyfriend,girlfriend,age gap,love,lies,cheat
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Common issue?? Sex life,reward if found!

posted Wed 22, Oct 2014 at 1:15am

Hi there just looking for some advise,stories,scenario's etc... Me & my Girlfriend have been together since we were 16 (now 20/21) and staying at her mum's for the previous 2 years together,everyt...

Tags: teen,sex,couple,sex drive,libido
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

Wife's sex drive has changed

posted Tue 21, Oct 2014 at 10:07pm

My wife and i had great sex life and anything went but now have a 7 month old baby so understandably her sex drive has changed. We still do have sex but she basically lets me get on with it so i do...

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Sex and Affairs

Should I wait it out....

posted Tue 21, Oct 2014 at 9:59pm

2 years ago I started having an affair. I made the decision to leave my family for the other man. He filled in what I was missing in my relationship with my husband. We were together for 6 months h...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Sex and Affairs

Not sure what to think

posted Tue 21, Oct 2014 at 7:20pm

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have had many ups and downs from the start, but we get along fine. We live together and get on well, have a laugh, share similar tastes in music/films ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Should I forgive my ex or not?

posted Tue 21, Oct 2014 at 1:23pm

Hello, I hope you don’t mind, when the story gets a bit long.  Prologue: It all began with the fact that me and my friend both liked the same girl. I am usually very choosy, when it comes t...

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Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

False hope?

posted Tue 21, Oct 2014 at 11:48am

Hi, I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 29 and works in the armed forces, we met online 1 1/2 years ago have connected so well, though we saw each very occasionally due to him been based 3 hours away from w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Word from the street, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

Need some advice on what to do

posted Tue 21, Oct 2014 at 11:02am

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now. We don't live together. Cmon we're just two teens. He's a nice guy. Usually blur at times but he shows u affection no matter what. He's a pla...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

Long term relationship breaking down

posted Tue 21, Oct 2014 at 8:18am

Hi there, i really need some advice. Im 30 and I've been with my partner who is 29, now Fiancée for over 10 years and living together for over 5. Our relationship has had a few up and down's like ...

Tags: long term problems,relationship breakdown,depression
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

i am a horrible woman who doesnt deserve happiness

posted Tue 21, Oct 2014 at 8:03am

I will try and keep this as brief as possible. I am a 29 year old woman, been with male partner for 11 years, married for 4 years and have an 11 month old daughter. When my daughter was 4 months ol...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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im very confused

posted Tue 18, Oct 2011 at 11:35am

basically 5 years ago me and my partner had our 2nd daughter, before she got to a year old we had best friends who were husband and wife, we had them stay over once with their children i put the ki...

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Don't think My Partner Fancies Me

posted Tue 18, Oct 2011 at 2:02pm

Hello, This is the first time I've posted so here goes..... I am in a very loving relationship of 19 mths, where my partner 'adores' me, always kisses me. hugs me, and tells me I'm the best t...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Should I Let Him?

posted Wed 19, Oct 2011 at 1:19am

My boyfriend works seasonally, being off work during the winter. When my sister got married, he suggested we take her, my brother in law, there year old son and ourselves down to Arizona as a weddi...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Second thoughts on having a baby

posted Mon 24, Oct 2011 at 10:56pm

I met my boyfriend at work 'm 33 and he's 43 and we've been together 3 months. We spent time getting to know each other at work and became intimate after a month. He asked me if I wanted kids and I...

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Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together

have i made the right decision?

posted Fri 6, Jul 2012 at 1:11am

okay im in my teens and need help... so me and this boy Michael started going out on the 12/06/12…. we were soo in love!! he was my world… we had a brief split about a week into our relationship b...

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Making a Commitment

Am I attempting the impossible? (Affair Aftermath)

posted Thu 26, Jul 2012 at 10:36pm

Hi All I am looking for advise from anyone who have been through a similair situation to me. I have been with my girlfriend for 13yrs and we were madly in love and each others bestfriend. Pra...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is he still into me?

posted Fri 21, Sep 2012 at 1:11am

Hey there, I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and things were great. We talked about getting married after I finished school, we made plans about living together, and we would always...

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Finding Time for Each Other

Confused

posted Wed 26, Sep 2012 at 5:13pm

So I need advice from someone who is not biased or doesn't know me as I am so confused on what to do.. Well here goes.. I've known this boy since I was a teen - 12 years old as we went to High Sch...

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Help

posted Wed 26, Sep 2012 at 11:06am

I have shared joint custody of my twelve year old daughter with my x wife for eight years. I worked shifts and have been able to take my daughter up to fifteen nights per month. We have a great rel...

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Affairs and Jealousy

First post

posted Fri 28, Sep 2012 at 6:15am

Hi I'm 21 years old.. My wife and I have been married for roughly a year and a half... We've had our ups and downs.. Like an relationship.. A few months back I had found out my wife was hanging out...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

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