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Help me i feel so lost!

posted Sun 25, Jun 2017 at 10:55pm

I'm having relationship problems and i really dont know what to do. I've been in the relationship for nearly 5 years but the problems started 3 years ago when I caught my boyfriend texting sexual t...

Tags: cheating,insecure,dying love,love of my life,boyfriend
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Sex and Affairs

Should I breakup?

posted Sun 25, Jun 2017 at 11:42am

Hi ! This is E. I saw this forum and I wanted to share my story with you. This seemed never good but now I realize this might be helpful. My boyfriend and I are not in our best days. Well he has be...

Tags: Breaking,separate,depressed
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A Psychologist's Perspective

I have no idea what to think about this new person...?

posted Fri 23, Jun 2017 at 8:09pm

Hi. I met a man several weeks ago, while I was on business out of town. We talked. I felt a strong pull to him and connection. Also what I noticed was how calm I felt in his presence, which is odd...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Confused continued

posted Wed 21, Jun 2017 at 11:02pm

Been dating in our 50's 2yrs. Go for wonderful weekends away we really enjoy each others company. Yet every 8 or so weeks he goes on plenty of fish probably 2 days in a row for 10 mins. Usually aft...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

my boyfriend called our baby annoying

posted Tue 20, Jun 2017 at 2:35am

My boyfriend and I both work and we have a 9 month old baby together. Very rarely if the babysitter cant come one of us will watch her. Today he had to watch her and it is always a huge job for him...

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Becoming a Parent, Friends & Family, Bringing up Children Together, A Psychologist's Perspective

Lost...

posted Mon 19, Jun 2017 at 8:01pm

I'm 28 mom of 3 going on 4, married, a homemaker. My husband is 25 and works construction for the last 6 or so years. He is definitely my soul mate, but lately it hasn't been feeling like that. ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Trouble in bed

posted Sat 17, Jun 2017 at 8:51am

Ok me and my boyfriend have been together almost 7 years with only one break up and make up with each other. We both live in the same town just not with each other, but we are making plans to mov...

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Sex and Affairs

My boyfriend feels like a roommate.

posted Fri 16, Jun 2017 at 8:07am

Hello, thank you all for taking the time to read this, I'm sorry but it it going to be quite long, but I do feel like this might help me. So, I have been dating my boyfriend for a year, and aft...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Silent Treatment

posted Fri 16, Jun 2017 at 1:42am

I've been with my husband for 7 years, married for almost 4. It is the second marriage for both of us, and my 15 yo son has autism. Early on in our relationship, he would completely shut down for a...

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Having a Child with Additional Needs, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships

Heart broken, and Confused

posted Tue 13, Jun 2017 at 3:11am

I have been dating my guy for 7 years . I been engaged three times we never lived together but he managed to get his own place without me never seeing where he stayed. There has been a lot of good ...

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Bringing up Children Together, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

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I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Most Commented

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Should I wait - commitment phobe?

posted Thu 11, Mar 2010 at 3:20pm

I (aged 34) am at my wits end at the moment, I rented with my boyfriend (aged 28) for 18 months and we have been together for 3 years, we were about to move onto the next stage and get a mortgage a...

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Making a Commitment

Boyfriend's Family Get-togethers and Mum

posted Sat 13, Mar 2010 at 7:45pm

I was wondering if anyone else has been in a similar situation and maybe can help me out...I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years to start off with. He had just got out of a 4 year re...

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Friends & Family

Friends of the opposite sex

posted Sun 14, Mar 2010 at 1:59am

Hi im new to all this so please bare with me. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and we are usually very close. Since he has been at college he has made many friends and alot o...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family

Affair

posted Tue 16, Mar 2010 at 11:21am

Hi , i am new to this , my husband has been having an affair for the last 2 years , everytime i have confronted him , he just denies it ,he was now caught red handed with the other woman , and is s...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Not just one issue....(LONG)

posted Fri 19, Mar 2010 at 1:55am

I would love some advice. Im having some complicated marital problems. After a whirlwind romance of just 12 weeks, I became accidentally pregnant with my son who is now 4. It was far too soon-but ...

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Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Silly Me

posted Sat 20, Mar 2010 at 3:07pm

The thing is I have been with my partner now Fiance for over 2 years, everything was good at the start then we kind of become comfortable with the relationship now I am worried we will become to co...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Confused....Need Help...

posted Sun 21, Mar 2010 at 3:32am

Hi, Am 24. I've known this guy for almost 3 years now. We used to be best friends from the time we got to know each other. He was in a relationship at that time. However last year he had a break-u...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

should i forget his betrayal?

posted Sun 21, Mar 2010 at 9:25am

i am a woman hitting 30, married for the past 5 yrs to my university beau whom i dated for 4 yrs prior to marriage. 3 yrs into our courtship, he had revealed that he was not my equal in age as i be...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

I think our relationship won't last

posted Sun 21, Mar 2010 at 5:57pm

I married this boy, from a different community & 11 months younger to me going against my parents & every other relative. They had warned earlier that this wouldn't last long as the cultural differ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

What Next

posted Mon 29, Mar 2010 at 1:28pm

I met my violent first husband back in the mid eighties, my current husband got me out of that and we have been together almost 20 years married for 14 in that time he has never instigated sex and ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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