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I don't know what to do?

User-anonymous
Posted by: Anonymous
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Sat 29, Oct 2011 at 1:22am
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Affairs & Jealousy

I have benign married for 7years with my  husband, I have 4 beutyful children, for the last 2years he has become nightmare for me, He strat talking on the phone for longer, hiding his mobile phone if I ask to ues his fone  he yelle and say use ur house phone, and coming home very late like 4 or 5 in the morining, and weekend if I ask spend Sunday with ur family he say I have work to do and I know he doesn't work at weekend, and sometime   at night if I come next to him " say I am very sleepy  or  I am very upset with my life please leave me alone and if I ask  why are you upset with your life he says my parent my brothers and sisters have problem they want  money and I don't have enough money to give them. He was married before and has son.. I know one think for sure I was so stupid girl who didn't knew what is coming to my life, when ever I want to leave my children cried or if I say leave my house and my  life  he start blaming me and go to my mother saying to her your daughter kick me out I don't have mom u r my second mom please tel ur daughter I love my children and her help me mom. When my mom call or come my home she start crying n say u are my youngest and last girl please do what I ask u to do:( forgave ur man:( and because of my mom and kids I say ok but now everything is out of my hands my mom is very il and he doesn't help me with his children.. I don't know what to do I am all alone with kids...              

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  • User-anonymous Anonymous Flag

    SOUNDS LIKE U NEED TO TAKE A STAND.
    i WAS IN A SIMILAR SITUATION WHEN I WAS MARRIED AND MY EX HUSBAND WAS USELESS, MY FAMILY KEPT PUSHING ME BACK INTO THE SITUATION AND IT JUST KEPT GETTING WORSE, TO THE POINT WHERE I BECAME VERY ILL!
    I WAS SEEING A COUNSELLOR WHO WAS A GREAT HELP FOR ME AND SHE HELPED ME TO BECOME STRONG TO FIGHT MY CORNER, THE TRUTH IS ONLY U CAN FIGHT FOR UR LIFE, NO ONE ELSE REALLY CARES. I UNDERSTAND YR MOTHER IS ILL AND MY FATHER WAS ILL WHEN I WAS GOING THROUGH MY TROUBLES BUT IN THE END MY LIFE WAS WORTH MORE THAN WHAT EVERYONE WAS PUTTING ME THROUGH SO I TOOK I STAND.
    MY FATHER WAS FINE AND SO WAS EVERYONE ELSE , SO DONT ALLOW THE EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL TO GET THE BETTER OF U, GET SOME SUPPORT FROM FRIENDS WHO WILL UNDERSTAND U AND DONT LOOK BACK.
     
    GOOD LUCK
     

    Sat 29, Oct 2011 at 8:58pm
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