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Long Distance Relationship: My Boyfriend Blocked Me

posted Thu 25, May 2017 at 7:01pm

Before I ask the question, I will just let you know what happened first. So, I was talking to my best friend and I mentioned to her that my boyfriend has been distant lately. Sure he has a lot of t...

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Communications in relationships

Is it considered cheating when you don't have a label in a relationship and talking to other guys online ?j

posted Tue 23, May 2017 at 2:21pm

Is it considered cheating when you don't have a label in a relationship and talking to other guys online ?just casual talks, no flirting, never meet anyone. So I've known this guy for 2 yrs and ah...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

My boyfriend snapped

posted Fri 19, May 2017 at 12:45pm

My boyfriend of four years went absolutely psycho tonight and i am currently up at a friends trying to work out what to do.. Our relationship had been going incredibly smoothly up until yesterday. ...

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Am I over reacting?

posted Wed 17, May 2017 at 9:58am

Okay so, I'm really jealous person and I have trust issues. (Reason for it is bc of something that happened in my childhood). For someone who is like this though I'm okay with my boyfriend to watch...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

He is mad

posted Wed 17, May 2017 at 12:00am

My boyfriend of 2 yrs broke up with me after Easter weekend. He said he was unhappy and uncomfortable in the relationship. This was after a fun filled weekend with his family. This was my 1st t...

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Relationship issues

posted Tue 16, May 2017 at 8:13pm

I am in a relationship with someone who cannot accept my kids from a previous marriage. She has no kids, and doesnt want them, but tried as she wanted to be with me. But we experience constant prob...

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Communications in relationships

Confused...please HELP!!!

posted Tue 16, May 2017 at 2:28am

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I have three children and he has one. I was married and divorced twice, and he was married once, engaged once and in a long term relati...

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Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

Worried about boyfriend's new female friend

posted Mon 15, May 2017 at 4:24pm

This is going to be a bit of an essay so I apologise in advance! To give you a bit of background, my boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years and we have a house and a dog to...

Tags: relationships,female friends,cheating
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Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships

Obsessing over ex and new girlfriend

posted Mon 8, May 2017 at 9:58am

I wrote on this forum a year ago when I just had been dumped by my ex who treated me so poorly in our 6 year relationship...I was with a narcissist and I had super low self esteem and this intense ...

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Is he cheating?

posted Sun 7, May 2017 at 12:24pm

I had a difficult pregnancy so we did not have sex for nearly a year. We recently had sex again for the first time. It was fine. But I had heard before that after a long period without sex, men usu...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

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What should I do? PLZ help me...

posted Thu 20, Aug 2009 at 10:11am

When she use to live in the same country as i did. we were so close and so honest to each other. she was 15 and I was 14. her dad was very strict about her having a boyfriend. So we had to hide our...

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Affairs and Jealousy

So confused and sad after my affair

posted Sun 23, Aug 2009 at 8:49pm

Hi, I have been in love with my husband for 10 years, together for 7, married for 2 and we have a beautiful and much loved daughter who just turned 4. I havent been myself recently and have bee...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

I'm not proud to say any of this ...

posted Mon 24, Aug 2009 at 11:53am

I am a guy in my mid fifties, and have been married for 32 years, with four lovely children, all of whom have left home now. It is true to say that I married my "best friend". If I'm honest, I'm no...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

a life changing decision

posted Tue 25, Aug 2009 at 7:13pm

i need some advice, i have got myself into a situaion and cant see a way out - or cant seem to make a decision about what to do!! I have been in a relationship for 2 yrs in dec with *Simon* who i m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Worse situation ever imaginable

posted Thu 27, Aug 2009 at 1:53pm

I am married with 2 children but things have been tough in our relationship due to the past and even now we are having more and more problems. We rarely see each other. We often argue. We have...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shall i give it another go!!! advice pls

posted Thu 27, Aug 2009 at 8:01pm

I have been split up with my boyfriend now for 2 months, we split due to his aggressive behaviour. We have had problems over the 4 years we have been together with trust i have never trusted him be...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Is what im feeling normal - need some advice.

posted Sat 29, Aug 2009 at 8:20pm

Hi all, first post so here goes, I will start off with a bit of background info first!, im 20 and i own and run my own business which to be honest is very stressful, but i can cope with that. I ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Advice

posted Mon 31, Aug 2009 at 12:06am

I am currently living with my partner. We have recently moved in together. I met him over a year ago, we lived in different countries. We used to see each other fairly regularly for a long distance...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

giving it another go??

posted Mon 31, Aug 2009 at 9:11am

Id been with my partner for just over a year, we'd spoken about living together and marriage., although the last 3 months of the relationship was stresssful and argumentative. Id treated him to a w...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend says our relationship is perfect, so why did he cheat?

posted Mon 31, Aug 2009 at 1:30pm

Hello, this is my 1st time using this website and I hope someone can help me, although at the moment it doesnt feel like it. I have been with my boyfriend for 16 months and they have been the be...

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Affairs and Jealousy

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Really long term relationship with major issues

posted Sun 8, Jun 2014 at 4:13pm

My heart goes out to all of you whose posts I read about problems in relationships of a few years or even a few months. Looking at it from the long perspective (over 40 years) I wish you all co...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

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