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The Relationship Forum is provided for visitors who are seeking advice and support from the community in relation to relationship issues. The aim of the forum is to help you to understand and explore your situation by talking to others who may be going through, or have experienced a similar situation. The Relationship Forum is moderated by a team of counsellors with lots of experience of helping couples as they work things out in their relationship. They facilitate the forum, providing guidance and additional help wherever needed.

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trust

posted Wed 22, May 2013 at 1:08am

hi there i met my partner on fb on jan this year and we kept seeing each other like she came up to me from wales because i live in halifax west yorkshire and we were all lovey and that and on the ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Going round in circles

posted Tue 21, May 2013 at 7:37pm

I met my boyfriend when we were both 15 and just finishing school. We have been together for 6 years this year and during this time we have had no serious breaks from eachother. About 3 years...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Friends & Family, Making a Commitment

Married, 3 kids, another interest?!

posted Mon 20, May 2013 at 3:24pm

So, long story short, I've been married for 9 years and have 3 children. My husband is amazing and seriously the guy I always dreamed of having. HOWEVER...that spark...not sure where it is, or for ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

STILL IN LOVE BUT V'CONFUSED!

posted Mon 20, May 2013 at 3:06pm

Hi there, I have posted on here a few times before - this post is very relevant to my other called - 'overcoming the Mistake' (Please have a look if you can) My confusion is based very much...

Tags: VERY grateful of your time! Please let me know what you think,thank you!
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

What to do now! im going Crazy!

posted Mon 20, May 2013 at 11:55am

in my past relationships i have always been walked over and cheated on. this has always left me feeling paranoid and found it hard to trust anybody. until nearly 2 years ago i met a guy ( who i am ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Need Guidance...fast

posted Mon 20, May 2013 at 1:39am

Me and my ex gf have been off and on for about 4 years now, and usually after we break up i never want her back and i dont care if we are friends or not. But for some odd reason this time is diffre...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Another guy

posted Sun 19, May 2013 at 4:43pm

I have been I a relationship for 5 yearsand just moved in with my boyfriend for the first time 6mo ago and am pretty happy. I am only 22 years old. My boyfriend is very laid back and chilled. He l...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

So unhappy in relationship, what do I do?

posted Sat 18, May 2013 at 12:43pm

Hi all. I'm new to this forum and am really hoping someone can guide me in the correct direction. I have been with my partner for 5 years, since I was 18. He's now 28. It was all a bit whirlwin...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

Should the penetration hurt 1st time and not the 2nd time a girl who had only 3 months worth of sex life ever few years ago?

posted Sat 18, May 2013 at 10:28am

I got married few days ago. The girl is 30. She was married back in 2010 for only 3 months and then got divorced. She has told me that she was a virgin at the time of that marriage. After the break...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Confused, hurt..am I reading too much into it?

posted Fri 17, May 2013 at 4:59pm

I am feeling so hurt and confused and don't know where to turn. I have just discovered that my partner of 18 years has been in contact with the first woman he had sex with. Of course, I knew abou...

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Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs & Jealousy

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

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mixed messages. to move on or not? please help me.. :(

posted Sun 4, Sep 2011 at 9:44pm

I posted something just under a week ago with regards to my relationship break down and the relationship not only being my first relationship, but also my first love and also a relationship with an...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Can't Move On

posted Mon 5, Sep 2011 at 1:47pm

I was in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years. The 1st year and a half was great, but then we both got a little comfortable and things got very routine. I loved her very much, but after ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Confused

posted Tue 6, Sep 2011 at 5:04am

Okay here we go again, as I said in previous post that I and this girl know each other for 2months and 7days....in the beginning things was good, have a good laugh and just have fun....then suddenl...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

In a rut after only 8 months - plus I think I like someone else :-(

posted Wed 7, Sep 2011 at 4:01am

I've been in a relationship with my BF for about 8 months now. We moved in together about 2 months ago after travelling overseas for 2 weeks which seemed to be a great test of our relationship - we...

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Money, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

Devastated after 4 years together...

posted Fri 9, Sep 2011 at 10:56am

Hi, I'm new to this kind of thing but I thought perhaps coming on here would help and get some impartial opinions. Me and my boyfriend have been together 4 years, we got together extremely young...

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Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

affairs

posted Sat 10, Sep 2011 at 6:27pm

I came on this site a while ago, I wanted to know why my ex partner, as we now have split for definate, didnt want to commit after telling me several times that he wanted to. Its took along time to...

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From the outside looking in we are perfect ...

posted Wed 14, Sep 2011 at 12:40am

As all my friends tell me I have the perfect man, he is kind, will do anything for me, is great with my friends and family, we never argue and above all adores me. Now don't get me wrong I am so gr...

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Making a Commitment

Should I break up?

posted Sat 26, Nov 2011 at 6:28pm

Been with boyfriend for 2 years, things were fine to begin with then he started to show his true colours. We were at uni, he begun to ignore my calls all the time, he never wanted to meet up, spent...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

is my husband still in love with me

posted Wed 28, Dec 2011 at 4:42pm

my husband and i have recently been having some real problems with our marrige, we've been together for nearly 20 years and have been married for 16 years. Ive always known that he has mental healt...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Trouble in paradise

posted Tue 24, Jan 2012 at 7:22pm

Hi everyone, I'm new on here so please bare with me! My fiance and I have been together for 4 years and are due to get married next year. The only thing is i'm not sure whether this is what i ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment
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