He's lost interest
My partner has completely lost interest in sex with me. To give you a background on our relationship, we have been together for 4 years but we broke up for just under a year during that time because he wasn't ready to commit. We have been back together for almost a year and we don't live together. Up until about 3 months ago we were having regular sex and were close and intimate. But since around Christmas things have been strained and we have only been intimate once in 3 months. We still cuddle but kissing and sex has been non-existent. I have addressed this with him and told him I'm worried but he just says all couples go this way after being together for a few years and that we're just going through 'a dry spell.' He says he's still attracted to me and that he's just stressed and busy with work so sex is the last thing on his mind. But I feel like we can't continue in a sexless relationship as it's important to me and I feel unattractive and frustrated emotionally and physically. It's really getting me down and it's got to the point where I'm losing interest in him and the relationship too as I can't see a future if it remains this way. I don't want to be in a 'friendship'. I'm really not sure what to do. Should I walk, or give it more time and effort?