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Should I stay or leave. My boyfiend Is caring and adores me but we have nothing in common. I also just don't feel comfortable having sex

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My boyfriend is really caring adores me and would do anything for me. He would be good in having a family with. Problem is we got nothing in common and sex feels really uncomfortable with him. He does not do much in the way of going out either. Only thing that make me stay is because is nice. And we have a laugh when at home. But I might leave him and find a man that goes out all the time and never has time for me. What would you do
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    You have a guy who absolutely adores you and wants to spend his time with you having fun! Whats so wrong with that? Why and how did you get together...if you have nothing in common? Sounds like your not happy in this relationship but too scared to leave becuase you might not find someone as nice as this fella...if thats how you feel then you need to leave despite not knowing your future. Not fair on your boyfriend either.

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    • User-anonymous Cd33 Flag

      I'm in a similar situation but the other way around. For me personally, I would want my gf to tell me how she felt. It hurts to think this is the case but I couldn't think of anything worse than being dragged along by someone that I felt very fond of and eventually being heartbroken further down the line with more hurt and frustration. Be honest and tell your bf how you feel. Honesty is the best option, always!

      Wed 5, Dec 2012 at 4:03am
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