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What do I do?

posted Tue 29, Jul 2014 at 9:38am

Ok long post alert... So I have been with my partner for 2 years (although we were dating 4 years ago in May 2010 and were very much besotted straight away but I had a job lined up in Australia...

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Becoming a Parent, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

Her dodgy past, what do you think?

posted Tue 29, Jul 2014 at 9:22am

Hi. Just looking for some advice. I have been with my wife for 18 months. Married for 3. I knew she was a little wild in her younger years (she is 40 I'm 35) Raves and drugs etc. She has tw...

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Becoming a Parent, Getting on Better with my Partner

Mind is a Mess.. Impartial Advice Would be Greatly Received!

posted Tue 29, Jul 2014 at 8:00am

Hi all, It's my first time posting here.. I just needed to speak to people that didn't know me or my partner for some impartial advice before my head explodes! I know my post is a little long, b...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

Can you stay friends??

posted Tue 29, Jul 2014 at 4:55am

Me and my Ex partner have recently spilt, and we ended on good terms. We have stayed very close as friends, nothing more, he still calls and texts me and tells me what his daily/weekly plans are an...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

please help! :(

posted Tue 29, Jul 2014 at 12:11am

I am 21 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. We are childhood friends and have always been close. We started dating when we were in our last year of high school, and I a...

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Making a Commitment

Will my husband come back to me after a separation

posted Mon 28, Jul 2014 at 10:06pm

Hi all, I'm in a terrible dilemma. We've been married for 20 years with 2 teenage children. I've recently found out that my husband has been having an affair with my friend. They have been seei...

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Bringing unwelcomed ppl into your home.

posted Mon 28, Jul 2014 at 6:51pm

My BF and I have a 6 month old baby. We have been together 3 years. In those 3 years he has had multiple affairs with multiple women. I "forgave" him and what not. To be honest i hate his guts bu...

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The Guy at my Girlfriend's work... is there something going on?

posted Mon 28, Jul 2014 at 4:39pm

So I have a fairly new relationship with a girl (4 months) that has been going great so far. At least until now... My girlfriend's dryer at her place hasn't been working right for a while. A cow...

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Need women and men's advice please.

posted Mon 28, Jul 2014 at 3:26pm

I started dating this amazing woman I actually knew from a long time and ran across her a few months ago. Everything had been great we really have enjoyed each other these past few months. We are...

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Should I Stay or Should I Go...

posted Mon 28, Jul 2014 at 3:14pm

Hi, After some advice. I've been with my partner for 14 years, unmarried. Both now in our 40's. She had a son who was 4 when we met who I've brought up as my own. We also had a daughter who is n...

Tags: Facebook,relationship,cheat,secrets
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Affairs and Jealousy, Life transitions

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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lying why cant i stop

posted Fri 11, Jan 2013 at 7:07pm

why cant i stop lying, my wife is so honest and up front and i always know where i stand with her but i cant stop lying, but i only do it to stop people getting hurt. our relationship is at breakin...

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Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner

confused and in need of advice

posted Thu 3, Jan 2013 at 11:57am

Hi all, This is my first time posting and I am desperately in need of your thoughts or advice. I have been with my partner for 5 and a half years and we have lived together for most of that t...

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please help

posted Sat 12, Jan 2013 at 7:13am

Ok...i know this may sound bad but I'm very serious n need someones help. I have been with my bf for almost 6 months now. We've talked for bout 3 years over phone n computer...well here's my pro...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

relationship coming to end...can it be salvaged ? or im i doing the right thing to run !

posted Tue 15, Jan 2013 at 10:20pm

We have been together coming up to two years, we are now near a break up, due to money again! I suggested a joint account once children come along, he said no just a joint savings account but that ...

Tags: money,children,finance,support
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Money, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together

Communication problems

posted Wed 16, Jan 2013 at 10:14pm

I have been with my boyfriend 18 months and we have communication problems since the start. When we argue we spend days without talking to each other just for silly arguments.I always try to sort t...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Need Advice

posted Thu 17, Jan 2013 at 9:12pm

Ihave been married for 30 years, and i know that most of you will probably say that sex, intamcy etc all go out the window. I met my husband when I was 15 and thought he would be the love of ny li...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Anxiety about moving out and leaving my mother

posted Tue 22, Jan 2013 at 4:21pm

I'm nearly 25, and have been with my partner for several years. We have very recently had an offer accepted on a house which is about a 20 minute drive away from where I live now, which is with my ...

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Friends & Family

Struggling to Cope

posted Sat 12, Jan 2013 at 10:29pm

Hey guys. I'm 18 and my girlfriend of 2 and 1/3 years broke up with me on the 27th of December. It's safe to say I was devastated, it came as a total shock, there were next to no signs it was going...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

I(23/f) am having relationship issues with my boyfriend(28/m)

posted Fri 18, Jan 2013 at 1:39pm

submitted 1 hour ago by francepan I've been in a relationship with my colleague for about three months so far. But during these 3 months, things haven't been smooth for us. There have be...

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Work, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Scared that my girlfriend may be slipping away

posted Mon 21, Jan 2013 at 7:09pm

Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly two years now and the relationship has been amazing, we've had our ups and downs but who doesn't? She's at university and lives 100 odd miles away...

Tags: Confused,Jobs,Commitment
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Work, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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