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A guy who was already taken

posted Sat 31, Jan 2015 at 5:38am

I like the guy from my class and he also likes me but he already has a girlfriend. He told me it was truly on-and-off relationship. However, he loves her because he has been with her for 6 years an...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Insecure husband

posted Fri 30, Jan 2015 at 11:55pm

I could do with some advice, my husband of 2 years (together for 5) is really Insecure and I feel like he has suffocated me with this over the years. Yesterday we got into a bit of an argument and ...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships

Confused hurt and low. Things need to change.

posted Fri 30, Jan 2015 at 8:19pm

I can't really be bothered going into the whole story so to be as brief as possible my hubby of 5 years (together for 12) cheated on my last year with a friend I asked him to find work for. Before ...

Tags: Affairs,relationships,problems,life,decisions,confused,sad,depressed
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Affairs and Jealousy, Sex and Affairs

Off to uni-need honesty and good advice please ?

posted Fri 30, Jan 2015 at 4:12pm

I have been dating my boyfriend for around 8/9months ( He is not my first boy friend). I am 17 nearly 18 and he is 19. I am wishing to go to study agriculture at a uni around 20mins from home an...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

Opinion Needed

posted Fri 30, Jan 2015 at 11:34am

Ive been having marriage troubles for some time and im wanting things to be different, basically im wanting him to stop drinking as much and to stay awake instead of falling asleep. I know hes b...

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I'm a lonely mess

posted Thu 29, Jan 2015 at 2:23am

When I first met my b/f. He was not using drugs and I was sober 8 years. After being with him for about 3 months he started using "crack". I was ok with it because it didn't affect us so much and...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Doesn't say I Love You

posted Wed 28, Jan 2015 at 10:14pm

I've been dating a guy (32) for 3 years. At first it was very casual and we both dated other people for probably 4-6 months. We finally decided to just date each other. Since that time we've broken...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Communications in relationships

Broken

posted Wed 28, Jan 2015 at 7:50pm

Hi, I cannot give up on my ex. I haven't spoken to him at all for over two weeks now but I have never experienced missing someone so much in my life. I have had time to think about the relations...

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Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

I have just had enough

posted Wed 28, Jan 2015 at 6:50pm

I really don't know why I'm still in this relationship but I guess I'm holding onto something... Iv been with my parter two and a half years. I feel like I put way more in to This then what he does...

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Communications in relationships

Should I leave?

posted Wed 28, Jan 2015 at 12:35pm

I have recently started a new relationship. I have known the guy well for several years as friends, and we lived together as room mates. We got together about 2 months ago and decided to give i...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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Confused and don't know what to do!

posted Tue 16, Oct 2012 at 12:52am

We haven't been right for the last 2/3 months and in the last month, she's constantly been saying she wants to finish it and she doesn't love me anymore. It just came out of the blue, I can't get m...

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Girl at my school

posted Tue 16, Oct 2012 at 6:59pm

So plain and simple, there is a girl that goes to my school who is in the year below that I really like. But we're barely ever in the same place at once. I see her at break and lunchtimes but I can...

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Finding Time for Each Other

What to do?

posted Sat 20, Oct 2012 at 8:14am

Sorry this is long but I needed to talk to someone about my situation, and am hoping that someone would be able to advice me on the best course of action. I have been married to my husband for 15...

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Finding Time for Each Other

please help i have no1 to turn to

posted Sat 20, Oct 2012 at 7:17pm

hi i have been with my partner 22 yrs i dont no wot i do wrong but obviously i do sumthing bad as he treats me so bad nothing is ever good enough he moans about anything and everything and i really...

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please help!!!!

posted Sun 21, Oct 2012 at 12:13am

i dont know what else to to i cant talk to my friends because thay will all say the say thing. my girlfriend and i have been together for 2 months and things were amazing we got on so well it felt ...

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Grievous ex wife

posted Wed 24, Oct 2012 at 4:27am

I have been with my partner for nearly 9 years. His ex wife has been rude to me from day one but I have always tried to rise above it and be polite to her. I have not had much contact with her asid...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Mixed Families

so alone

posted Mon 29, Oct 2012 at 3:44pm

im so alone been up since 4am dont no whether to jus walk and leave my hubby and kids or try and im fed up trying he used to moan all the time the house wasnt clean enuf now hes moved onto the food...

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Advise muchly needed!

posted Tue 30, Oct 2012 at 8:27pm

Hey guys, so I've been with this guy on and off for 5 years. We split massively Becuase it just wasn't working. We was split for several Months. We never spoke or saw each other util my mum got re...

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Money, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family

PLEASE HELP am i mad or is he the nut!

posted Thu 1, Nov 2012 at 12:43pm

Hi, to cut a long story short i have been with my partner for 16 months now although we were seeing each other for about a year before that. He has a past that parts of are still in our relationshi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Can we salvage this? Long post, sorry!

posted Sun 4, Nov 2012 at 9:56pm

Thank you to anyone who reads the following and would like to weigh-in on how you would react to the situation! I met someone nearly fours years ago who was attractive, sweet, and conservative. ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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