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My boyfriend insists on group sex

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Posted by: Anonymous
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Fri 7, Apr 2017 at 2:56am
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

My name is Katie.

I'm 18 and still live with my parents but I stay at my boyfriends flat at weekends.  I've known him for two and a half years and we get on really well. He's 7 years older than me has a well paid job and is a bit flash and very confident. He's really hot and very experienced sexually and I never say no to him if he wants sex even if I don't feel like it as he really gets me going and I often experience very intense orgasms.

My problem is that he likes to watch and pleasure himself while seven of his mates take turns to have sex with me. He had been pestering me for months to let him watch me having group sex but I always refused him until one Sunday afternoon two months ago when I finally gave in and agreed to do it once to keep him happy.

He sent a few text messages and within about half an hour four of his mates turned up at the flat and within minutes they were having sex with me on the lounge floor while my boyfriend watched and pleasured himself. When his mates had finished my boyfriend had his turn and he was very turned on by it all.

I thought that it would be a one off and would get it out of his system but the following week his mates showed up without warning and I gave in to their demands when they began pressuring me into sex with them again. Now they just show up every week and there are seven of them as my boyfriend let three more of his mates join in.

I know I shouldn't really let it continue but I can see my boyfriend is really turned on by it and afterwards we have really great sex. I found out that on one of his mates 21st birthday party they hired a stripper and at they ended up all having sex with her for money and my boyfriend loved it and this probably started his interest but his previous girlfriends totally refused point blank to try it until he talked me into doing it.

He's really great in every other way and I would hate to lose him but I am wondering how long this can continue.  I am on the pill but they refuse to use condoms and they regularly insist of climaxing in my mouth when they finish. Also I didn't go to see him one one weekend recently and he got really moody and we had a few arguments but we soon ended up making up and having sex.

He says he loves me and loves to see me being pleasured and wants to continue this for now. The first couple of times I hated it but I have got used to it now and do find it pleasurable but it is not like sex with just my boyfriend.
I don't want to lose him but I know it is not going to stop soon and sometimes they can get a bit rough with me. My mum has noticed some bruises and both my parents have questioned me to find out if my boyfriend has been hitting me which he never has and I said no but they would both be horrified if they knew what is going on.
Is there a way I can continue with this relationship or should I just call it a day?
 
Katie

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Comments

  • Cc jaybee (moderator) Flag

    Well done for coming forward with your story. I felt a lot of concern for you when I read it, especially when I read that not everything you're asked to do is with your consent. That's very serious, possibly criminal, and puts you at risk of physical and emotional harm.
    Have another read of what you have written because I think you've almost answered your own question. You're even aware of what your parents reaction might be; I imagine they'd be very worried about you.
    Also, have a look online for services that might offer you the opportunity to talk to someone. I notice Childline, for instance, offers advice to people up to the age of 19; so don't rule them out even though you're over the age of majority! I'm guessing they've dealt with similar situations to yours and, if not, could re-direct you if necessary.
    I hope this is helpful. Let me know what you think and take care.

    Tue 11, Apr 2017 at 9:13am