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Shouldn't we all be important?

posted Mon 1, Sep 2014 at 9:17am

My fiancé believes that we should love the children more that we do each other. When I said that I love him as much as I do my kids he told me that it's a terrible thing. I think a family should al...

Tags: Time,kids,parents,each other,sex,feelings
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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Bringing up Children Together

In a serious relationship, old co-worker is interested in me, need advice!!!

posted Mon 1, Sep 2014 at 3:21am

Hi everyone, I'm in a serious relationship with my partner of 3 years and we have a 7 month old son. I love him very much and he's a great dad to our son. We fight about money and other things li...

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Where to go from here?

posted Sun 31, Aug 2014 at 10:07pm

I met this girl about 6-8 months ago. And for 3/4 of the time I have got on perfectly fine and their was lots of people who kept telling me and her to date ect and stuff at work. Since I asked her ...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Word from the street, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together, Sex and Affairs

Been in a relationship with my best friend for 5 years. We are thinking of breaking up?

posted Sun 31, Aug 2014 at 4:56pm

Hi, don't normally do these kind of things but have no one to talk to about these things. I have a very close relationship with my best friend. We have been "together" for around 5 years. It's per...

Tags: breakup,love,relationship,separate,gay,in love,future,advice,family,friend,best friend,children,help
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Friends & Family, Making a Commitment, Life transitions

So confused about my relationship

posted Sun 31, Aug 2014 at 2:50pm

Hi, I had sex with my gf yesterday, she is 21 and Im 25. i made her to sit on top of me and i dint guide my penis towards her opening with my hands. It went inside her vagina just like that and i ...

Tags: relationship
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Sex/Intimacy and romance

is my wife right for being mad at me for doing occasional favor for family because she thinks those are unreasonable requests from my family?

posted Sun 31, Aug 2014 at 3:56am

Hi, My wife just got awfully mad because I agreed to babysit my sister's kids on sunday afternoon (4-9pm) while she and her husband are going out to a birthday party. This is the 2nd or 3r...

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Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships

Why wouldn't he sleep with me

posted Sun 31, Aug 2014 at 12:13am

After reading through blogs and sites, not finding the answer I'm looking for, I ask the question myself. My little story: Two and half years ago I met him on holidays, 1 year distance relations...

Tags: sex,relationship,libido
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

Individual Self-Help Truisms vs Relationship Truisms

posted Sat 30, Aug 2014 at 6:09pm

EDIT: I'm not sure why it's posting anonymous. I am not clickong on anonymous post. my username is aurelios1201 and my fname is aurelio. Hello, New to forum. Nice site. :) I was wonderin...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

I Know this guy is real whom i have met online but i don't think he is faithful

posted Sat 30, Aug 2014 at 3:19pm

okay so the thing is that my long distant boyfriend who is from the another country, whom i met in a depression website, 10 months ago, i have decided to tell about him to my parents and when i did...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

I am not trying to resolve a painful dilemma but have been confronted by something entirely new to me.

posted Sat 30, Aug 2014 at 10:57am

*** up front, please do not respond to this with social or psychological opinion, particularly that of the current Western milieu *** I am a 32 year old American man living in the UK for a brief...

Tags: emotional bonding,impending marriage,physical punishment per her suggestion.
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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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Hellllp!

posted Tue 5, Feb 2013 at 11:09am

Hi everyone i need some advice really. Im very weird when it comes to guys and i can never seem to fall for the right guy and need help. Sorry this is long! Will give you a brief summary of previo...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

hes cheated can we get past it if so how?

posted Fri 8, Feb 2013 at 11:42pm

me and my partner have been together for 2 1/2 years and am 12 weeks pregnant (planned). weve never argued and nothing seemed to be wrong. due to certain circumstance he alowed me to check his web...

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Affairs and Jealousy

im loosing the love of my life

posted Mon 11, Feb 2013 at 2:29am

at the beginning, my partner came to see me, told me he loved me and asked me to move in with him i was living abroad at the time. i asked him if he had been sleeping with anyone else to which he ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

So confused - working and living together, it ain't working :-( (LONG POST)

posted Thu 14, Feb 2013 at 10:00pm

Cut to the chase - met a guy online 3 years ago nearly. I had come out of a long-term relationship (married) which I was never happy in, tried a bit of dating but didn't enjoy it then met this guy ...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Valentine's Day, and my relationship is over :(

posted Thu 14, Feb 2013 at 11:33am

I really need to vent. So to cut a long story short, I was with my (now) ex-boyfriend for a year and three months. Since we got together, I've had a lot of 'issues' with finance and emotional tra...

Tags: break up,heartbreak
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I get anxious when my girlfriend wears revealing clothes.

posted Fri 15, Feb 2013 at 3:21pm

I'm really struggling with this. I get anxious when my girlfriend wears kind of revealing clothes in public. But we're not talking anything outrageous, maybe a low cut top or short, tight skirt, bu...

Tags: jealousy,insecurity
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Affairs and Jealousy

Help

posted Wed 20, Feb 2013 at 8:37am

I badly need some advice. I was in an on off relationship with a guy for two years. We got on really well, had an amazing connection and although it was slow to start and he found it difficult to...

Tags: Relationships,ex,friends,love
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Making a Commitment

I'm attracted to a married woman - advice?

posted Thu 21, Feb 2013 at 6:48pm

I'm extremely attracted to a married woman and I think she's attracted to me too, from her body language - she always makes direct eye contact and sometimes when I look at her she does that cute tu...

Tags: Married,woman,lust,flirt
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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Opinions on my marriage please

posted Thu 21, Feb 2013 at 4:53pm

I would like some different perspectives - I know everyone is different but I think getting other people's opinions may help me settle my mind I am 37 and have been with my husband for 8 years ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Huge issues on all levels

posted Sun 24, Feb 2013 at 11:54pm

I wonder if anyone can help, me and my partner have been together 3 years, he has a 9 year old son and ex wife and we planned a baby who was born in November. I discovered he was cheating in June, ...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner

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