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um high... im a university student in my second year studying away from home, but go back at weekends/ hols etc for work and visits. i've been with my boyfriend for 14 months (so we've made it through the first year of me being at uni). he is 22.
the problem is.. this year of me being at uni seems to be a bigger challenge for him. he admits he found last year hard, and so did i, but this year there were doubts about wether he would be 'strong enough' to cope with me being away since we practically spent each day together around my work times in the summer holz. we're giving it a go and hes been up staying with me the past few days but we werent communicating as well as we have done before and this caused an issue again.
* my first serious relationship *'in love' * can imagine a future with him and him being the daddy to my children.. he can imagine a future with me too. but it just seems so easy for him to have a mood swing, turn around and say 'we're done'....
help?!
** i darent mention the issue of facebook/jealousy on both sides!
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Seems to me like you both really do care for each other and actually want the relationship you two have. couples go through rough patches all the time, and sometimes that rough patch is caused by things you can't control, like distance. Yeah being away from each other might be hard, but just try to think of it like this, you can't change the fact that you're away at college, you CAN change the fact that you two are dating. So would it be better to be away from each other and NOT in a relationship? Or be in a relationship and know that you still have someone there, even if they are far away. You might both be going through mood swings, and bad times, but both of you would probably be worse if you were away from each other and you weren't in a relationship.
And I'm not sure what jealousy on facebook is going on, but that really should stop for the health of your relationship. I know it's not that easy though.
hope this helps. that's just my view, not saying it's correct.
thankyou.