Innocent chat or something to be worried about?
I'm new here!! So hopefully i can get some good advice here.
The story goes...
My girlfriend joined Facebook about a month ago. This in itself is not a problem, i myself am on Facebook and it's great.
However, my girlfriend is becoming increasingly secretive when she is using the laptop of facebook.
Today i came home from work, put on the laptop and was about to log into facebook when an instant chat window from facebook popped up. This was a conversation between my girlfriend and an ex.
So i thought hmm... do i read it or not, i i went with read it. Rightly or wrongly i did.
What i found was a chat between the two of them that started of flirty then turned out to be them discussing their sexual conquests, how they both miss it and them wondering if they'll ever do it again. Then swapping phone numbers and promising to text each other!! This came as a bit of a shock to me bearing in mind we;ve been together over a year, live together and are engaged.
She is a very loving girlfriend most of the time, but she has always put the doubt in the back of my mind that she could be infaithful. Mainly because she flirts with people, doesn't like me to go out when she is out in town and wears very very little when she does go out. I'm 24, she's 21.
Any opinions on what i should do? Should i tell her what i saw on the laptop because she knows something is wrong with me but i'm keeping schtum at this time!