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Emotional Affairs

posted Thu 13, Apr 2017 at 7:16pm

My husband has had emotional affairs during our marriage and has physically cheated once during the dating time while in a serious committed relationship (which was disclosed to the me 9 years into...

Tags: Emotional affair,cheating,no trust
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Affairs and Jealousy, Sex and Affairs

I want to save my relationship... I need some advices.

posted Thu 13, Apr 2017 at 5:11pm

Hello. I will be as brief as I can. I take medication for controlling my depression. Every time that I have a crisis. He disappears. Not only that. It is almost impossible to know what He is t...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

Is he manipulative?

posted Wed 12, Apr 2017 at 3:42pm

I feel like my bf is very manipulative. He tells me off for doing things but then does it himself. Or he will do something to me and then he expects me to forgive him... but if say I did the same t...

Tags: manipulation,mental health
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Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships

I'm worried for my girlfriend

posted Tue 11, Apr 2017 at 6:38pm

I've been with my girlfriend for almost 5 months now. We live about 70 km apart from eachother, both at our own parents. She's 18 and I'm 17. I have two problems with our relationship, I'll addr...

Tags: Depression,loneliness
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Making a Commitment

Somethig changed

posted Tue 11, Apr 2017 at 11:23am

Me and my girlfriend livig together around 2 years, and she start to change past few months. She usually supportive, will help me on anyhing. She willing to do house chores and everything... We ag...

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Money, Housework, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Is it just me?

posted Mon 10, Apr 2017 at 5:56pm

Lately I have been thinking about my relationships and how they've been. In particular I've noticed that I end up in relationships with people that are under my league and they never last, because ...

Tags: relationships,problems,is it just me,what to do,attraction,emotions,love,heart break
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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Cana girl get pregnant if I touch her??

posted Sun 9, Apr 2017 at 11:17pm

I'm a 16 year old guy and was fooling around with my girlfriend. I was giving her oral sex and wasn't sure if I had cum or not. I touched the head of my penis and felt it was wet but wasn't totally...

Tags: Teenager,pregnancy,cum,oral,help,couple relationships
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Word from the street, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

My boyfriend insists on group sex

posted Fri 7, Apr 2017 at 3:56am

My name is Katie. I'm 18 and still live with my parents but I stay at my boyfriends flat at weekends.  I've known him for two and a half years and we get on really well. He's 7 years older tha...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

In need off advice

posted Thu 6, Apr 2017 at 10:21pm

So this is my story. I have been with my partner for 4 years now. We have a two year old son together. At the begging off last year we separated because we was constantly arguing and I checked her ...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

The silent treatment?

posted Wed 5, Apr 2017 at 8:07pm

I think my boyfriend is giving me the silent treatment. He has days when he (seemingly out of the blue, or more likely when he is under more stress than normal) goes silent. He will answer ques...

Tags: silent treatment,communication
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Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships

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I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Really long term relationship with major issues

posted Sun 8, Jun 2014 at 4:13pm

My heart goes out to all of you whose posts I read about problems in relationships of a few years or even a few months. Looking at it from the long perspective (over 40 years) I wish you all co...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

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