If you think about it, I suppose a good mature relationship does depend upon arriving at a state of mutual need - do you agree? This would not be about control. Neither of you need to control the other- that is quite an immature way of relating to each other. But to walk ahead through life together, each of you relying upon the other for what you each offer to the relationship - this is truly loving, responsible and supportive of each other. What you each offer will be different because you are different people, but whatever you offer will be offered with love and generosity because you have it to offer, but not because it is demanded of you. May you be blessed with a truly loving, equal realtionship.

Why not post on the forum and give more detail of what it is you can't cope with...the community can then try to help with their responses.

Only he can answer those questions for you. However, you seem to know he is the unfaithful type, so even if he does come back, are you sure you want to get more involved with someone who is likely to break your heart? Do post this on the forum, so that others can also respond.

cheated n compare .... let him go

The issue is that you do not trust your girlfriend. That must be very painful. Are you able to tell her that you feel insecure in your relationship. It may be that if she realises how much she means to you she will be able to show you she loves you and trust will return.

I think the key to this is mutual tolerance. Sharing a meal and eating together isn't just about nutrition, it's a social occasion. Your girlfriend sounds sensitive to the feelings of your family but it would be a pity if she misses out on you all eating together. Would it not be possible for the meal to contain different types of food so that everyone can enjoy the occasion?

The fact that you are already dating shows he likes you. Do you mean you want a more serious commitment so you only see each other? If you are confident he feels the same way just tell him you are ready to take your relationship to the next level. If you're not sure how he feels ..... then wait a while until you think he is ready. If you can't wait and you are not sure if his feelings are the same then you can still ask but be prepared to take the risk of losing him.

I've had a similar situation. You should definitely request answers from him. If he is just speaking to them because he is i.e. bored at work it is less worrying than if he does that during the time you and him are meant to spend time togehter.

be careful, he is cheating you,

be careful, he is cheating you,

be careful, he is cheating you,

be careful, he is cheating you,

he's up to something, if you just ignore this and carry on, he'll do it again and again ans one day you may up reading something you dont want to read. Dont let him do this to you, your dont deserve that, no-one does. Talk to him, dont moan or argue, make it clear that its you or he has change.

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Get to know the guy at work and you’ll probably realise your partner has many good qualities you have forgotten about.

Get to know the guy at work and you’ll probably realise your partner has many good qualities you have forgotten about.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

imagine not being with your partner, would you be happy? you may be going through a bad patch with your partner and this other guy may seem like an angel, dont tell your partner about this guy, imagine if it was the other way around, think carefully, whatever will make you happy.

Don't leave your partner for this guy, it may just be a school girl/boy crush

Don't leave your partner for this guy, it may just be a school girl/boy crush

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.

I am going through exactly the same with my partner. I first found out when i was nearly heavily pregnant with our daughter. he used to watch it before he went to work for 7am most mornings. i found the dvd he watched.another time i found his dirty tissue what he left under the coffee table! and then found out months later (after trying to regain my trust in him by never doing it again) that he watches it on the internet. I am always looking at his history on the computer to see what he has been looking at. sometimes he looks at sexy girls pics on facebook. I just dont know how to block feeling so betrayed by him, we are never close in the bedroom because of my mental issues with this

its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.

It's horrible to discover but I wouldn't call it cheating. Tell him how it makes you feel and ask him why he feels the need to do it. He may be able to reassure you.

A promise is a promise …isn’t it?

No, but you definitely need to speak to him and tell him how you feel about this and the impact it will have on your relationship with him.

Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!

Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!

Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!

Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!

Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!

Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!

Yes. Enjoy going out with each other. There will be plenty of time to move in together if it’s right

After six month you're still in the "honeymoon period", maybe wait a couple of more month before moving in together - there are still so many things you still can't know about each other.

Only you know when the time is right. You should see how things go over the next six months and get to know each other a bit more.

Yes, you should see how things go over the next six months, get to know each other a bit more then see how you feel.

Chill out, she's only speaking to him, after all she has decided to have a baby with you.

Chill out, she's only speaking to him, after all she has decided to have a baby with you.

Carefully, you and she are very vulnerable at the moment

Ask why she still feels the need to talk to him, and tell her how it makes you feel. It could all be perfectly innocent.

Why don't YOU ask him tonight :) ?

Why don't YOU ask him tonight :) ?

Why don't YOU ask him tonight :) ?

Why don't YOU ask him tonight :) ?