At war with her sister...
I have been with my girl friend for about a year now and its my first lesbian relationship. We are happy, enjoy eachotehers company, and its the first time have both been in such a happy relationship. I am deeply in love with her but lately we have been having small issues here and there because of her sister. Before me and her decided to give "us" a go, me and her sister were very close. At the begining everything was good. Her sister hung out with us, no problems. Nothing. About 2 months ago my friendship with her sister ended. We made peace with eachother but we are no longer friends. I have noticed her sister picking fights with her and when they do fight her sister now has a tendancey to bring my name up and blame things on me. It bothers me to know that now she is giving my gf drama and making it seem as if thier issues have to do with me.I have tried to express my feelings twards this matter with my gf but we are not seeing eye to eye on this. I feel as if her sister is in a way trying to come in between our relationship and obviously this bothers me. Any advice on how to handle this. Im at a breaking point...
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Your right. I did have a chance to sit my gf down and explain to her my emotions and how i feel. We both came to an understanding and ive decided to keep my mouth shut and not pay those things any mind. Thanks for commenting... Your absolutely right...
Hey,
I can see why you are frustrated but i think you are letting it become an issue more than it actually is..Her sister has obviously not forgiven you for whatever it was and is trying to turn her sister against you which i know is not fair on you but don't let it get to you. You're girlfriend loves you and that is not going to change based on that her sister has to say. But if you keep getting worked up about it and arguing about it with your girlfriend it will put a strain on your relationship. You need to let them argue amongst themselves and if you're name comes up just let it go over your head, don't let it get to you and don't get involved. It will eventually stop, you just need to concentrate on making your girlfriend happy and doing what you enjoy together. When her sister sees that what she's is doing is not making any difference she will give up. I know it will be hard to bite your tongue to begin with but it will get easier and this will sort itself out. Theres nothing you can do or say right now that will stop all this.