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Relationship is failing, BF doesn't understand the problem

posted Wed 31, Jan 2018 at 10:10pm

I hope i can find someone who eill help me with this . I've been dating this guy witch is one year older than me (I'm 17 he's 18) and it's been going on for something like three months.At first eve...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Complications

posted Sun 28, Jan 2018 at 2:18pm

Hi all, I am here because I need advice and have no idea what to do. So basically I am in a relationship, we’ve been together for almost 2 years. However, recently stress has impacted us massively...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Mixed Families, Living Apart Together

Husband in fear of infidelity? Reoccuring nightmares!

posted Sun 28, Jan 2018 at 1:07am

It has been an ongoing thing that my husband has been having nightmares about me cheating and leaving him for somebody else. I would like to help him get over this fear because he wakes up thinking...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Am I overreacting for not believing my partner

posted Sat 27, Jan 2018 at 1:07pm

My live in boyfriend of 4 yrs and I came home from a night of hanging out at about 12.15am. There was already some tension between us from an unresolved matter three days prior. I went to shower ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Communications in relationships

Instagram likes and respect (betrayal of trust?)

posted Fri 26, Jan 2018 at 6:24pm

So i have been married for 5 years. I always trusted my husband and never thought he could betray me or disrespect me in amy way shape or form. He's my entire universe. We have 2 kids together. ...

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Affairs and Jealousy, A Psychologist's Perspective

Need advice with this ASAP

posted Thu 25, Jan 2018 at 12:01am

We’re both 19 and have been together for just over two years but lately my partner has been having second thoughts, and said she might want to end so she can concentrate on her uni work, as she is ...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

I need some help with this

posted Wed 24, Jan 2018 at 12:21am

Male here. I have to write this down. I need help to overcome. Meeting her first for real after online where she contacted me … we both fell in love as in the most magical moment in time – we w...

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Friends & Family, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Constant need for male approval?

posted Tue 23, Jan 2018 at 3:53pm

Hi there, Just wondering what’s wrong with me in all honesty, whether this is some kind of disorder or if I’m just weird! I’m 24 but I look about 17 (blonde, make up, go to the gym ect – I re...

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A Psychologist's Perspective

My relationship with my partner is breaking down rapidly

posted Tue 23, Jan 2018 at 3:17pm

I feel my relationship with my partner is going downhill since we relocated in september. We dont do anyhing together and every time i ask it seems forced. I do activities he likes for him but i wo...

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Communications in relationships

Partner’s father is dying - I am shut out

posted Mon 22, Jan 2018 at 1:07am

Hi everyone, I’ve been with my partner in a long distance relationship for 3.5 years (2 different countries in Europe). We have a 10 year age gap and are in our 30s and 40s. Our relationship has...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

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Girlfriend has Affection Issues

posted Wed 16, Nov 2011 at 6:53pm

Hi... Sorry, but this is a big one: My girlfriend, from what I know of, has had some very bad relationships in the past where they have either cheated or just walked out on her without any expla...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Sh!t or get off the pot. Is there something wrong or am I just crazy?

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 6:47am

I need help. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. We live together and spend most of our free time together. Lately I haven't been feeling quite right about our relationship. I'm i...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Can a man who beat his girl become normal again???

posted Sat 26, Nov 2011 at 4:33am

Hi First of all, just wanna precise that english is not my native tongue so I may do some mistakes in my writing, sorry about that. But still, I need advices so here I am. It s 2 years since I ve...

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Making a Commitment

I've had enough

posted Sun 27, Nov 2011 at 1:33pm

Yet again my partner has blocked me out, refusing to talk to me, giving me the silent treatment and all that entails. I have been with her for nearly 16 years and pretty much this is how she rea...

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My controlling relationship is bringing me down

posted Thu 1, Dec 2011 at 8:11pm

Hi, I have been with my partner for over 2 years now but just over a year ago I made a mistake and was unfaithful to him whilst he was abroad. I feel disgusted with what happened and would never ev...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner

how do I improve my sex life?

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 9:38pm

Hi i am 21 year old girl and my boyfriend is 22 we have been together for 7 months now. Our sex life was good at first but its kinda getting bored for my boyfriend in my opinion. I am not very exci...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

lost and confused.

posted Thu 15, Dec 2011 at 12:12pm

Hi folks, i stumbled over this site and was hoping to bend your cyber ears with my complicated relationship..any input would be more than welcome. Right here goes... im a 33 year old guy wh...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

time for a change?

posted Thu 15, Dec 2011 at 1:09pm

OK, what I'm about to write will probably make me look like a terrible/useless/indecisive person, but I really would appreciate some insights. Several years ago I asked out my current partner. W...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Lesbian heartbreak

posted Tue 27, Dec 2011 at 11:26pm

We have been together for 10 years mostly happy and content and get on fantastically... I have 3 kids now 27 24 and19 none living at home. My partner has 2 now 36 and 24 none living at home. Our ma...

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Am I being selfish?

posted Mon 2, Jan 2012 at 6:39am

I've been with my husband for nearly 9 years. We have been married 1 1/2 years. He's the first (and only) boyfriend I ever had and things used to be great. Unfortunately, in recent years I can't h...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 12:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 9:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 10:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Really long term relationship with major issues

posted Sun 8, Jun 2014 at 3:13pm

My heart goes out to all of you whose posts I read about problems in relationships of a few years or even a few months. Looking at it from the long perspective (over 40 years) I wish you all co...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner