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The Relationship Forum is provided for visitors who are seeking advice and support from the community in relation to relationship issues. The aim of the forum is to help you to understand and explore your situation by talking to others who may be going through, or have experienced a similar situation. The Relationship Forum is moderated by a team of counsellors with lots of experience of helping couples as they work things out in their relationship. They facilitate the forum, providing guidance and additional help wherever needed.

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Married, 3 kids, another interest?!

posted Mon 20, May 2013 at 3:24pm

So, long story short, I've been married for 9 years and have 3 children. My husband is amazing and seriously the guy I always dreamed of having. HOWEVER...that spark...not sure where it is, or for ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

STILL IN LOVE BUT V'CONFUSED!

posted Mon 20, May 2013 at 3:06pm

Hi there, I have posted on here a few times before - this post is very relevant to my other called - 'overcoming the Mistake' (Please have a look if you can) My confusion is based very much...

Tags: VERY grateful of your time! Please let me know what you think,thank you!
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

What to do now! im going Crazy!

posted Mon 20, May 2013 at 11:55am

in my past relationships i have always been walked over and cheated on. this has always left me feeling paranoid and found it hard to trust anybody. until nearly 2 years ago i met a guy ( who i am ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Need Guidance...fast

posted Mon 20, May 2013 at 1:39am

Me and my ex gf have been off and on for about 4 years now, and usually after we break up i never want her back and i dont care if we are friends or not. But for some odd reason this time is diffre...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Another guy

posted Sun 19, May 2013 at 4:43pm

I have been I a relationship for 5 yearsand just moved in with my boyfriend for the first time 6mo ago and am pretty happy. I am only 22 years old. My boyfriend is very laid back and chilled. He l...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

So unhappy in relationship, what do I do?

posted Sat 18, May 2013 at 12:43pm

Hi all. I'm new to this forum and am really hoping someone can guide me in the correct direction. I have been with my partner for 5 years, since I was 18. He's now 28. It was all a bit whirlwin...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

Should the penetration hurt 1st time and not the 2nd time a girl who had only 3 months worth of sex life ever few years ago?

posted Sat 18, May 2013 at 10:28am

I got married few days ago. The girl is 30. She was married back in 2010 for only 3 months and then got divorced. She has told me that she was a virgin at the time of that marriage. After the break...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Confused, hurt..am I reading too much into it?

posted Fri 17, May 2013 at 4:59pm

I am feeling so hurt and confused and don't know where to turn. I have just discovered that my partner of 18 years has been in contact with the first woman he had sex with. Of course, I knew abou...

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Was it actually just ONE time only?! PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE THIS ONE OUT :(

posted Fri 17, May 2013 at 11:09am

Hi there, I have posted on here a few times regarding an issue that occurred about 5weeks ago! My partner and i have had quite a toxic relationship for some time due to a clash of various issue...

Tags: Im WILL NOT consider moving on with him IF this has happened before!
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

I have a boyfriend but I have feelings for another guy

posted Thu 16, May 2013 at 5:27pm

Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and they have been amazing. Unfortunately at work there is this other guy that I really like and he really likes me he calls me baby, babe e...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

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7 years later..

posted Thu 17, May 2012 at 1:15pm

Hi there - first post on here and I'm not really sure how to explain everything in one go lol. Me and J have been together for 7 years, have had 2 little girls together L and S. We lost L when she ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Any advice Please.

posted Wed 11, Jul 2012 at 4:26pm

I have been with my partner for 4 years, we are getting married next year but are still experiencing problems. He has always suffered with alcohol problems, which I have supported him through. I...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance

Relationship mess- please help

posted Tue 17, Jan 2012 at 11:54am

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. I have been divorced for 6 years after my partner left me and my 2 children. My boyfriend has been seperated just over 3 years after his wife l...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment, Mixed Families

Feelings outside a long-term relationship

posted Sat 21, Jan 2012 at 12:41am

I'm brand new here - finally decided I needed some help from many different sorts of people. I've been in a long-distance relationship for about a year and a half now. I'm very serious about my ...

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Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Controlling, insecure and paranoid boyfriend

posted Sun 20, Dec 2009 at 5:26pm

When I as 18 I met this guy either late 2007 or early 2008 ( I cant quite remember). From the first time I set eyes on him I liked him as he was and still is very attractive. Instead of him approa...

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Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Am I prolonging the inevitable?

posted Fri 19, Mar 2010 at 2:22pm

I have been married to a lovely man for more than 15 years and we have three children, we live in the Midlands in a lovely house and are surrounded by lots of friends - i could write a long list of...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

How can I trust again?

posted Wed 25, Jan 2012 at 12:09pm

I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now. I LOVE him with all my heart. Things have started to get pretty serious now and he says he thinks that im the one for him. He's had a lot of previo...

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Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Need a clear direction

posted Wed 1, Feb 2012 at 9:41am

I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 8 months now, and things have been going smoothly up until recently. As of late, I've started to feel somewhat neglected and quite frankly, unimportant...

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Finding Time for Each Other

A difficult situation

posted Sun 5, Feb 2012 at 12:00am

New member here, About 5 months ago I started university, I'm a mature student studying on a course were the majority of people are 30+. Shortly after starting (about a month) I met a girl in...

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Making a Commitment

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

What do I do now?

posted Wed 21, Apr 2010 at 4:17pm

I have just recently split up with my husband of 10 years, we have been together for 13 years in total. We are very lucky and have 2 wonderful children together. Throughout our married life we re...

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Affairs & Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs & Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs & Jealousy

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Fancying someone else

posted Tue 9, Sep 2008 at 2:15pm

<p>I'm married and want to keep my relationship going but there is someone who I fancy. I havent done nothing with her but we do flirt and I do enjoy her company. Sometimes i find it difficult to n...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Life after an affair.... help needed...

posted Sun 24, May 2009 at 10:14pm

2 years ago I got involved with a married man (dont judge me!) We both fell 'in love' deeply... anyway LONG STORY cut short, his job role changed within work and became more demanding, she found ou...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy
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