How to help us thrive
I am in a gay r/ship and have been with my current partner just over a year with a one month gap. We are living together. The problem is we're so different in how we deal with things on a r/ship level I can't help but feel paranoid that it may effect us badly in the long run if not destroy us altogether. We do love each other but there is no sex and we sleep separately. I want to know what to do before it becomes too late, I need to know how to deal with the anxieties involved, my insecurities and how to improve our communication.
I'm not 100% confident in discussing things in detail on an open forum and would prefer to discuss more personal things through pm if possible.