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How I Got My Ex Back Instantly And Made Him Love Me The More

posted Fri 23, Jun 2017 at 11:14pm

I have been through hell ever since my ex left me 6 months ago, All my efforts to get him back through 3 different spell casters failed until I met Dr purity, He help me bring my ex and the joy of...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Sex and Affairs

I have no idea what to think about this new person...?

posted Fri 23, Jun 2017 at 8:09pm

Hi. I met a man several weeks ago, while I was on business out of town. We talked. I felt a strong pull to him and connection. Also what I noticed was how calm I felt in his presence, which is odd...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Confused continued

posted Wed 21, Jun 2017 at 11:02pm

Been dating in our 50's 2yrs. Go for wonderful weekends away we really enjoy each others company. Yet every 8 or so weeks he goes on plenty of fish probably 2 days in a row for 10 mins. Usually aft...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

my boyfriend called our baby annoying

posted Tue 20, Jun 2017 at 2:35am

My boyfriend and I both work and we have a 9 month old baby together. Very rarely if the babysitter cant come one of us will watch her. Today he had to watch her and it is always a huge job for him...

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Becoming a Parent, Friends & Family, Bringing up Children Together, A Psychologist's Perspective

Lost...

posted Mon 19, Jun 2017 at 8:01pm

I'm 28 mom of 3 going on 4, married, a homemaker. My husband is 25 and works construction for the last 6 or so years. He is definitely my soul mate, but lately it hasn't been feeling like that. ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Trouble in bed

posted Sat 17, Jun 2017 at 8:51am

Ok me and my boyfriend have been together almost 7 years with only one break up and make up with each other. We both live in the same town just not with each other, but we are making plans to mov...

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Sex and Affairs

My boyfriend feels like a roommate.

posted Fri 16, Jun 2017 at 8:07am

Hello, thank you all for taking the time to read this, I'm sorry but it it going to be quite long, but I do feel like this might help me. So, I have been dating my boyfriend for a year, and aft...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Silent Treatment

posted Fri 16, Jun 2017 at 1:42am

I've been with my husband for 7 years, married for almost 4. It is the second marriage for both of us, and my 15 yo son has autism. Early on in our relationship, he would completely shut down for a...

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Having a Child with Additional Needs, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships

Heart broken, and Confused

posted Tue 13, Jun 2017 at 3:11am

I have been dating my guy for 7 years . I been engaged three times we never lived together but he managed to get his own place without me never seeing where he stayed. There has been a lot of good ...

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Bringing up Children Together, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

A drastic change in relationship. I need help.

posted Mon 12, Jun 2017 at 3:02pm

First thing first, my boyfriend and I met online and have been together for about a year and a half. We lived close but it was still a moderate distance away. Before we "physically" got together we...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Sex and Affairs

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I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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Went back to the Ex

posted Tue 10, May 2011 at 5:52pm

O boy. I did it. I emailed my ex, because it has been 5 months since we broke up, and I can NOT move forward. Ive been on random dates, hung out with friends, socialized, tried online dating, ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

really really really alone and sad .. Plz help

posted Thu 26, May 2011 at 7:14pm

I am a 20 yr old guy, pursuing B.Tech in IT. I don't know where to start but its like this. I like a girl who studies with me in the same class. We both are really good friends too. She respects me...

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Affairs and Jealousy

First love back in my life

posted Sun 5, Jun 2011 at 6:07pm

Hi, First post but will look to also offer advice on this forum. Recently after a number of years i contacted my ex to see how she was. She was very happy to hear from me and asked if I want...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Should I trust him? Am I in the wrong?

posted Thu 9, Jun 2011 at 10:28pm

Hi peeps, Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now, last year things got pretty stale and he decided to end our relationship and he moved out. After a few weeks we decided to give i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Something's wrong, but only I want to work on it

posted Fri 10, Jun 2011 at 10:47am

Hi, So I am in this relationship for nearly 4 years now. Until about half a year ago, it was mostly a long-distance relationship (and by long I mean LOOOONG!). A little before I finally came to ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Boyfriend doesn't want sex

posted Tue 14, Jun 2011 at 10:46pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and we are very much in love. Unfortunately, love doesn't seem to be enough. The first two dates, he couldn't keep his hands off of m...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

In a good relationship but starting to miss my Ex

posted Tue 21, Jun 2011 at 3:24am

hello i hope someone can give me some advice on this i am extremely confused and all alone with my thoughts and would like someones input please! about a year ago my ex broke up with me and star...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Confused and Don't Know What to Do

posted Tue 21, Jun 2011 at 9:06am

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years and have lived together for the past 3 years. We have had our ups and downs but we have always remained together. We have never betrayed eac...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

should i be concerned with new guy ??

posted Fri 24, Jun 2011 at 8:24pm

Hi I have been with a guy for about 5 months now iam 29 he is 32.... for once with a man i feel happy he is very loving attentive and ticks a lot more of the boxes compared to old relationships....

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Money, Work, Getting on Better with my Partner

Advice

posted Tue 28, Jun 2011 at 3:52pm

I have posted on here before and found it helpful so I am doing in once more. My husband and I have been together for 13 years and married for nearly 6. When we first got together he was separate...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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