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• tasha_ch about 19 hours ago
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  I don't think its about you giving them a chance but rather THEY giving you a chance y'know? Why did you end it so speedily and now why do you want to give that person another chance! Really think about what it is that you want before entering another 'thing' because its not fair to them and most importantly you if you aren't sure about what you want/need.

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• tasha_ch 3 days ago
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  Trust is built on communication and it seems that she told you about thinking of he ex? If that's the case it means that she trusts you. However, I can see why it would make you wonder. I say that you see how it goes and make sure that you make her aware that you trust her but not to the point that you're a doormat y'know? She has to know that it's not fair to you to be thinking of someone else in that way.

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• tasha_ch 3 days ago
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  Hmmm I guess it would depend on how long its been going on for. This girl sounds like she's trying to have her cake an eat it to, by taking advantage. Breaking up with someone or even just going on a break commonly means that at least one person wants some space, so for her to be constantly IN his life that way, means that she's not really doing herself or him any favours. However, the ex also has to take the responsibility because he could say no! Literally just say no to her and see what happens then. By letting it continue, he's letting her think that it's ok to continue with her behaviour.

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• tasha_ch 3 days ago
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  My first response is that you could just stop. But I know its more complicated than that. First you need to ask why you're texting random girls and more importantly, what are you texting them? Is is sexting or wanting to meet for hook-ups or is it for knowledge of a guaranteed reply and the following text conversation? Also, is your current relationship failing to fulfil you at the moment and what could you do about that - lol pretty sure your partner would be open to trying to new things if it were for the sake of your relationship. The final thing to consider is that maybe you just want out of the current relationship and this is your subconcious's way of telling you...

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• tasha_ch 3 days ago
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  This is a tricky one because of all the parties involved. Have you tried talking to the mother. And I don't mean exhanging snarky comments and subtly reinforcing who knows the guy better. But actually sitting her down and asking her what the problem is. Literally - Why don't you like me? It sounds blunt but it may just get through and shock her into a response. If she says she doesn't. Don't get annoyed - ask her why and then very firmly suggest that you aren't going anywhere for a while and she needs to accept it and stop making life difficult. Aim for civility at least - and without getting Him involved will make him have a bit more faith in you - because his mum can't complain - what would she say 'SHe came to TALK to me' lol Good luck with this! Parents are always tricky territory.

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• Sunflowergal 27 October 2011 @ 13:09
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  I've had a similar situation. You should definitely request answers from him. If he is just speaking to them because he is i.e. bored at work it is less worrying than if he does that during the time you and him are meant to spend time togehter.

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• katttttttttt 26 November 2011 @ 23:51
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  he's up to something, if you just ignore this and carry on, he'll do it again and again ans one day you may up reading something you dont want to read. Dont let him do this to you, your dont deserve that, no-one does. Talk to him, dont moan or argue, make it clear that its you or he has change.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:28
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:28
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:28
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:28
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:28
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:28
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:28
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:28
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:28
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:28
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:28
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• admin 27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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  This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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• Tiny_Tim 18 October 2011 @ 16:51
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  Get to know the guy at work and you’ll probably realise your partner has many good qualities you have forgotten about.

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    If you say that you love you boyfriend but keep thinning about a guy at work, you need to figure out why. What is going on at home? When we are either unhappy or avoiding issues at home, it can make us look at situations around us and remember how simple things were in the beginning. Take time to really figure out what is going on for you here. If you love you boyfriend, you owe it to him (and you) to figure out what is going on and to try to resolve things. I know it's wonderful to be seduced by the romance of this other guy...but think about what you have and what you want before you act. Good luck.

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• TrixieBell12 14 October 2011 @ 17:06
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  Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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• katttttttttt 26 November 2011 @ 23:53
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  imagine not being with your partner, would you be happy? you may be going through a bad patch with your partner and this other guy may seem like an angel, dont tell your partner about this guy, imagine if it was the other way around, think carefully, whatever will make you happy.

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• admin 28 October 2011 @ 11:09
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  Don't leave your partner for this guy, it may just be a school girl/boy crush

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• admin 28 October 2011 @ 11:09
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  Don't leave your partner for this guy, it may just be a school girl/boy crush

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• Tiny_Tim 18 October 2011 @ 16:51
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  Get to know the guy at work and you’ll probably realise your partner has many good qualities you have forgotten about.

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• Dominic 18 October 2011 @ 11:46
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  Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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• TrixieBell12 14 October 2011 @ 17:06
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  Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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• TrixieBell12 14 October 2011 @ 17:06
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  Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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• TrixieBell12 14 October 2011 @ 17:06
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  Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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• TrixieBell12 14 October 2011 @ 17:06
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  Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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• TrixieBell12 14 October 2011 @ 17:06
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  Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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• TrixieBell12 14 October 2011 @ 17:06
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  Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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• TrixieBell12 14 October 2011 @ 17:06
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  Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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• TrixieBell12 14 October 2011 @ 17:06
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  Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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• TrixieBell12 14 October 2011 @ 17:06
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  Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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• hlin334 8 December 2011 @ 22:02
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  its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.

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• Anonymous 22 days ago
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  I am going through exactly the same with my partner. I first found out when i was nearly heavily pregnant with our daughter. he used to watch it before he went to work for 7am most mornings. i found the dvd he watched.another time i found his dirty tissue what he left under the coffee table! and then found out months later (after trying to regain my trust in him by never doing it again) that he watches it on the internet. I am always looking at his history on the computer to see what he has been looking at. sometimes he looks at sexy girls pics on facebook. I just dont know how to block feeling so betrayed by him, we are never close in the bedroom because of my mental issues with this

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• hlin334 8 December 2011 @ 22:02
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  its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.

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• Annika89 27 October 2011 @ 11:59
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  It's horrible to discover but I wouldn't call it cheating. Tell him how it makes you feel and ask him why he feels the need to do it. He may be able to reassure you.

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    its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.

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• Tiny_Tim 18 October 2011 @ 16:49
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  A promise is a promise …isn’t it?

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• Dominic 18 October 2011 @ 11:58
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  No, but you definitely need to speak to him and tell him how you feel about this and the impact it will have on your relationship with him.

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• Tiny_Tim 18 October 2011 @ 16:47
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  Yes. Enjoy going out with each other. There will be plenty of time to move in together if it’s right

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• Annika89 27 October 2011 @ 12:06
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  After six month you're still in the "honeymoon period", maybe wait a couple of more month before moving in together - there are still so many things you still can't know about each other.

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• Dominic 18 October 2011 @ 12:04
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  Only you know when the time is right. You should see how things go over the next six months and get to know each other a bit more.

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• TrixieBell12 14 October 2011 @ 17:11
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  Yes, you should see how things go over the next six months, get to know each other a bit more then see how you feel.

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• Sunflowergal 27 October 2011 @ 13:24
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  Chill out, she's only speaking to him, after all she has decided to have a baby with you.

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• Sunflowergal 27 October 2011 @ 13:24
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  Chill out, she's only speaking to him, after all she has decided to have a baby with you.

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• Tiny_Tim 18 October 2011 @ 16:48
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  Carefully, you and she are very vulnerable at the moment

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• Dominic 18 October 2011 @ 12:01
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  Ask why she still feels the need to talk to him, and tell her how it makes you feel. It could all be perfectly innocent.

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• Annika89 27 October 2011 @ 11:50
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  Why don't YOU ask him tonight :) ?

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• Annika89 27 October 2011 @ 11:49
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  Why don't YOU ask him tonight :) ?

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  Why don't YOU ask him tonight :) ?

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  Why don't YOU ask him tonight :) ?

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• Annika89 27 October 2011 @ 12:01
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  Try to relax together; nothing will kill the mood more than pressure. Then see what happens.

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• Tiny_Tim 18 October 2011 @ 16:49
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  see a GP

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• Dominic 18 October 2011 @ 12:00
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  Perhaps he's stressed or unhappy about something. Try talking to him.

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