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Is this site for me?

Tags: Couple, resource, relationship advice, One Plus One, family structure, relationships issues, amrriage care, couple therapy, relationship support - is this site for me?

  • Do you want to get back to how things ‘used to be’ with your partner?
  • Are you worried about your relationship?
  • Do you want to make things better but don’t know how?
  • Are you ‘stuck’ in patterns of behaviour but want to change?

If so the can help. is a do-it-yourself relationship support service where you and your partner can use a range of exercises, quizzes and resources to work things out for yourselves.

But to get the most out of the service, you must want to improve your relationship. That means asking yourself some questions before you get started.  

  • Do you still love your partner?
  • Do you respect them as a person?
  • Do you both want to work things out together?
  • Can you take responsibility for some of the issues that cause problems in your relationship?
  • Are you prepared to compromise?

If you can answer yes to most of these questions then you and your partner should be able to strengthen your relationship by using the

Remember may be hard for you to use if you are feeling overwhelmed, sad, angry or hurt. So take care to follow the advice on the site on when to use the different resources, and when not to. The do-it-yourself approach means you must take care, to take care of yourself.

While many of the features are aimed at people ‘in’ a relationship, the material can also help people ‘in between’ relationships looking to develop their understanding of relationships before starting a new one.


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  • Katy oteroka Flag

    This is the part for me "Are you ‘stuck’ in patterns of behaviour but want to change?", I'm totally stuck

    Tue 24, Jul 2012 at 6:19pm
  • Cc Charlie Flag

    To the above poster: Please make this a new post so that others in the community can offer the advice you're looking for.
    Best wishes, Charlie

    Mon 12, Sep 2011 at 9:40am
  • User-anonymous Anonymous Flag

    Would like some advice, have been in a relationship for 8 years and have two great kids,since our first child was born in 2004 things have been going south my partner continues to go out with the boys drinking and not telling me where he is or if he is coming home.I want to get it across to him that this is wrong and its starting to split us apart.This has hurt my son and i.what can i do

    Mon 12, Sep 2011 at 5:43am
  • User-anonymous Anonymous Flag

    Would you like to engage in some conversation or are you just letting us know you are there?   Why not post in the relationship forum?

    Tue 14, Jun 2011 at 7:31am
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    Sat 26, Mar 2011 at 10:04am
  • User-anonymous Anonymous Flag

    Hope this helps!

    Sun 13, Mar 2011 at 9:38pm
  • User-anonymous Anonymous Flag

    Hope this helps!

    Sun 13, Mar 2011 at 9:37pm
  • User-anonymous Anonymous Flag

    Hi all im new and it looks like a great site and im glad that there is one like this to offer the help i need thanks x

    Wed 16, Feb 2011 at 7:59pm
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    Are you OK? I'm no quite sure what you mean by 'fine', in answer to 'yes'

    Wed 1, Dec 2010 at 5:59pm
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