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No Contact Advice? Desperate Childs play?

posted Wed 23, Apr 2014 at 9:47am

Is no contact an american fad or could it make my ex miss me & get him to come back? Have many people successfully tried it? If anyone would recommend it, should i text and apologise for all the n...

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Ex boyfriend issues

posted Tue 22, Apr 2014 at 10:16pm

My ex boyfriend and i dated for two years and had broken up about two years ago. A week after we broke up he had a new girlfriend that he randomly met that week and i thought it was just going to b...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Help dating advice

posted Tue 22, Apr 2014 at 9:50pm

Hi I have recently been out of daring due to last relationship , my friends keep telling me to try move on , I can't stop thinking about my ex keep having dreams about her and can't sleep and every...

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Friends & Family

Two girls...kindof

posted Tue 22, Apr 2014 at 5:41am

So my ex ended it and started to see another guy. Without the whole story, we had some troubles obviously in our four year relationship. But we were engaged at one point just a couple years ago. An...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together

Am I just a display model?

posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 9:19pm

Hi, I have been with my Girlfriend for a few months now and have got some doubts. When we initially started dating we seemed to progress a bit faster than I anticipated (i.e. for a first date we ha...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Strong feelings for a close friend that has a boyfriend

posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 9:16pm

I've lived in a shared house with a girl and three others for 2 years and have absolutely fallen for the girl. It started over 3 months ago and I've tried so hard to turn off these feelings but I j...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Made a huge mistake in dumping my beloved boyfriend - what to do?

posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 7:58am

Ive made a terrible mistake and ended up dumping my beloved boyfriend nearly 2 weeks ago now. We had been together almost 9 months. Im his first long term relationship in many years... He is q...

Tags: break up,getting back together
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Military wife adjustment

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 11:45pm

Me a my husband have been together for 4 years married for ten months and it hasn't Been all good. Yes we had our good times in the being of the relationship but know it just seems to die down. Fo...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

In love with a man who wants more

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 11:30pm

I have been a relationship for over 10 years now and have a child. I am deeply in love with him and can't imagine him out of my life. Lately he has made it known to me and our child that he has bec...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

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Help please

posted Thu 20, Oct 2011 at 10:14pm

Hi everyone first time writing on This just trying to seek some advice. I have been going out with my boyfriend for the last 3 and half years however the last few months we have been going through ...

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what do i do? help :(

posted Sat 22, Oct 2011 at 12:18pm

I've been with my boyfriend 2 and a half years now, the first year our relationship was good, the second year went down hill. I was never respected, spoken to nicely, no physical loving contact was...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Sexting

posted Mon 31, Oct 2011 at 4:35am

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and i feel like i have no sex drive anymore. Until i went to a party and saw my ex from a very long time ago. We've talked every now and then bu...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

confused, should i stay or should i go?

posted Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 1:30am

I know that no one can tell me what the right choice is, but I would just like to hear some opinions I guess. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. He moved in with me a couple months...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Ex-girlfriends parents

posted Mon 14, Nov 2011 at 2:13am

Hey, I just wondered if anyone had any thoughts on the issues I have. Right, My ex-girlfriend and I were in a relationship for 5 months. Unfortunately a lot of the time it was a long-distance r...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner

My girlfriend wants to move ..

posted Sat 26, Nov 2011 at 9:41pm

I'm at my last resort with what to do with my girlfriend. We have both recently started at different but local universities, and we always agreed we would stay at home so that we could maintain the...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Giving my boyfriend a 'Hall Pass'

posted Sun 27, Nov 2011 at 8:04pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 years. I'm 19 and he's 21 so we're both young but our relationship has always been intense. We have always been open in talking about the future ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Not sure where i stand

posted Thu 1, Dec 2011 at 1:36pm

my husband of 17 years informed me in september that he no longer loved me like he used to, i had put on a bit of weight but have never been thin, i agreed that i wanted to loose the weight, but si...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

i dont know what to do!! please help!!

posted Tue 6, Dec 2011 at 5:00pm

Hi!! there is a guy from my course at the university and we have been friends for a couple of months. this is my first year at the university and i want to concentrate purely on studying and No re...

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My husband is a very bad listener.

posted Fri 9, Dec 2011 at 6:35pm

My husband is a very bad listener and has very low confidence. So times, takes things personal, gets insulted or offended. Then you have to explain to him what was said and 9 out of 10 times, it's ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner
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