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Long Distance Relationship: My Boyfriend Blocked Me

posted Thu 25, May 2017 at 7:01pm

Before I ask the question, I will just let you know what happened first. So, I was talking to my best friend and I mentioned to her that my boyfriend has been distant lately. Sure he has a lot of t...

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Communications in relationships

Is it considered cheating when you don't have a label in a relationship and talking to other guys online ?j

posted Tue 23, May 2017 at 2:21pm

Is it considered cheating when you don't have a label in a relationship and talking to other guys online ?just casual talks, no flirting, never meet anyone. So I've known this guy for 2 yrs and ah...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

My boyfriend snapped

posted Fri 19, May 2017 at 12:45pm

My boyfriend of four years went absolutely psycho tonight and i am currently up at a friends trying to work out what to do.. Our relationship had been going incredibly smoothly up until yesterday. ...

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Am I over reacting?

posted Wed 17, May 2017 at 9:58am

Okay so, I'm really jealous person and I have trust issues. (Reason for it is bc of something that happened in my childhood). For someone who is like this though I'm okay with my boyfriend to watch...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

He is mad

posted Wed 17, May 2017 at 12:00am

My boyfriend of 2 yrs broke up with me after Easter weekend. He said he was unhappy and uncomfortable in the relationship. This was after a fun filled weekend with his family. This was my 1st t...

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Relationship issues

posted Tue 16, May 2017 at 8:13pm

I am in a relationship with someone who cannot accept my kids from a previous marriage. She has no kids, and doesnt want them, but tried as she wanted to be with me. But we experience constant prob...

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Communications in relationships

Confused...please HELP!!!

posted Tue 16, May 2017 at 2:28am

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I have three children and he has one. I was married and divorced twice, and he was married once, engaged once and in a long term relati...

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Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

Worried about boyfriend's new female friend

posted Mon 15, May 2017 at 4:24pm

This is going to be a bit of an essay so I apologise in advance! To give you a bit of background, my boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years and we have a house and a dog to...

Tags: relationships,female friends,cheating
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Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships

Obsessing over ex and new girlfriend

posted Mon 8, May 2017 at 9:58am

I wrote on this forum a year ago when I just had been dumped by my ex who treated me so poorly in our 6 year relationship...I was with a narcissist and I had super low self esteem and this intense ...

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Is he cheating?

posted Sun 7, May 2017 at 12:24pm

I had a difficult pregnancy so we did not have sex for nearly a year. We recently had sex again for the first time. It was fine. But I had heard before that after a long period without sex, men usu...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

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I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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Why do I want out?

posted Fri 27, Apr 2012 at 3:33am

I've been with my partner for around 18months, and it's been a very intense, serious relationship. Our relationship is very good on the whole. But whenever I go out socially, or interact with certa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

I have a boyfriend but i also have feelings for another guy. IDK what to do.

posted Thu 3, May 2012 at 11:02pm

hi ive been going back and forth about this for a while now. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 5 months now. We are the same age and both are in highschool. The thing is we go to ...

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Needing a little help :s

posted Wed 9, May 2012 at 11:14am

I have been going out with girlfriend for just under 3 months now and I think I am in love wiht her. My problem is I havent told her that I love her yet and im not sure if it is to soon in the rela...

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Trust issues

posted Wed 9, May 2012 at 3:36pm

I found out about 6 months ago that my boyfriend that I live with was chatting to a girl on Facebook. Some of the stuff the would talk about was very sexual. Saying things like what they would like...

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Problems with My Girlfriend's 20 Year old Son

posted Thu 10, May 2012 at 8:35pm

Hi, I'm 22 years old, and am currently living with my 43 year old girlfriend and her 20 year old son. I've been living with her for 2, nearly 3 years now. From what I've seen so far, her son has no...

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Becoming a Parent, Having a Child with Additional Needs, Bringing up Children Together

Don't know what to do!!!!

posted Wed 23, May 2012 at 8:40pm

i am 37 my partner is 32, we have a 3 yr old girl and we have been together for just over 6 yrs. We get on great together and enjoy each others company, recently my partners behaviour seemed differ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

Should I stay?

posted Tue 19, Jun 2012 at 12:12am

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 3 and a half years now. We have had our moments but always manage to get back on track. A few months ago i decided to end our relationship a...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

No advice for singles?

posted Tue 26, Jun 2012 at 10:57pm

This website seems like a fantastic resource for those who may be struggling with relationship issues; especially when alternative therapy can be expensive. I'm impressed at the varied resources av...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Girlfriend "needs to be alone".

posted Mon 9, Jul 2012 at 11:46am

Been in a relationship for about a year and a half and when I saw my girlfriend the other day she seemed a bit off so I asked what was wrong. She said she needed to be alone for a while and doesn't...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Any advice Please.

posted Wed 11, Jul 2012 at 4:26pm

I have been with my partner for 4 years, we are getting married next year but are still experiencing problems. He has always suffered with alcohol problems, which I have supported him through. I...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance

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