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Is he cheating?

Posted by: Anonymous
Sun 7, May 2017 at 11:24am
Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

I had a difficult pregnancy so we did not have sex for nearly a year. We recently had sex again for the first time. It was fine. But I had heard before that after a long period without sex, men usually have quick ejaculation whereas my husband kept going for longer than before. Did he have frequent sex during the year? Is he cheating?

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  • User-anonymous Anon counsellor Flag

    He may have been masturbating regularly during that year, and it's possible that he had already ejaculated through masturbation just before you had sex. You could ask him, but don't be angry with him as it is a natural thing for guys to do. Honesty is the best policy.

    Sun 7, May 2017 at 1:12pm
  • User-anonymous D Flag

    Well I did not notice him staying in the toilet for more than 5' and most of the time he leaves the door open. So what I'm wondering is if not masterbating, how long would a man last after 1 year with no sex.

    Sun 7, May 2017 at 1:53pm
  • User-anonymous klcjan Flag

    Seems a bit hasty to jump right to cheating as the answer. Are there other signs? Like unexplained absences, etc.? If the only issue is that he lasted too long, then he probably took care of himself shortly before. Heck, he may have even done it just so he would last longer for your first time in a year. And guys have lots of ways of doing the solo dance without you knowing, just FYI.

    Tue 9, May 2017 at 2:33pm