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what does it mean when your man says you should be greatful i slept with you
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before 3 months i met with a girl then we both fall in love and recently i did come to know that she has a BF and involve in kissing and all
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Part of being involved in a loving relationship is about being honest and open in your communciation with one another. Maybe you have both got caught up in the excitement of falling in love and now you are moving into the finding out about each other stage and sometimes
we get surprised by what we find. It seems to me that you both need to talk about how this past history may or may not affect your future together. We all have a past, including good and bad parts, and sometimes it is difficult to discuss this with our partners. So I wish you luck in talking this through with your gf and you can always discuss things in more detail on the forum side of this site.0% liked thisComments
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im an english women dating a muslim guy he is so jelous and he says i need to accept it as its his way is this right ?
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It sounds like you feel uncomfortable with this and you don't think it's right. Being very jealous can be part of controlling behaviour. He says it is his way, it maybe his way but you don't have to accept it. What do you think?
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My girlfriend says she loves me, but loves her ex. She admits her life and her baby's life is better with me, but she can't get over him.
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It will probably take her time to get over him, and it does sound as if she wants to be with you. Why don't you post more details of the situation on the Relationship Forum to get some advice from other users, you definitely won't be the only one to be in this situation!
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Can 30yrs gurl had 3 months sex life ever, back in 2011 have no pain in 1st intrcorse but have pains 2nd time pentration rite aftr 1st 1?
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I'm not sure that I understand the question you're asking. I think you will have more response to this if you provide some more details and also post it on the Relationship Forum.
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I got married few days ago. The girl is 30. She was married back in 2010 for only 3 months and then got divorced. She has told me that she was a virgin at the time of that marriage. After the breakdown of that marriage she has never had any sex at all until now. On the first night of our marriage when we had sex, she had no problem with penetration and enjoyed it. The second time we had sex, she was gently trying to push me or stop me from penetrating. When I asked why she said that it was hurting her.
I am unable to understand why it was hurting her the second time and not the first time?
I have this feeling that she was lying in support of her statement that she has not have sex for the last 3 years. Maybe the first time she was planning to do this drama about hurting but forgot to lie since she was enjoying it to much If it was to hurt shouldn't it hurt the first time? It really does not matter to me if she did have sex since her last marriage but lying to me is a big issue since I have not lied to her about anything and don't intend to do so in future.
I really need to know so the relationship is free from doubts. I cannot confront her since she will only deny it and I will still be without an answer.
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how do you deal with someone who is bullish?
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I'm sorry but I think we need some more information before we can answer your question.
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is it a good idea to go to 'Relate'?
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Relate is an excellent helping organisation if you and your partner are experiencing relationship difficulties - but there is also Marriage Care (see www.marriagecare.org.uk) which is also excellent and only asks for donations and tends to have shorter waiting lists. Good luck with your counselling.
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10. My boyfriend chats to other girls on Facebook and hides it from me, then tells me I'm paranoid. Is this normal or is he up to something?
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I've had a similar situation. You should definitely request answers from him. If he is just speaking to them because he is i.e. bored at work it is less worrying than if he does that during the time you and him are meant to spend time togehter.
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he's up to something, if you just ignore this and carry on, he'll do it again and again ans one day you may up reading something you dont want to read. Dont let him do this to you, your dont deserve that, no-one does. Talk to him, dont moan or argue, make it clear that its you or he has change.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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I love my partner but can't stop thinking about this other guy at work. Is it possible to forget him, or should I leave my partner for him?
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Get to know the guy at work and you’ll probably realise your partner has many good qualities you have forgotten about.
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If you say that you love you boyfriend but keep thinning about a guy at work, you need to figure out why. What is going on at home? When we are either unhappy or avoiding issues at home, it can make us look at situations around us and remember how simple things were in the beginning. Take time to really figure out what is going on for you here. If you love you boyfriend, you owe it to him (and you) to figure out what is going on and to try to resolve things. I know it's wonderful to be seduced by the romance of this other guy...but think about what you have and what you want before you act. Good luck.
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Get to know the guy at work and you’ll probably realise your partner has many good qualities you have forgotten about.
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imagine not being with your partner, would you be happy? you may be going through a bad patch with your partner and this other guy may seem like an angel, dont tell your partner about this guy, imagine if it was the other way around, think carefully, whatever will make you happy.
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Don't leave your partner for this guy, it may just be a school girl/boy crush
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Don't leave your partner for this guy, it may just be a school girl/boy crush
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I've just discovered my partner looks at porn on the internet. I'm hurt as he promised he never would. Should I consider it cheating?
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its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.
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I am going through exactly the same with my partner. I first found out when i was nearly heavily pregnant with our daughter. he used to watch it before he went to work for 7am most mornings. i found the dvd he watched.another time i found his dirty tissue what he left under the coffee table! and then found out months later (after trying to regain my trust in him by never doing it again) that he watches it on the internet. I am always looking at his history on the computer to see what he has been looking at. sometimes he looks at sexy girls pics on facebook. I just dont know how to block feeling so betrayed by him, we are never close in the bedroom because of my mental issues with this
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its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.
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It's horrible to discover but I wouldn't call it cheating. Tell him how it makes you feel and ask him why he feels the need to do it. He may be able to reassure you.
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its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.
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No, but you definitely need to speak to him and tell him how you feel about this and the impact it will have on your relationship with him.
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how do i use the listening room? really need to talk to someone
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Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
At 8.30 the message will simply be 'I want to chat' so click on this and the Helper will respond..sometimes there is a queue..so get on asap. Good Luck!0% liked thisComments
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Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
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Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
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Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
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Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
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Hi, click on 'The Listening Room' below. This tells you the times it is open....8.30 every weekday night.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for six months, is it too soon to move in? We're both 23.
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Yes. Enjoy going out with each other. There will be plenty of time to move in together if it’s right
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After six month you're still in the "honeymoon period", maybe wait a couple of more month before moving in together - there are still so many things you still can't know about each other.
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Only you know when the time is right. You should see how things go over the next six months and get to know each other a bit more.
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Yes, you should see how things go over the next six months, get to know each other a bit more then see how you feel.
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My girlfriend's pregnant, just found out she still speaks to her ex, any advice on how to handle this please?
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Chill out, she's only speaking to him, after all she has decided to have a baby with you.
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Chill out, she's only speaking to him, after all she has decided to have a baby with you.
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Ask why she still feels the need to talk to him, and tell her how it makes you feel. It could all be perfectly innocent.
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9. When’s the right time to propose? We’ve been together four years and he’s still not popped the question.
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i totally agree :) its not that im uncomfartable with it i really do think this guy is amazing but its him that brings the religion into it really i know its not right its wearing me down really. i find myself at times just doing what he says to keep the peace if it wasnt for the jeolusy he is perfect. i have at times tryed to end it with him and i get oh im sorry please we start again then the so al along i was right all english girls sluts really i know what i should do but wen he sweet he sweet . thanks for your input :)