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Obsessed

posted Sat 23, Jul 2016 at 4:59am

My fiancé is obsessed and fixated on certain things. He obsesses over the time he goes to sleep and when the time is getting near he begins to get anxiety. He obsesses over pain and illness. He ob...

Tags: obsession,fixation,aspergers,inflexible
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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

No sex life

posted Thu 21, Jul 2016 at 12:27pm

I have been with my boyfriend for 28 months, he lives with me & my kids. We have no sex life - and by this I mean nothing other than pecks and cuddles for 18 months now. It's depressing, it took 15...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

busy boyfriend?

posted Wed 20, Jul 2016 at 5:51pm

so my boyfriend of 2 years (in 2 weeks) plays cricket and it's currently the height of the cricket season and he's been playing every Saturday since May, so I work on a Saturday and I'm okay with h...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Making a Commitment, Word from the street, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Partner is addicted to porn

posted Tue 19, Jul 2016 at 8:32am

Me&my partner are both in our early 30s and have been together for a little over 2 years. We've been living together for almost a year. I love my partner and he loves me too, we share lots of cu...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

confused what to do

posted Mon 18, Jul 2016 at 8:05pm

ok so ive been married with my husband for 7 years now. Its been really rough these past 4 years! pretty much since my son was conceived my sex drive just disappeared it was also painful to have se...

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Becoming a Parent, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships

Seeking for enlightment.. i feel jealous and scared loosing my bf

posted Mon 18, Jul 2016 at 7:43pm

Hi Im skylar. 34 yrs old single. I have a bf through online who happens to be 12yrs younger than me. His 22 yrs old. We haven't seen each other yet.. we had a cool off for 7 days after that he ca...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Stuck in the middle

posted Mon 18, Jul 2016 at 11:59am

Hi, so I am a 32 year old female and my fiance is 25. We live together and are due to get married next month. The problem is that my parents don't like my fiance. I feel like some of this is jus...

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Money, Work, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Commitment issues help

posted Mon 18, Jul 2016 at 8:29am

Myself and fiancé have been together for 11 years, about 4 years ago before we brought our house he was unsure and we broke up for 6 months as he was scared to commit and at the time I thought it w...

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Making a Commitment, A Psychologist's Perspective

Separated, anxiety, devastation.

posted Sun 17, Jul 2016 at 5:11pm

Hi there, I'll make it vague, I am 26 and my (now ex) partner is 23, we were together for 4.5 years and lived together 2.5 years. We split up 6 months ago, and moved out etc but then came ba...

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At my ropes end!

posted Sun 17, Jul 2016 at 12:17am

I've been posting on here for a while about my relationship and now I really feel that I'm at the end of my rope with this relationship. We went to an all inclusive resort to celebrate our birthday...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

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Advice

posted Mon 31, Aug 2009 at 12:06am

I am currently living with my partner. We have recently moved in together. I met him over a year ago, we lived in different countries. We used to see each other fairly regularly for a long distance...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

giving it another go??

posted Mon 31, Aug 2009 at 9:11am

Id been with my partner for just over a year, we'd spoken about living together and marriage., although the last 3 months of the relationship was stresssful and argumentative. Id treated him to a w...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend says our relationship is perfect, so why did he cheat?

posted Mon 31, Aug 2009 at 1:30pm

Hello, this is my 1st time using this website and I hope someone can help me, although at the moment it doesnt feel like it. I have been with my boyfriend for 16 months and they have been the be...

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Affairs and Jealousy

I dont know whats wrong with me!!!!

posted Tue 1, Sep 2009 at 2:28pm

I dont really know what to do about this situation. I have been split up with my partner now about a month. We have had a on/off relationship for 4 years. At times we would be ok and getting on an...

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Affairs and Jealousy

I don't know what to do -please help

posted Wed 2, Sep 2009 at 9:15am

I have been with my boyfriend (not sure if we are together or not) for 4 years. It is a long and complicated relationship - so i will just tell you the important things - the things i think are imp...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Going out with a depressed women

posted Wed 2, Sep 2009 at 2:48pm

Hi my name is Gary, and since May 1st, 2008, I've been going out with my girfriend, and things were good, until the end of May, when, I introduced her to many friends, couples, who came to visit me...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Sudden regression in intimacy.

posted Sat 5, Sep 2009 at 12:17pm

Well, a little background, the girl I am in reference I am NOT dating, we are however, very good friends, and it's a little more complicated than the traditional "in love with your friend" predicam...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Commitment phobia paniced my Fiance and now doesn't want to be with me.

posted Sun 6, Sep 2009 at 10:08am

I'm 25 and have been seeing a lad now who I went to school with for 3 years. We've never argued, which I dont know is a good thing or a bad thing. We talk through things, but when he's feeling bad ...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Can't fix it

posted Mon 7, Sep 2009 at 10:38am

Hi there, I feel a little silly sending this email but I've tried every tool I have to fix a ongoing issue with my partner and nothing is working. My partner is wonderful, kind, polite, soft an...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

No longer love my partner.

posted Wed 9, Sep 2009 at 9:30am

I have been in a relationship for 9 years and have a 13yr old from a previous relationship and a daughter of 4. It has not been easy since the start of the relationship as my partner was moody, unc...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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