Advise me what i should do
I don’t know where to begin. I’m 49 and I’ve been living with my partner for nearly 10years and we have a beautiful 9 year old girl.
I’ve lived with my partner and her other daughter and treated her like my own. The problem is a woman friend from 30 years ago contacted me in 2009 via face book, we had had a romance back in 1983 and we started to e-mail. She had moved to New Zealand and was writing from there telling me what had happened in her life. I told her and in some of the e-mails I explained that my partner was a little controlling and out physical relationship was nil some times I feel like I can do no right and i feel I only stay for my daughter as I never want to brake up her family.
Well she e-mails me a sexy scenario and I responded. This happen the once, but many more general e-mail when back and forth between us. . These e-mail petered out to one every 6-9 months and this was basically asking how things were has things changed, the last time we had any contact was in December 2011.
The problem is my partners 21 year old daughter has hacked into my face book account and read and down loaded the e-mails. We got into a fight over something silly as she had been having her go at her mum and she pipes up. You better watch it I know about your little dirty secret on face book messages. Her mum than asked what this and she went into detail. She had deleted the emails form my account and somehow downloaded them so I have no idea as to there content any more.
She’s kicked me out as she said I’ve cheated on her but I never rang this woman or contacted her in any other way.
Please tell me what I should do I love them both dearly and I’ve always looked after the step daughter too and do all I can for her.Im sick with worry and miss my 9 year old and my partner so much.
In hid sight is was a very stupid thing to do but in recent years I’ve leaned there more to relationships than sex. My relationship with may partner has improved as I never ask for sex and I’ve learned to live without.
She sys I’ve cheated on her and betrayed her, there was nothing other than the e-mails no calls no meetings but she thinks had she been in this country it would of become more.
Please advise me what to do.