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Interacacial sex

posted Mon 26, Sep 2016 at 12:13pm

All i think about is interacial sex (black men with white women) im white btw im not being over confident but i have good build n genrally quiet good looking most women think anyway. it stemed ...

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Money, Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Having a Child with Additional Needs, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Need advice

posted Mon 26, Sep 2016 at 1:34am

I have a long distance relationship from 4 years. My partner has a business and that's the reason that he can't move. Also I'm a single mother and I'm trying to give my best for my son. When we sta...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

posted Sun 25, Sep 2016 at 6:37pm

He lives in the US and I live in Germany, but we’re both from the same country, although he’s also an american citizen. He’s pursuing a PhD. He says he wants to come to Germany after he gets his de...

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Making a Commitment, Life transitions, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

I fell in love with my best friend but I amgetting very mixed signals

posted Sat 24, Sep 2016 at 10:21pm

Hi Everyone, I am in a bit of a situation with my best friend. Things happened and I am getting totally mixed signals from him. I don’t understand him. But let’s start at the beginning. We met...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

I am having intimacy and sex issues with my boyfriend of 3 years after we have got back together from a 6 month break up

posted Fri 23, Sep 2016 at 10:07pm

I do not normally write on these blogs for help but I feel like no one i know will understand my issue. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and we are so close in every aspect. We ar...

Tags: sex,intimacy,finding partner sexually attractive,finding other people sexually attractive when in a relationship
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Sex and Affairs

Is there hope of getting back together? Struggling to move on.

posted Fri 23, Sep 2016 at 9:19pm

Me and my boyfriend were together for nine months and I was so happy. Suddenly, he broke up with me a couple of weeks ago and I don’t understand why. He said he thinks we’re not suited, have little...

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Life transitions, Communications in relationships

Does He Like Me? Advice On Whether To Initiate a Relationship Needed!!!

posted Tue 20, Sep 2016 at 11:36pm

So I recently started college (I live in the UK so i'm 16), I met this guy at the taster week that we had for the college about 2 months ago. At the taster week we spent a little while together, ju...

Tags: relationship,help,dating,college,flirting,nervous
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, A Psychologist's Perspective

not sure where this is going, need some help.

posted Tue 20, Sep 2016 at 8:46am

my Partner and I have been together for ten years. we got married about 9 years ago, then we got divorced. then we got back together, then we split up then we got back together again, 19 months ago...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

My boyfriend is following famous xxx women on snapchat. Should I care?

posted Mon 19, Sep 2016 at 7:16pm

Let me start off by saying that I have been with the same man for almost 4 years and we are happy and just as in love as we were at the very beginning. Now with that being said, there is one curren...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Videos, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

My wife's best friend.

posted Mon 19, Sep 2016 at 6:04pm

First off I just want to say that my wife and I have what I think is a good relationship. We hardly ever argue except for one particular topic my wifes best friend. I was neighbors with my wifes b...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

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Can't fix it

posted Mon 7, Sep 2009 at 10:38am

Hi there, I feel a little silly sending this email but I've tried every tool I have to fix a ongoing issue with my partner and nothing is working. My partner is wonderful, kind, polite, soft an...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

No longer love my partner.

posted Wed 9, Sep 2009 at 9:30am

I have been in a relationship for 9 years and have a 13yr old from a previous relationship and a daughter of 4. It has not been easy since the start of the relationship as my partner was moody, unc...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Missing the sex ...

posted Wed 9, Sep 2009 at 1:57pm

Hi all! I've been with my partner for 14 years. 5 years ago he had a motorcycle accident leaving him paralysed from the waist down. Since then, the intimate side of our relationship has fall...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

If you believe in honesty, then believe in me?

posted Wed 9, Sep 2009 at 10:44pm

So, for a few years now I seem to be having trouble in relationships. And I have come to the decision that it is me. Before I continue I would like to thank anyone reading this, this means a lot...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Complicated

posted Fri 11, Sep 2009 at 10:46pm

I met my b.f at work 4 years ago. Initially, he was all about business, not about making friends or nothing, I had to control the habit of smiling at everyone and him. He greeted me in a cold ma...

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Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner

He makes no time for me

posted Sat 12, Sep 2009 at 9:39pm

I have been married to my husband for 6 years and I love him very much but he smokes cannibis all of the time. He wont admit he has a problem but when he runs out he is verbally abusive to me. He ...

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Becoming a Parent, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

confusion love

posted Sat 12, Sep 2009 at 11:12pm

Hi! Well i will tell you my story, but don't get angry about my grammar, because I am not very good at english. So I hope you guys will understand me. Well I will not tell you whole story, so it...

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Making a Commitment

advice please!!!

posted Tue 15, Sep 2009 at 4:05pm

I broke up with my partner 7 weeks ago through his aggressive behaviour. I havent seen him since but we do speak on the phone but when we start talking about the past we argue and blame each other....

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

I NEED HER BACK!!!

posted Tue 15, Sep 2009 at 6:39pm

well, where do i start? i have been in a relationship for 5 years now and engaged for 3. 1 week ago my partner left me and it was like being shot in the heart.i realy truely love her so so much, i...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Very complicated.....any suggestion is welcomed..

posted Wed 16, Sep 2009 at 5:01pm

I am sending this message as a last resort to try and save the relationship I am in right now. I will try to tell the story short and clear. I am originally from Romania and I am 28 years old and m...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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