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He's lost my trust.

posted Mon 27, Mar 2017 at 10:14pm

Hi I am just looking for some advice really. I am one of those women who don't like my husband going to strip clubs. I know some women are fine with it, but I'm not. It makes me feel very inadequa...

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Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

My girlfriend talks about her sex past during intimate moments and I can't cope with the truth

posted Mon 27, Mar 2017 at 11:18am

Hi everyone, A little while back me and my girlfriend were trying new things. At this point, I feel like it is really intimate and we are in the zone and she tells me about what she did to anoth...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Boyfriend makes no effort

posted Mon 27, Mar 2017 at 9:47am

Hi, apologies in advance if this is a long post. I have been with my bf over a year now he's 21 and I'm 20, I go to uni which is about 40 minutes away from where he lives, so currently we only see ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

My girlfriend/partner's position.

posted Sun 26, Mar 2017 at 9:53pm

So here it goes, I don't know if this is the right place to be asking for advice but this is what I found to talk on & needed help basically. So basically me & my girlfriend have been together ...

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Friends & Family, Making a Commitment, Mixed Families, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

Conflicting feelings

posted Sat 25, Mar 2017 at 1:16pm

I was married for 14yrs.  Im now 41 & my ex 43. My divorce was final January of this year, I filed because i had an affair. As soon as my ex told me he had a girlfriend, i wanted him back. I know...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

possible reconciliation?

posted Sat 25, Mar 2017 at 6:33am

Why would an ex-fling who did not want me and moved on with somebody else stalk me online with a fake Facebook account? She did this a couple months ago but I cut her out of my life in April so it'...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

How do I juggle my fiancé and nursing school but still make him feel loved?

posted Thu 23, Mar 2017 at 3:13pm

My fiancé and i are recently engaged. We have been together for 5 years. Before we were engaged i was not in school and our relationship was really good. We were always having fun, laughing, got in...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, A Psychologist's Perspective

How do I rebuild my trust

posted Tue 21, Mar 2017 at 4:42pm

I'll try to keep this as short as possible. 12 yeras ago my wife had a sexual affair with a work colleague. When I eventually caught her out and made her tell me the truth instead of denying it, we...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together, Sex and Affairs

Davina McCall wants to hear from you for a new TV programme

posted Tue 21, Mar 2017 at 3:20pm

Twenty Twenty, creators of First Dates and Gareth Malone’s The Naked Choir, are making a new studio show with Davina McCall that will discuss modern day issues. We’re looking for people to share th...

Tags: technology,relationships,phone
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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships

he left me strandered

posted Mon 20, Mar 2017 at 10:10pm

earlier this week me my partner and my mum was in manchester, for the past couple of weeks me and my partner have been going through a rough patch, the stress levels between both of us have been hi...

Tags: relationships,trouble,arguments.
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Work, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships

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What do I do? (Advice wanted)

posted Wed 1, Feb 2012 at 2:57pm

Quick bkgrnd: I'm 23, he's 21. I have a 4year old and it isn't with him. We've been living together for 3 years (less than a year when he ended his last romantic fling), known each other for almost...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

marriage breakdown

posted Fri 17, Feb 2012 at 8:05pm

hi Just wondered if anyone can help with my situation! x its a long story but will try too keep it short, been together for 12 years ,married 7 years, we have faced a lot off outside factors...

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How to move on...

posted Sat 25, Feb 2012 at 5:13pm

Hi Everyone I'm new here, so im sorry if its posted in the wrong bit. Ok so, been with my boyfriend 1yr 1/2 now, and my god has alot happened in that time, we had no where near a good start t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

I don't know where I stand

posted Sun 26, Feb 2012 at 11:14pm

me and my boyfriend has been together a year but when we started going out it was really good but now it not so good. i found out he told a girl she looked hot and i confronted him and he told me b...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

What do I do?

posted Fri 9, Mar 2012 at 8:09pm

I know this isn't that big compared to other issues raised here, but bare in mind I am only 18, and deeply in love with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is going through a lot of stress right now. Her ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

7 years later..

posted Thu 17, May 2012 at 1:15pm

Hi there - first post on here and I'm not really sure how to explain everything in one go lol. Me and J have been together for 7 years, have had 2 little girls together L and S. We lost L when she ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Any advice Please.

posted Wed 11, Jul 2012 at 4:26pm

I have been with my partner for 4 years, we are getting married next year but are still experiencing problems. He has always suffered with alcohol problems, which I have supported him through. I...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance

Not sure if he cares or loves me.

posted Sat 13, Jul 2013 at 8:34pm

I will try to explain things as best as I can as this is the first time I have posted. I have been with him for just over two years and I do love him very much. His is not a guy who is all ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Advice on ex girlfriend situation, and possible thoughts on her intentions.

posted Mon 25, Nov 2013 at 11:05pm

Me and my ex broke up around 6 months ago. We were together for around 3 years and she was unhappy with our relationship in terms of time spent and some other details. She moved back to her home st...

Tags: girlfriend,advice,ex,sex,problems,trouble,love,like
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

No idea what to do here :-(

posted Thu 13, Feb 2014 at 3:54pm

My partner and I were together for 4yrs and were really happy. We've got a toddler together and got engaged 2yrs ago. Then suddenly last May, just before my birthday, he dumps me. He just left with...

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Really long term relationship with major issues

posted Sun 8, Jun 2014 at 4:13pm

My heart goes out to all of you whose posts I read about problems in relationships of a few years or even a few months. Looking at it from the long perspective (over 40 years) I wish you all co...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

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