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I'm in a happy relationship but I've fallen for someone else.

posted Tue 26, Jul 2016 at 3:24pm

My ex and I got back together. This time around things are a lot better, he treats me like a princess and he's learned from his mistakes and so have I. He makes me really happy but, all my friends ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Sex and Affairs

Am I in a one sided relationship?

posted Tue 26, Jul 2016 at 3:37am

I’ve been with my partner for just over 8 months, and I am head over heels in love, only thing is, I think he might be ready to end the relationship. We are barely ever intimate, and even asid...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Communications in relationships

My second relationship. Few questions.

posted Mon 25, Jul 2016 at 6:05pm

I am 28 and this is only my second relationship. We live with one another as she moved from michigan to live with me to pursue her career and be with me. I enjoy our relationship alot. She is a gen...

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Money, Housework, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Think he's more serious than he lets on

posted Sun 24, Jul 2016 at 4:09pm

So I met this guy a few weeks ago. We met at a bar and we were both a bit drunk. We slept together, sexually and nonsexually, and he made sure I gave him my number. He kept saying he really wanted ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

Needing help and opinions!

posted Sat 23, Jul 2016 at 7:16pm

Hi, I need some help. Me and my boyfriend have a normal relationship and he is a great guy. He treats me well. But he made a mistake. A couple days ago I was sleeping and I woke up to him rubbing m...

Tags: Dating
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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Obsessed

posted Sat 23, Jul 2016 at 4:59am

My fiancé is obsessed and fixated on certain things. He obsesses over the time he goes to sleep and when the time is getting near he begins to get anxiety. He obsesses over pain and illness. He ob...

Tags: obsession,fixation,aspergers,inflexible
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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

No sex life

posted Thu 21, Jul 2016 at 12:27pm

I have been with my boyfriend for 28 months, he lives with me & my kids. We have no sex life - and by this I mean nothing other than pecks and cuddles for 18 months now. It's depressing, it took 15...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

busy boyfriend?

posted Wed 20, Jul 2016 at 5:51pm

so my boyfriend of 2 years (in 2 weeks) plays cricket and it's currently the height of the cricket season and he's been playing every Saturday since May, so I work on a Saturday and I'm okay with h...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Making a Commitment, Word from the street, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Partner is addicted to porn

posted Tue 19, Jul 2016 at 8:32am

Me&my partner are both in our early 30s and have been together for a little over 2 years. We've been living together for almost a year. I love my partner and he loves me too, we share lots of cu...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

confused what to do

posted Mon 18, Jul 2016 at 8:05pm

ok so ive been married with my husband for 7 years now. Its been really rough these past 4 years! pretty much since my son was conceived my sex drive just disappeared it was also painful to have se...

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Becoming a Parent, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships

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I wish I hadn't found out

posted Sat 19, Jun 2010 at 5:47pm

I have been with partner for two and a half years and we are getting married in four weeks but six weeks ago I found out that she use to work as an escort. This as you can imagine has come as a bi...

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Affairs and Jealousy

What do you do when you have been totally betrayed

posted Tue 22, Jun 2010 at 10:41am

I have been seeing someone for 3 years now. To start with I didn't know he was married and when I found out he said they were seperating and showed me that his house was for sale on the internet. T...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Relationship going nowhere.

posted Wed 23, Jun 2010 at 7:38am

Hello all, I have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly 6 years now but for the past few years it seems to just be run of the mill. There is no question that we both love each other ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Dump me for internet looking or not?

posted Wed 23, Jun 2010 at 4:32pm

My girlfriend recently split up with me as I was looking at pictures of girls on the internet. I was fantasising about the pictures and I responded only to sites that I knew were not real for fun a...

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Becoming a Parent, Affairs and Jealousy

I am so completely lost

posted Thu 24, Jun 2010 at 9:41pm

me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. we broke up on sunday. we have always had an incredible relationship, we could talk for hours even at the first date 2 years ago, and we la...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Am I losing her?

posted Sun 27, Jun 2010 at 1:41pm

My girlfriend and i have been together for about 6 months now, and i know, it isnt very long, but after about 2 months we both told each other we loved each other, and for her, it was a VERY big st...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

partner porn .... and lies?

posted Sun 27, Jun 2010 at 7:29pm

hi there this seems to be a common problem on this site. i have been with my fianc'e almost 5 years now. we moved in together after 1 year and up until the 2rd year of living together everythin...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

how much space is..enough?

posted Mon 28, Jun 2010 at 4:08pm

how much space is enough? last couple of days is hell. i didnt know what else to do. i am looking into a place to move out as soon as possible, because staying with him FT is where the probl...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

in such a mess, feel so sad

posted Thu 1, Jul 2010 at 8:46am

15 years ago had boyfriend of a year (wasnt serious as he was in navy and away a lot of the time), met another guy, became very serious very fast, decided to end it with boyfriend, got fonecall fro...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Rubbish sex + No fun :(

posted Thu 1, Jul 2010 at 12:15pm

Me and my partner have been together 2 years, we are engaged + I love him to bits, he's sexy, kind, caring, considerate, loving, great with my children + does loads around the house. But I find him...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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