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how to deal

posted Mon 8, Feb 2016 at 7:51am

So, I've been with my boyfriend for about 11 years and we actually started dating at the fragile age of 15. We grew up together, formed a bond that I've never had with anyone else, and completely k...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

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Not sure how to deal with a stubborn boyfriend.

posted Mon 8, Feb 2016 at 2:48am

Hey! My boyfriend of three years does love me, but he is stubborn and has his hang ups. For example, he will say that he wants me to come around, but when I arrive he refuses to come and let me in,...

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Advice?

posted Mon 8, Feb 2016 at 2:23am

SORRY FOR THE LENGTH OF TEXT, Scroll down for more of a TL:DR type version of the story. Backstory: My boyfriend and I have known each other for 10 years (since we were teenagers, and are n...

Tags: compatible best friend disappointment
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Can we save our marriage?

posted Sun 7, Feb 2016 at 8:12pm

I have been married for 20 years, we have a 19 year old son. Over the years we've been arguing more and more and my husband has been getting less affectionate. We now haven't had sex in 3 years, mo...

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On the brink

posted Sat 3, Jul 2010 at 10:49am

I'm 39, have been married for 11 years and have 3 children. I tried to have an affair about 3 years ago but my feelings were not reciprocated and it ended badly. I recently met another woman (SG...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Really stuck with no one to talk to or know what to do.

posted Sun 4, Jul 2010 at 1:10pm

I married my husband 15 months ago, we have been together 7 1/2 years now and he is a reasonable person. the problem i have is that around 3 years ago i feel out of love with him as a partner, the ...

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Work, Sex/Intimacy and romance

Just in need of some quick advice!

posted Wed 7, Jul 2010 at 10:44am

Hey, me and my partner are both 20, and have been together just over 2.5 years, 6 months of those we have been living together. Around 10 weeks ago we found out she was pregnant, and were both e...

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Housework, Getting on Better with my Partner

Deciding whether we have a future or not - all or nothing

posted Wed 7, Jul 2010 at 2:54pm

To start I will give some background information on the history of my ex-bf and I. We met when we were 16 and started dating when we were 18 right before I headed to university. We dated for a year...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Ok, here goes....

posted Mon 12, Jul 2010 at 6:38pm

ok, here goes. My fiance and I have been together for 18 years and we have 2 children. A teen and a 22 month old (yes, a 13 year age gap between the 2) We love our children dearly. Our problem...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Nervous about being engaged why now?

posted Tue 13, Jul 2010 at 7:52am

I am looking for advice on being nervous after getting engaged. First some background. I am 49 this year and have been in a live in relationship with my partner for the last 12 years. I have a w...

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Making a Commitment

lost, not sure which way to go

posted Wed 14, Jul 2010 at 5:17pm

I recently reconnected with an old school friend on facebook. We talked a lot, laughed and reminisced about old times. Things started taking a turn and I asked if he was happy in his marriage. H...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Is it time to call it a day?

posted Wed 14, Jul 2010 at 9:20pm

Okay here goes...I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and have had many happy and wonderful times together. For the first year of our relationship we lived in seperate houses but still saw ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

If we cant do it now, whats the chance when im sent to Afgan?

posted Thu 15, Jul 2010 at 3:40pm

I met my Girlfriend on match.com nearly 2 years ago. Everything went better and better, but 9 months in, temptation got to me from a ex she txted me when i was in scotland on a battle camp in the c...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is my perspective all skewed??

posted Thu 15, Jul 2010 at 8:52pm

I am living with and have a 3 yr old with my partner of 8 yrs. One of the big issues which causes problems in our relationship is the fact that I feel hurt/disappointed by the fact that he prefers ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

What do I do now?

posted Wed 21, Apr 2010 at 4:17pm

I have just recently split up with my husband of 10 years, we have been together for 13 years in total. We are very lucky and have 2 wonderful children together. Throughout our married life we re...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

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