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Dear Sadwife, Shocked and devastated are very strong feelings, and you relate them to his 'habitual lying' You are also wondering what his relationships with the two women you mention
Dear Max1609, It sounds like you do not want to be thinking, feeling and acting the way you are, over your husband's past behaviour. You seem convinced that he is
Thank you for your comments. I have gone to counselling and taken my partner to relate and private counselling...he is very defensive and was quite intimidating to the counsellors...or that
Dear RobWhite70 It sounds from your post has if you and your wife have lost the art of communication with each other and consequently now find it difficult to talk
Dear CEM7 It sounds from your post that you are struggling to try and keep things on an even keel but with very little support from your partner and family.
Dear Anonymous, It's a tough one where partner's children are concerned - especially spoilt ones, as if you do the disciplining you'll be the dragon! Have you talked it through
Dear Anonymous, I can feel your despondency and sadness about your relationship, and the effect it is having on your health. I also sense that you seem to have reached
The gall of the man work on "jealousy issues" while I just go and rekindle my ex love yeah sweeet ! Not Why are you doing all the work email
This man is like all the others who want to have lots of GF why the hell do they need them ? No but seriously WHY ? My BF was on
It's only natural to feel left out when the family are footing the bill and life dealt you a bad hand but now's your time ! You came through the
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Dear Sadwife, Shocked and devastated are very strong feelings, and...
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Dear RobWhite70 It sounds from your post has if you...
phone and online sex
hi i have just found out that my husband of 3 years has been having cyber and phonesex.He first did this about 2 months ago i was really upset and
posted by kazzy on 09 March 2010
I want to fight for this relationship, but it hurts so much to feel as though I'm doing it alone
I have known my partner since I was 16. I instantly fell in love with him. I'm now nearly 21 and have been living with him for nearly a year.
posted by CEM7 on 09 March 2010 | 1 comment
what do i do
hi im so mixed up at the moment my husband as been seeing someone that he was seeing a long time ago before we got marred. that he remet on
posted by cazzyap on 09 March 2010
Trapped again
Hi there, I have written before and have gotten some good advice but I am still in an emotionly abusive and controlling relationship and am slowly going out of my
posted by Anonymous on 09 March 2010 | 3 comments
On The Brink Of Disaster
I need to talk to someone outside of my marriage, my wife and i love each other but somehow are also on the brink of disaster, i feel we are
posted by RobWhite70 on 08 March 2010 | 1 comment
habitual lying
My husband of 28 years has lied to me repeatedly throughout our marriage. I truly want to save my marriage, but I keep being shocked an devastated by his lies.
posted by Sadwife on 08 March 2010 | 1 comment
Eaten away by insecurity
about 4 years ago I discovered by partner (now my husband) had been on internet contact sites and chat rooms, basically for cyber-sex with various women. I discovered this by
posted by MAX1609 on 07 March 2010 | 1 comment
Am i being to hard?
Not sure where to start?!?! I've been with my partner for a year & a half. He has a 5 year old to his ex-wife. I have moved in with
posted by Anonymous on 06 March 2010 | 1 comment
i honestly have no idea what to do
hello, i need some advice. i honestly have no idea what to do, at all, and im so depressed i keep crying and breaking down and i honestly can't cope
posted by amylaurenwalker44 on 06 March 2010 | 1 comment
i dont know what to do...
Ive been with my partner for 9 years. We have lived together for 3yrs and have a 1yr old daughter. My partner works long hours and im a stay at
posted by Anonymous on 04 March 2010 | 1 comment