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My ex hates us because of new girlfriend?!!! URGENT!!

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 5:13am

My ex and I divorced in 2013. He has started dating this new woman. She is 38 and has 3 kids. My ex is a millionaire good looking man (hes a womanizer). They have been dating for 6 months after th...

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Ejaculate within 20 seconds

posted Sat 19, Apr 2014 at 1:40pm

long story short, I've been talking to a girl and she wants to have sex. This is really exciting for me because I'm actually a virgin, but I have problem with PE. I don't know what to do. A whil...

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posted Fri 18, Apr 2014 at 5:24pm

I have come through a very bad and turbulent time in my life due to problems with a controlling partner but finally found the courage to leave, am on my feet again, have a lovely home, good job and...

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posted Fri 18, Apr 2014 at 2:19pm

Hey, me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, we live together and we love each other very much and I know he cares about me, but I'm a very emotional person and very insecure in what I ...

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posted Fri 18, Apr 2014 at 12:22pm

Hi! I need advice! I met my boyfriend online and about a year ago and we've been officially together for 7 months. We love each other very much and we've tried to make the mest out of the distanc...

Tags: online,longdistance relationship,family,religion
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Friends & Family

Please Can someone Help me?

posted Thu 17, Apr 2014 at 11:53am

Hi there im new,.. I live with my Girlfriend and her parents at her parents house were been together for nearly 2 years.. Last night after I finished work I came home and she told me something r...

Tags: Threesome,Girlfriend.
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Work, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy


posted Wed 16, Apr 2014 at 7:05pm

Hi, I've been dating a wonderful girl for 6 months and I love her a lot. When I broke up with my ex I met this girl and another girl at roughly the same time. Not expecting anything to happen...

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posted Wed 16, Apr 2014 at 1:49pm

I live with my bf for 4 years. Hasn't been the first time he's lied but not the first he's been caught either. We have kids 2 get her from seperate marriages. No of which live here full time. I've ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Relationship without any signs of love

posted Wed 16, Apr 2014 at 8:19am

I've been with my partner for almost 10 years and we've got a 5 yr old child. My issue is that I feel we are more of housemates than partners. We never hug or kiss, last time we made love was about...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

Pl.give me suggestion

posted Tue 15, Apr 2014 at 4:32pm

Hi, I'm visiting to India after 7 years. My side family is happy but my husband's side family is making excuses not me to visit India . My sister in law said that if you stay at my parents house, t...

Tags: Mother in law,sister in law
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Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs & Jealousy

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment


posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance


posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

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Ok This is a tough one

posted Mon 20, Dec 2010 at 6:19pm

my girlfreind of 12 years has just walked out on me,after we have just had a baby, we had problems,but nothing major, i have had to work very hard this year to cover the bills while my partner was ...

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Money, Getting on Better with my Partner

Sexless Relationship..Help!

posted Tue 17, Apr 2012 at 4:06pm

I'm in a 4 years relationship with a man I love very much. We've talked about marriage and children. He's my rock. My family love him. He's almost perfect. But for the past 2 years we've been havin...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

I'm torn between two men, my long distance boyfriend or a sweet guy I just met. How can I choose? :-(

posted Fri 21, Jun 2013 at 1:13pm

I’m 22 and I have been really depressed for the last 6 months! I met C online on a dating site. The reason why I registered on that site is that I wanted to find friends and practise my English ...

Tags: cheating,love,relationship,affairs
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

will he come back? I miss him so much...

posted Tue 5, Nov 2013 at 10:08pm

Hi, I'm new here and just hoping someone has some helpful advice for me. Me and my fiancé broke up nearly 2 months ago, I'm currently 21 Weeks pregnant with his baby. We were together for nearly 3 ...

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Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

how do you move on from your husband having an affair

posted Wed 31, Dec 2008 at 5:22pm

I posted a brief note a couple of weeks ago to say my husband confessed to having an affair for the past months leaving me his 3 children and family and friends absoulutely devastated. He has told ...

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Affairs & Jealousy

chat rooms

posted Sun 20, Sep 2009 at 12:09pm

I'm new to this site and to be honest i dont know where to start.. i have been married for 7 years have been with my husband for 10 years. we used to be so close we have never had anything in commo...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Is there a difference between a girlfriend and partner behaviour?

posted Sun 6, Dec 2009 at 9:35pm

I really would like someone to tell me whether I am unreasonable or not. So here is my way of finding an independent opinion, away from friends and family. I was married for two decades before I...

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Housework, Getting on Better with my Partner

I cant do it

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 2:39pm

just the most dreadful row again . I am so fed up with my partner . He never helps and is never around and I asked him to clean my car today and he got pissed off and swore at me . I was so angry ...

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Can my relationship survive an emotional affair?

posted Sat 14, Apr 2012 at 1:20pm

My wife had an emotional affair with a man who lives in another country. They met online 18 months ago through a work connection then communicated over online chat, the phone and they met once. ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Confused and looking for advice

posted Wed 2, Oct 2013 at 1:27pm

I have been dating a girl for 2 months. We have both had crazy fun with each other. We do not live together but we have been with each other almost every day. It really has been great and she tell...

Tags: ex bf and ex gf as best friends?
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Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment
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