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No Contact Advice? Desperate Childs play?

posted Wed 23, Apr 2014 at 9:47am

Is no contact an american fad or could it make my ex miss me & get him to come back? Have many people successfully tried it? If anyone would recommend it, should i text and apologise for all the n...

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Ex boyfriend issues

posted Tue 22, Apr 2014 at 10:16pm

My ex boyfriend and i dated for two years and had broken up about two years ago. A week after we broke up he had a new girlfriend that he randomly met that week and i thought it was just going to b...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Help dating advice

posted Tue 22, Apr 2014 at 9:50pm

Hi I have recently been out of daring due to last relationship , my friends keep telling me to try move on , I can't stop thinking about my ex keep having dreams about her and can't sleep and every...

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Friends & Family

Two girls...kindof

posted Tue 22, Apr 2014 at 5:41am

So my ex ended it and started to see another guy. Without the whole story, we had some troubles obviously in our four year relationship. But we were engaged at one point just a couple years ago. An...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together

Am I just a display model?

posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 9:19pm

Hi, I have been with my Girlfriend for a few months now and have got some doubts. When we initially started dating we seemed to progress a bit faster than I anticipated (i.e. for a first date we ha...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Strong feelings for a close friend that has a boyfriend

posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 9:16pm

I've lived in a shared house with a girl and three others for 2 years and have absolutely fallen for the girl. It started over 3 months ago and I've tried so hard to turn off these feelings but I j...

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posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 4:23pm

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Made a huge mistake in dumping my beloved boyfriend - what to do?

posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 7:58am

Ive made a terrible mistake and ended up dumping my beloved boyfriend nearly 2 weeks ago now. We had been together almost 9 months. Im his first long term relationship in many years... He is q...

Tags: break up,getting back together
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Military wife adjustment

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 11:45pm

Me a my husband have been together for 4 years married for ten months and it hasn't Been all good. Yes we had our good times in the being of the relationship but know it just seems to die down. Fo...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

In love with a man who wants more

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 11:30pm

I have been a relationship for over 10 years now and have a child. I am deeply in love with him and can't imagine him out of my life. Lately he has made it known to me and our child that he has bec...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

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Affairs

posted Fri 12, Dec 2008 at 3:59pm

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Affairs & Jealousy

help

posted Sat 13, Dec 2008 at 4:31pm

<p>I'm am not even sure this is going to get to you or whether it will probably end of up in some trash folder.<br /> <br /> I thank you for the emails they and they very helpful but to be honest i...

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Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Stuck in a rut or over-and-out?

posted Fri 19, Dec 2008 at 1:37pm

Partner having erection problems since summer but noticeably getting worse - no sex for 11 weeks and even then he didn't finish off, despite being on a "blue pill". Tried talking but he seems to la...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

need some help guys

posted Sun 14, Dec 2008 at 5:22pm

<p><strong>i am 17 guy from birmingham i am in love with my second cousin from 2000 an i cont tel her cuz i was afraid wat if she tell some one else or refuse and dat time i was kid. now i moved to...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

She wants another baby

posted Tue 16, Dec 2008 at 8:23pm

My wife and I have two lovely kids aged 7 and 4 - our marriage is pretty good, we have good and bad times and things have got tricky since we had the kids. More recently, things have been more extr...

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Money

Does she care anymore or is she done?

posted Fri 30, Jan 2009 at 2:35pm

Ive been with my girlfriend for about 5 years now and we have been living together for 3 of those years. About 5 months ago my job asked if I could go work in a area that was 200 miles from were I ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Should we split??

posted Fri 27, Feb 2009 at 12:58pm

My husband and I have been together 20 years, I am 36, we have been married for 7 years and have 3 boys, 6, 5 and 18months. My husband is self employed. Things havn't been right for a long time,...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner

confusion with boyfriend?

posted Fri 27, Feb 2009 at 1:13pm

I am a little confused right now, maybe someone can help myself understand what is going on. Ok, so heres the deal. Dating this guy for 9 months, recently we've been living together, and i stil...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

What to do ?

posted Wed 30, May 2012 at 7:58am

To cut a long story short I am a mid thirties male who is divorced . I have been working with someone for a number of years and have always liked . Approx 6 months ago we started seeing each other ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Making a Commitment, Mixed Families

pre marriage worries

posted Sun 3, Jun 2012 at 4:28pm

hi me and my fiancee are in a long distance relationship due to his navy career. we've been together 4 years and when he's home which is for a short four days normally at the minute. he gets pulled...

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