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Ejaculate within 20 seconds

posted Sat 19, Apr 2014 at 1:40pm

long story short, I've been talking to a girl and she wants to have sex. This is really exciting for me because I'm actually a virgin, but I have problem with PE. I don't know what to do. A whil...

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posted Fri 18, Apr 2014 at 5:24pm

I have come through a very bad and turbulent time in my life due to problems with a controlling partner but finally found the courage to leave, am on my feet again, have a lovely home, good job and...

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posted Fri 18, Apr 2014 at 2:19pm

Hey, me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, we live together and we love each other very much and I know he cares about me, but I'm a very emotional person and very insecure in what I ...

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posted Fri 18, Apr 2014 at 12:22pm

Hi! I need advice! I met my boyfriend online and about a year ago and we've been officially together for 7 months. We love each other very much and we've tried to make the mest out of the distanc...

Tags: online,longdistance relationship,family,religion
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Friends & Family

Please Can someone Help me?

posted Thu 17, Apr 2014 at 11:53am

Hi there im new,.. I live with my Girlfriend and her parents at her parents house were been together for nearly 2 years.. Last night after I finished work I came home and she told me something r...

Tags: Threesome,Girlfriend.
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Work, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy


posted Wed 16, Apr 2014 at 7:05pm

Hi, I've been dating a wonderful girl for 6 months and I love her a lot. When I broke up with my ex I met this girl and another girl at roughly the same time. Not expecting anything to happen...

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posted Wed 16, Apr 2014 at 1:49pm

I live with my bf for 4 years. Hasn't been the first time he's lied but not the first he's been caught either. We have kids 2 get her from seperate marriages. No of which live here full time. I've ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Relationship without any signs of love

posted Wed 16, Apr 2014 at 8:19am

I've been with my partner for almost 10 years and we've got a 5 yr old child. My issue is that I feel we are more of housemates than partners. We never hug or kiss, last time we made love was about...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

Pl.give me suggestion

posted Tue 15, Apr 2014 at 4:32pm

Hi, I'm visiting to India after 7 years. My side family is happy but my husband's side family is making excuses not me to visit India . My sister in law said that if you stay at my parents house, t...

Tags: Mother in law,sister in law
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Sudden break up

posted Mon 14, Apr 2014 at 10:24pm

I met my (ex) boyfriend over a year ago and we were instantly very connected to each other. On our first date we expressed our feelings about relationships and we opened up very quickly about our c...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

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Really Angry!

posted Fri 20, Aug 2010 at 12:15pm

I cannot believe how crass and uncaring my partner is! I forgot to ask her if she wanted a roll out of the freezer last night and she starts having a go at me (6.40 am thank you!) and tells me - AG...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

So confused

posted Mon 23, Aug 2010 at 10:00am

Hi, I wonder if anyone has been were I am and if so, any advice would be greatfully received. I have been on my own for a while now after my marriage failed. I have a really good relationship wit...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

single man needing advice

posted Tue 24, Aug 2010 at 1:18am

hi there im totaly new to relationship websites and as im single anyway im not sure that im in the right place lol, but i would very much appreciate anyones oponion on my current problem. i will e...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Someone HELP?!

posted Tue 24, Aug 2010 at 1:56pm

Me and my boyfriend have fallen out and havent been talking properly since sunday evening. It started when a member of his family (a male) left me a wall post on facebook asking how i was ect ect. ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

I need to rebuild my partners sexual self esteem...

posted Tue 24, Aug 2010 at 3:06pm

Me and my partner have been together for 2 years and are very much in love. We have a problem though that I have no idea how to solve. My partner asked me a question about whether I had been wit...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Help!!Cant get past the argument with my BF

posted Wed 25, Aug 2010 at 12:09pm

Please bear with me, long post... been with my bf for 18months, when i met him he had just been seperated from his ex wife, we started dating and after some months he moved in with me, he wwaas tel...

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Making a Commitment

what would be the best to do..

posted Thu 26, Aug 2010 at 11:04am

if you and your partner love one another and you two know that, deep down we are the bestest friend who know each other the best and the worse. but one of them has been overwhelmed lately, combinin...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Mental disorder, Bad past, marriage breaking down, had breakdown...CANT COPE!!

posted Thu 26, Aug 2010 at 3:48pm

ok so here goes... Was in a bad relationship with my 4 year old dad, was badly beaten, cheated on emotionally abused...... Got out of that!!....met my DH few month later, moved away to be w...

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Becoming a Parent, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner

Don't know what to do for the best.

posted Fri 27, Aug 2010 at 12:21am

My husband and I separated 4 years ago. He was unfaithful on 2 occasions, and tried to be on 2 others (to my knowledge), these were each one off affairs and were alcohol fuelled. At one point thi...

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Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment


posted Wed 1, Sep 2010 at 11:52am

I really don't know what to do anymore. Anything i do makes things worse. My bf and i have been together for 2 1/2 years now and for the last year and a half we have had a problemwith our sex life....

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs & Jealousy

What do I do now?

posted Wed 21, Apr 2010 at 4:17pm

I have just recently split up with my husband of 10 years, we have been together for 13 years in total. We are very lucky and have 2 wonderful children together. Throughout our married life we re...

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Affairs & Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs & Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs & Jealousy

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

She left me but is she using me?

posted Thu 28, Mar 2013 at 12:17pm

Hi My girlfreind of 12 years recently left me, with our 3 yr old son, saying she was unhappy and that she did love me but 'not like that anymore' Before she left she stayed at the house for a...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together
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