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Anger Issues? Or is it something else?

Posted by: kdinthahouse
Wed 9, Aug 2017 at 3:15am
Communications in relationships
Anger,argument,fighting,advice,relationship problems

Hey guys. I made an account specially for this reason since I really don't know what to do anymore. My boyfriend of 2.5 years now and I are in a rocky situation. We love each other and everything, but we fight a lot. We've been on the brink of breaking up a few times in the past 2 months. We fight about a lot of small stupid things, "we" meaning mainly me. He is known to be one of the intelligent people in our school at the moment, and he is a natural born leader. However, whenever I am with him, he does a lot of stupid things that I do not like. I repeatedly tell him that I dislike those actions, and he stops for a week (if I'm lucky) before doing it again. When I ask him about it he says he does it unintentionally, which i believe because he is a good person at heart. But no matter what, he still ends up doing it. We usually fight over these small things, but we make up eventually, promising change, which never happens. Is it him that's doing something wrong, or should I be the one changing? How do I be less angry and more forgiving? I've tried various things but nothing seems to work

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