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new baby new area new life not sure!

posted Sun 29, Mar 2015 at 12:14am

Hi Iv never done anything like this before. I Google everythings it's a bit of a joke but iv never actually wrote on one of these forums before. Scary really! 😳 so be nice. Anyway my situation ...

Tags: Advice,child,moved to new area,homesick,out of love,are we meant to be,different people,pregnant,baby,where is the love,relationship help
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Becoming a Parent, Bringing up Children Together, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

Caught watching porn

posted Sat 28, Mar 2015 at 10:44pm

Hi everyone, I realize that this is pretty common topic, but I'm in a bit of a different situation (or at least I feel like I am). I've been in a committed relationship for five years (not marrie...

Tags: porn,acceptance,angry,cheating,intimacy,feeling of betrayal,sneaky behavior,insecurity,feeling unattractive,dismissing needs
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment, Videos, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

RELATIONSHIP AND WANKING.

posted Sat 28, Mar 2015 at 10:24pm

Ive been reading some posts, articles etc. about wanking in a relationship. After that I am very disappointed about opinions. Looks like lots people clap in their hands hearing about wanking, wel...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Word from the street, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Girlfriend mad at me for comment I made earlier today. What should I do?

posted Sat 28, Mar 2015 at 9:56pm

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2.5 years now. Recently she brought up the topic of traveling as she likes to trave. She travelled to Japan and Hawaii now. Recently she went to...

Tags: girlfriend,mad,money,spoiling
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Confused about everything.

posted Sat 28, Mar 2015 at 4:09pm

Hello! My relationship with my girlfriend has been bothering me for about half year. We are together for about 2 years or more. I'm really in love with her, and she says she also loves me a lot. B...

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Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

am I trippin???

posted Sat 28, Mar 2015 at 1:08pm

Long story short I met and fell head over heels madly in love with this woman. She's amazing we get along great, she feels the same way I do. Here's my problem/question.......when we met and starte...

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Communications in relationships

I Don't Respect His Job

posted Sat 28, Mar 2015 at 7:12am

When I first met my partner over three years ago he was studying to become a music teacher. Perhaps not the poster child for a high flying career but a respectable job none the less. Over the la...

Tags: Work,job,career,computers
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Money, Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

My Boyfriend has intimacy issues

posted Fri 27, Mar 2015 at 3:07pm

I am a female college student and I'm currently seeing the love of my life. We are great together, we laugh together and he supports my activities and I support his, and we get along very well. Any...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Communications in relationships

fight on?

posted Fri 27, Mar 2015 at 12:16pm

I've been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years now and generally we get along, however there has always been a constant theme where every couple of months she gets upset. First it started that she th...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

No equal commitment

posted Thu 26, Mar 2015 at 6:03pm

My wife of 8 years, now aged 32 with whom I have a young daughter has told me aged 62 that she could not promise not to sleep with another man and she thinks I am stupid to feel very hurt and ups...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Videos, Word from the street, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together, Sex and Affairs

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

What do I do now?

posted Wed 21, Apr 2010 at 4:17pm

I have just recently split up with my husband of 10 years, we have been together for 13 years in total. We are very lucky and have 2 wonderful children together. Throughout our married life we re...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

after all the posting, i just had to make my own thread... on-topic but not seeking advice

posted Wed 2, Jul 2014 at 8:25pm

This whole posting thing can be like a nightmare... this may get long... feel free to zip out at any point. I'm male 57 Synopsis: a little over a year ago a friendship with a co-worker went bey...

Tags: relationships,friendships
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Friends & Family, Word from the street

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

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