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I'm sorry things aren't working out for you. It would help if you could give some more information about your situation. If you post again on the Forum I'm sure you'll get more responses.

There are lots of posts on here about people who can't forgive or forget that their partner cheated. How you feel is how you feel-It sounds as if you're not letting his cheating ruin your relationship so enjoy what you have!

I totally relate to this... I shouldn't excuse his behaviour but put stresses through life that caused it... My worry is my trust has gone to zero percent yet can't be without him in my life!

Has he seen his doctor, there can be all sorts of medical reasons for loss of libido, like depression or stress. Would also suggest you see the therapist together if that is possible, there are skills and techniques you can learn together to light that fire again. Good luck, hope things improve for both of you.

From what you say it sounds as though it may be over. He seems to have moved on and not return your strong feelings. You say he was difficult to deal with so maybe it's time for you to move on, to think about yourself - go out with your friends, start a new hobby, maybe try the gym - or just something to take your mind off him, find friendship and have a bit of fun without remaining too sad about losing him. I hope things work out well for you - he sounds like hard work and there are so many lovely people out there - let's hope the right one is just round the corner.

Hey there, sounds like your going through a difficult time. As this is just a short question and answer feature you may benefit more by posting your story on our relationship forum so that there is more chance of the online community responding to you and offering support and advice.

If your girlfriend has made a decision to end the relationship, you may have to accept it. It may be worth writing to her to let her know you love her and ask her if it is worth trying to win her back. You could also respond differently to the 'physical condition' you mention. Why not post on the forum and give more detail. You can then see what other members of the community think.

What a lovely feeling just to know that someone finds you fanciable! Don't do anything. Just enjoy the feeling. It's a bit like walking past someone of the opposite sex who gives you a brilliant smile as they pass. Just a small ray of sunshine to enjoy for what it is.

If you have not even met her then your mates might be taking the mick mate but she might have seen you and like the way you look that is not the reason to start a relationship so get to know her if you want or forget about her and find a girl that likes you for who you are inside. Best of luck star

In the begining of a relationship it's always hot and heavy darling if he feels you have nothing left then staying together just makes it hurt more I would end it myself still it's up to you

It does sound as though your boyfriend has already been thinking sexual thought about someone else - either real or on paper or on screen. Desire is difficult to pin down - do you agree? One can desire something (someone) then have it and no longer desire it. Love however, is entirely different. Love is what can be given to someone else and is not based on what they can give you.

Only by taking time to prove that you are trustworthy. Be particularly attentive, not only for your partner, but to help you become more focused on your partner as the one and only person you want to be in love with. Make sure you do not let your eyes rove around others at any time, and be attentive in your communications, ie. by texting, if that's what you do, or telephone or meeting up. .

If you had broken up then you did nothing wrong and your partner will have to move on or it will eat away at your relationship and destroy it all together. Trust is the number 1 thing in a relationship and if you don't have that then love is not enough. I am going through something myself it's hard but if you both feel it's worth it then you can work it out. Best of luck

I don't know, but you could make sure you are offering something much more fun to do than sitting at a PC. Even going out for a walk in the dark and doing some stargazing sounds more fun!

only one way to find out either ask her or check her phone!

Can you see your relationship with your bf as just a part of your life and have interests and friendships and activities which make your life fulfillilng as orther parts which define who you are. Could you treat this bf as a friend until you feel he is more trustworthy? Good luck with this - don't fall headlong into being hurt. Post your question onto the forum as you may find some intersting answers there.

was the messages flirty? or just casual?

Complicated! well my advice would be to ditch the ex permanently get rid of number, email etc. He had his chance with you and he blew it...he cheated. Now its up to you if you want to give him a second chance but believe me now if you do there will always be that niggling thought in the back of your mind about what really happened? and will it happen again? you dont need that. Whether you start something with this new guy or not. My advice hun would be to let go and move on from your ex boyfriend. you may still love him but he hurt you and someone who loves you would not hurt you in that way. Think to yourself you deserve someone who will love and respect you always. Hope this helps

I am not sure why you would want a boyfriend who lies. Peace of mind would leave you free to be the person you would really like to be but lies will turn you into being suspicious and jealous.

i think u should leave him, cos he say he single on the website.. it not looking good.. he been unfaithful. maybe u should able to discuss with him with calm situation.. and asked him why he on the dating site.. and ask if your relationship going well or not.. u both need to talk calmly.. and see what happened from there.. if i was your shoes..i would think twice and leave him... it will cause arguement which is not healthy... u derserve better than this... take care for yourself.

Have you had a discussion together about whether you both agree that your relaionship feels so good and stable that you would both like to finish with the dating site and consider yourselves an item? It does sound as though he might still be keeping his options open.