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What to do about a Shy partner?

posted Tue 17, Jan 2017 at 1:34am

Hello All, I'm new to the forum and am hoping some of you can help me with a little bit of advice. My BF and I have been dating for almost 3 and a half years now and he still has an issue making an...

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Communications in relationships

the past meets the present - I would appreciate an advice

posted Tue 17, Jan 2017 at 12:52am

Hello there! I am a 24 years old woman and I would like to share with you my story.Four years ago, I met a guy via common friends. We lived in different cities, but we started communicating throug...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

Can I trust he won't contact the ex ?

posted Sat 14, Jan 2017 at 2:45pm

Hi all I am new and need some advice and opinions please.... I am really starting to believe my man who I've been living with for 4 months and been with for 9months isn't over his ex and may hav...

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Affairs and Jealousy

At a crossroads with my GF as far as our individual expression, affection, and interaction.

posted Thu 12, Jan 2017 at 5:31pm

Hi all. I've been dating D for about a year and eight months. From the beginning there were issues with her not being as expressive (i.e. not being terribly expressive about her feelings and li...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

insecure, unappreciated

posted Tue 10, Jan 2017 at 9:31pm

my boyfriend and i live together. he works all week except weekends and im a stay at home mom at the moment. he says i am ungrateful because he works and i still accuse him but i think he is ungra...

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Work, Housework, Affairs and Jealousy, Videos, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

We're just dating but I want a relationship

posted Mon 9, Jan 2017 at 8:15pm

So I been talking to his guy and we been almost inseparable since the 2nd time we seen each other. I think he really likes me. But of course we have had sex before. Often. But it's not like we have...

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advice please

posted Sat 7, Jan 2017 at 3:48pm

My ex-boyfriend and I were together for 5 years. We are currently still seeing each other off and on. I would like to work things out but it feels like he is just using me for sex and money. He oft...

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Making a Commitment, Living Apart Together

need advice on boyfriend and his habits

posted Sat 7, Jan 2017 at 4:44am

I need advice on the relationship I have with my boyfriend of 1.5 yrs. I have a daughter from a previous relationship, she is 7 yrs old and he has a daughter from a previous relationship, she is 2....

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Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

What started it?

posted Thu 5, Jan 2017 at 5:14pm

Hi all, I'm Alan, the last year has not been good for myself, partner or family, 2016 started with our daughter being bullied at school, it got so bad, we had to involve the police, who really did ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Mon 2, Jan 2017 at 11:01pm

okay, so i am in a relationship right now with this guy that i like but the thing is i like this other guy more then i like my own boyfriend i told my friend awhile back that i liked this guy and t...

Tags: what to do what to do
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I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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help?

posted Sun 8, Apr 2012 at 2:05pm

me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 year and about 6 months and are currently engaged but at the minute hes showing his true colours im very much in love with him and i carnt stand the th...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family

Unsettled

posted Tue 10, Apr 2012 at 3:55pm

Does anyone feel unsettled? I was with my partner for 5 years, friends before that. We split up, he suffered from an 'episode' diagnosed as bipolar and went into hospital. This was unexpected and r...

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Dating brothers?

posted Tue 10, Apr 2012 at 5:53pm

I was dating someone for about 2 years, and he ended it with me at a really bad time, I was devastated . In the time we were together I met all his friends and his family, and got on really well wi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family

6 years in and i think she's given up

posted Sun 15, Apr 2012 at 2:40am

Hi, Im 22 and I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend (21) for around 6 years now. However, it has been a very rough ride so far. The first 5 or 6 months were great. But then something chang...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Final straw (I think)

posted Sun 15, Apr 2012 at 9:13pm

I'm becoming quite a regular putting my problems on here just lately, and I know myself that things are coming to an end, I would just like other peoples' opinions on the current situation as it st...

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Money, Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Constantly breaking up and getting back together

posted Tue 17, Apr 2012 at 8:58pm

I have been with my partner for nearly 8 years and we have 2 children together. I have a full time job, sometimes working 6 days a week. She has a part time job and looks after the children. Las...

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Money, Work, Housework, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

Falling in love with my best female freind who is is 12 years Younger than me

posted Thu 19, Apr 2012 at 8:24pm

I have met this most wonderfull girl who is 12 years younger than me.Im 39 and she is 27. We have become unbelievably close since we met in a pub almost 4 months ago. We see each 2 or 3 times a wee...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Argument after Argument

posted Sun 22, Apr 2012 at 8:49pm

Hi, this is the first time ive signed up to anything like this, but i just need some advice and guidance. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and we recently moved in together. We've always had ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Messed up situation :(

posted Mon 23, Apr 2012 at 11:40am

Im a male and my best friend is too. mate was best friends with a girl all the way through school and he told me that he really liked her but she had a boyfriend. Weve been left school for 3 /4 yea...

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Why do I want out?

posted Fri 27, Apr 2012 at 3:33am

I've been with my partner for around 18months, and it's been a very intense, serious relationship. Our relationship is very good on the whole. But whenever I go out socially, or interact with certa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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