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Moscow clubs capitalize on lonely women starved for affection.

posted Sat 1, Oct 2016 at 12:47am

Women sitting alone together in a cafe would not give most observers pause, but in Russia, a group of women alone acts as a reminder of the country's deficiency in marriageable men. Lonely Russian ...

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Offline matchmaking making a serious rebound

posted Sat 1, Oct 2016 at 12:43am

After nearly 20 years of growth in the online dating/matchmaking industry, offline is making a big comeback. Why online matchmaking is prone to massive fraud, intentional and unintentional. Men com...

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Neighbor scaring me

posted Thu 29, Sep 2016 at 3:01am

Hi, I'm just looking for some opinions on something going on right now with my neighbor. I'm happily married 4 years, we have two kids, things with my husband and I are overall good. We have kno...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Long term relationship; should I be leaving for good?

posted Thu 29, Sep 2016 at 1:39am

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We've been together in high school and we're now in our freshman year of college. Our relationship has had many ups and downs and when I probably...

Tags: long-term relationships,advice,asap,boyfriend,leave or stay
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

What do I do

posted Thu 29, Sep 2016 at 12:52am

Me and my partner have been together for 7 years we have 3 children and one on the way the relationship doesn't feel like a relationship we don't sleep together we sleep separate we don't do anythi...

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Bringing up Children Together, A Psychologist's Perspective

I want to read between the lines...Should I?

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 7:54pm

We've known each other for 2 1/2 yrs. We met thru my work. We live 5 hrs apart. She is a 1st Responder and I'm in outside sales. For the last 12 mos, we've spoken regularly and visited each month. ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

IS MY WIFE STARTING TO HAVE AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR?

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 5:13pm

I busted my wife sexting in 2011 with a day care provider. She was complaining that were weren't connecting at the time which is true. The way she went about the whole thing initially was to cast a...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Hate Mornings and morning talks

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 2:30pm

I have a particular situation. I am NOT a morning person. I would rather spend my drive to work focusing on work, instead of talking about random nothings with my mate. The result of this is a morn...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Mixed Families

Choosing between wife and daughter

posted Wed 28, Sep 2016 at 5:54am

My man who is an amazing boyfriend and father can't figure out how to juggle his six year old daughters needs and me as his potential wife. Not only do i go through baby mama drama but we have to p...

Tags: love,daughter,distance,choices,happiness,selfish,job,income
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Work, Living Apart Together

Interacacial sex

posted Mon 26, Sep 2016 at 12:13pm

All i think about is interacial sex (black men with white women) im white btw im not being over confident but i have good build n genrally quiet good looking most women think anyway. it stemed ...

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Money, Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Having a Child with Additional Needs, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

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my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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6 years in and i think she's given up

posted Sun 15, Apr 2012 at 2:40am

Hi, Im 22 and I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend (21) for around 6 years now. However, it has been a very rough ride so far. The first 5 or 6 months were great. But then something chang...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Final straw (I think)

posted Sun 15, Apr 2012 at 9:13pm

I'm becoming quite a regular putting my problems on here just lately, and I know myself that things are coming to an end, I would just like other peoples' opinions on the current situation as it st...

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Money, Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Constantly breaking up and getting back together

posted Tue 17, Apr 2012 at 8:58pm

I have been with my partner for nearly 8 years and we have 2 children together. I have a full time job, sometimes working 6 days a week. She has a part time job and looks after the children. Las...

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Money, Work, Housework, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

Falling in love with my best female freind who is is 12 years Younger than me

posted Thu 19, Apr 2012 at 8:24pm

I have met this most wonderfull girl who is 12 years younger than me.Im 39 and she is 27. We have become unbelievably close since we met in a pub almost 4 months ago. We see each 2 or 3 times a wee...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Argument after Argument

posted Sun 22, Apr 2012 at 8:49pm

Hi, this is the first time ive signed up to anything like this, but i just need some advice and guidance. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and we recently moved in together. We've always had ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Messed up situation :(

posted Mon 23, Apr 2012 at 11:40am

Im a male and my best friend is too. mate was best friends with a girl all the way through school and he told me that he really liked her but she had a boyfriend. Weve been left school for 3 /4 yea...

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Why do I want out?

posted Fri 27, Apr 2012 at 3:33am

I've been with my partner for around 18months, and it's been a very intense, serious relationship. Our relationship is very good on the whole. But whenever I go out socially, or interact with certa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

I have a boyfriend but i also have feelings for another guy. IDK what to do.

posted Thu 3, May 2012 at 11:02pm

hi ive been going back and forth about this for a while now. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 5 months now. We are the same age and both are in highschool. The thing is we go to ...

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Needing a little help :s

posted Wed 9, May 2012 at 11:14am

I have been going out with girlfriend for just under 3 months now and I think I am in love wiht her. My problem is I havent told her that I love her yet and im not sure if it is to soon in the rela...

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Trust issues

posted Wed 9, May 2012 at 3:36pm

I found out about 6 months ago that my boyfriend that I live with was chatting to a girl on Facebook. Some of the stuff the would talk about was very sexual. Saying things like what they would like...

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