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help please

Posted by: Anonymous
Wed 7, Jun 2017 at 9:04pm
Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Sex and Affairs

so i have been talking to this guy for a while, we met and kissed blah blah no other romantic or sexual relations im young ok chill. he has a girlfriend but its not me. i knew this and i still kissed him and everything, what do i do? i want to be with him, can i trust him if we get together? and how do i get him to pick me and not her? do i wait or sabotage the relationship????? please help.

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  • User-anonymous Lost08 Flag

    First of all Sweetie, do not in any circumstances sabotage the relationship. Second, if he did that to his girlfriend what made you so sure he will not do the same with you? And third, if he loves her and regretted what happened when he kissed you, then there's nothing you can do about it. Do not force yourself in someone else's relationship. Ever. You will look like desperate if you do anything and everything you can in your power to ruin their relationship. You will look pathetic. You will come off as the desperate bitch who cannot get her own relationship so she just ruin someone else's. Do not wreck someone's happiness just to be happy yourself.

    I know what it feels like to be cheated on and I am telling you, that's the worst thing anyone can do to someone they claim that they love. It ruins a person's view on love and relationships. Be the bigger person here and stop communicating with him. There are tons of other single guys out there, why do you want to be with a guy who has a girlfriend? Honestly, if he already told his girlfriend what happened, I am sure he will tell her that YOU made the first move so you will look like tge bad person here. Find someone else. Someone single. Someone who will not share his love with another woman. Do you know how much karma you will get out of this? If not you, your kids or anyone in your family. Do you even want to risk to be labeled as the other girl? The girl who stole someone else's boyfriend? I'm sure you don't want that. I feel that you're a good person, so just let him go. He's not the right person for you. You're still young. You will experience more guys like that in your life and you will be dating a lot more jerks before you meet that one guy who will love you fully. Do not be this kind of girl. Please. Enjoy dating, enjoy being single. But never ever be the other girl. Just remember: if he can do that to his girlfriend now, what made you so sure he will not do it to you when you get together?

    Thu 8, Jun 2017 at 4:22am