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My boyfriend asked me to go home on a night out- advice?

posted Fri 27, May 2016 at 11:55am

My partner and I have lived together for almost 3 years now. Although we both love each other very much and are committed in the long run, we're going through a bit of a bumpy patch at the moment. ...

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Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner

Do I even stand a chance?

posted Fri 27, May 2016 at 5:05am

Hello, I have this huge crush on one of my friends. For info's sake: I'm a guy, she's a girl. Same age and I'd like to think we're pretty good friends. We talk to each other all the time abou...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Changing perspectives in Retirement

posted Thu 26, May 2016 at 2:08pm

I am a 59 year old man, fortunate enough to have been able to retire a few months ago. I have always loved travel and now have the time and funds to do a lot more of this. My partner of 13 years ...

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Life transitions

Confusing relationship with my ex

posted Thu 26, May 2016 at 12:26pm

Hi there If nothin else this is a vent but if anyone wants to reply with advice then Id really appreciate it. Thank you. I'm going to write this as a list and try not to go into too much detail....

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Confused

posted Thu 26, May 2016 at 11:57am

I Am 18 and I have been in a realationship for about 8 months now and things have been okay. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and since then things have changed in good and bad ways.I feel like ...

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Making a Commitment, Life transitions

Baby mama

posted Thu 26, May 2016 at 6:24am

So I will give a quick brief of the start, met her when she was 13 and I was 15 now a year later we had got the news we were going to have twin babies. Me at 16 and her at 14 we were very nervous, ...

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Housework, A Psychologist's Perspective

Girlfriend isn't affectionate

posted Thu 26, May 2016 at 1:44am

Me and my girlfriend have been together for close to four months now and I feel as if it's a one sided give and no take relationship. It's long distance I guess you can say she lives about an hour ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

What would make him act like this towards me?

posted Wed 25, May 2016 at 11:16pm

Me and my ex were together for over a year.. We were talking about marriage what our house is going to look like etc.. He told his entire family he wanted a baby so we started trying and boom I'm c...

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Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Life transitions, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together, Sex and Affairs

Is it considered a legit date

posted Wed 25, May 2016 at 7:17pm

I've posted multiple times about this same guy that I am very interested in. Last weekend we went to a mutual friend/co-workers wedding together. When I say together I mean we wore clothes to the w...

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Issues with my boyfriends sister

posted Wed 25, May 2016 at 2:19pm

I have been with my boyfriend for eight months now and we are doing great. The only problem in our relationship is his sister. She and I were best friends for many years and once my boyfriend and I...

Tags: family issues,boyfriends sister
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Friends & Family

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Advice

posted Mon 31, Aug 2009 at 12:06am

I am currently living with my partner. We have recently moved in together. I met him over a year ago, we lived in different countries. We used to see each other fairly regularly for a long distance...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

giving it another go??

posted Mon 31, Aug 2009 at 9:11am

Id been with my partner for just over a year, we'd spoken about living together and marriage., although the last 3 months of the relationship was stresssful and argumentative. Id treated him to a w...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend says our relationship is perfect, so why did he cheat?

posted Mon 31, Aug 2009 at 1:30pm

Hello, this is my 1st time using this website and I hope someone can help me, although at the moment it doesnt feel like it. I have been with my boyfriend for 16 months and they have been the be...

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Affairs and Jealousy

I dont know whats wrong with me!!!!

posted Tue 1, Sep 2009 at 2:28pm

I dont really know what to do about this situation. I have been split up with my partner now about a month. We have had a on/off relationship for 4 years. At times we would be ok and getting on an...

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Affairs and Jealousy

I don't know what to do -please help

posted Wed 2, Sep 2009 at 9:15am

I have been with my boyfriend (not sure if we are together or not) for 4 years. It is a long and complicated relationship - so i will just tell you the important things - the things i think are imp...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Going out with a depressed women

posted Wed 2, Sep 2009 at 2:48pm

Hi my name is Gary, and since May 1st, 2008, I've been going out with my girfriend, and things were good, until the end of May, when, I introduced her to many friends, couples, who came to visit me...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Sudden regression in intimacy.

posted Sat 5, Sep 2009 at 12:17pm

Well, a little background, the girl I am in reference I am NOT dating, we are however, very good friends, and it's a little more complicated than the traditional "in love with your friend" predicam...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Commitment phobia paniced my Fiance and now doesn't want to be with me.

posted Sun 6, Sep 2009 at 10:08am

I'm 25 and have been seeing a lad now who I went to school with for 3 years. We've never argued, which I dont know is a good thing or a bad thing. We talk through things, but when he's feeling bad ...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Can't fix it

posted Mon 7, Sep 2009 at 10:38am

Hi there, I feel a little silly sending this email but I've tried every tool I have to fix a ongoing issue with my partner and nothing is working. My partner is wonderful, kind, polite, soft an...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

No longer love my partner.

posted Wed 9, Sep 2009 at 9:30am

I have been in a relationship for 9 years and have a 13yr old from a previous relationship and a daughter of 4. It has not been easy since the start of the relationship as my partner was moody, unc...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

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Having an affair but can't leave marriage

posted Sat 31, Jan 2009 at 9:57am

I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, all that matters to me was my family whom I took pride in and would do a lot f...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Trying to right my wrong but so unhappy

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 4:45pm

Hi my marriage became very one sided and I ended up being a single mum whilst married. Friends and family told my husband how things were but his answer was " she's well trained " and " she's alrig...

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Affairs and Jealousy

7 months on and don't feel any better after betrayal....

posted Mon 16, Mar 2009 at 10:07am

.....if anything I feel worse as the more I think about it, the more deception I see! My husband had been seeing a friend of mine behind my back for months and he was also e-mailing a woman off ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is sexual attraction and friendship enough?

posted Sat 15, Sep 2012 at 1:17pm

Hi everybody, ive been on here before in search of advice....im back again lol So im 23 male, and have been seeing/sleeping with a girl who i have alot of history with, we go back along way lots...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Newbie help please?

posted Mon 9, Jun 2014 at 10:50am

Not sure if anyone can advise but here goes. Brief history, married 34 years, 4 grown up kids, financially ok and seemingly happy. Wife had an affair 20 years ago but worked through it and stayed t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend doesn't initiate or want sex.

posted Wed 11, Mar 2009 at 6:19pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We love each other and get on amazingly well. However...he doesn't initiate sex with me. In the day he can be all over me, hugging and kissing m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Seperated and heartbroken

posted Sat 7, Nov 2015 at 8:12pm

Looking for some advice as i just don't know what to do. Me and my Wife have been together for 8 years, Married for 4. When we 1st met we were so much in love, constantly kissing and hugging, we co...

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Money, Housework, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Found my boyfriend wanking

posted Mon 8, Dec 2008 at 10:18pm

<p>Help - I don;t know what to do.&nbsp; I just found my boyfriend wanking over a girl online.&nbsp; He was using his webcam and it eas obvious they were both at it.</p> <p>Please help, I feel so ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

My Wife's secret affair with her boss!!

posted Mon 10, Aug 2009 at 11:46am

Hi all..Ive just discovered my wife is having a sexual relationship with with her Ex boss, this has torn my world apart completely. When she started working for this company 5 years ago she was war...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Really long term relationship with major issues

posted Sun 8, Jun 2014 at 4:13pm

My heart goes out to all of you whose posts I read about problems in relationships of a few years or even a few months. Looking at it from the long perspective (over 40 years) I wish you all co...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

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