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I have no idea what to think about this new person...?

Posted by: Anonymous
Fri 23, Jun 2017 at 7:09pm
Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Hi. I met a man several weeks ago, while I was on business out of town. We talked. I felt a strong pull to him and connection. Also what I noticed was how calm I felt in his presence, which is odd since I am usually quite anxious around people that I don't know well. We haven't seen each other since, although it would be easy for either of us to contact the other. Actually, when we first met, it was that corny "we set eyes on each other from across the room." I have never experienced anything like this. We locked eyes, smiled. It seemed as if everyone in that room disappeared. I often think of this. It is a bit strange to me. I never experienced anything like this before. What was all that? Does this mean we should pursue a relationship? Could I be imagining this? Thanks for any advice.

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  • 17155723_1276060565776625_4168236093605263369_n Jarzebkowska_Iga Flag

    Hey :)
    The relationship is a really strong word. Should be used for somebody who you think of because you already know that person. What it was ? Strong attraction. Therefore I think you should definitely search for a contact with him or maybe even a date ;) I imagine you can't stop thinking of anything else and you're high over heels right now
    The date would be a great idea in my opinion, because I think he was feeling the same. Grab a pair of balls and try to do it ! And this will explain a lot

    I hope I helped


    Mon 26, Jun 2017 at 7:38am
  • User-anonymous WallFlower90 Flag

    Yes thanks Iga. Still working up courage.

    Fri 1, Sep 2017 at 8:02pm