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posted Wed 24, Aug 2016 at 12:28pm

Arabic black magic love spells and marriage spells in Johannesburg +27786966898 You know what you want, what you need. The one you love must be returned at once! Unconditionally! You need this to ...

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Noorani magic ring for love, financial, marriage and protection issues call +27786966898 Magic ring is designed to help in different areas by only those who are in need of power and success in lif...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Newly parents and nightmare mother in law drama

posted Tue 23, Aug 2016 at 7:59pm

I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. We have different backgrounds he is russian i am cuban. Recently I got pregnant and have had a beautiful baby boy with him. When his mum(hes an only...

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Becoming a Parent, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

Seriously need to hear other opinions!! (LONG READ)

posted Tue 23, Aug 2016 at 3:56pm

Ok..will try to make it short but even then will still be long so here goes...(Thank you in advance for reading and any help/opinion/advice)... I am 33 and he is 43. We first laid eyes on each ...

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Need Advice On This Serious Matter

posted Sun 21, Aug 2016 at 11:08am

Hi guys. I'm going to get straight to the point. I've been with my partner for 2 years and I love him to bits but recently hes developed some habits that are seriously putting me off him. His hygie...

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I got engaged and I have doubts

posted Fri 19, Aug 2016 at 11:11pm

Me23(F) BF25(M) We've been together for a year and our relationship is great. We lived together 85% of the year and learned alot about each other we shared family vacations, he supported me through...

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NEED ADVICE ASAP- Is he just in it for the sex or will he eventually want a serious relationship?

posted Fri 19, Aug 2016 at 8:02pm

I’ve been hooking up with this guy (CC) for the past 4 months. Before we started hooking up I was still in a rocky relationship with my ex and he was aware that I was taken and didn’t speak to me o...

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Great Relationship/Horrible Sexlife

posted Thu 18, Aug 2016 at 5:21pm

When I was younger my first boyfriend who I dated for about 3 years of high school broke up with me, throughout life I would often think of him! Fast forward to today and me and that same ...

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is my girlfriend Alexithymic?

posted Mon 15, Aug 2016 at 8:49am

I have been in a relationship with a woman for 7 months and i feel pretty desperate about the state our relationship. I feel like we are on the verge of breaking up because there has been so much c...

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No sex after having a baby

posted Sun 14, Aug 2016 at 9:53pm

I know there is a lot of posts with similar questions, but mine is little specific. Our baby son is now 2 months old, it is our first child, she is breastfeeding, I am 31 and she is 28. We di...

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my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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First love back in my life

posted Sun 5, Jun 2011 at 6:07pm

Hi, First post but will look to also offer advice on this forum. Recently after a number of years i contacted my ex to see how she was. She was very happy to hear from me and asked if I want...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Should I trust him? Am I in the wrong?

posted Thu 9, Jun 2011 at 10:28pm

Hi peeps, Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now, last year things got pretty stale and he decided to end our relationship and he moved out. After a few weeks we decided to give i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Something's wrong, but only I want to work on it

posted Fri 10, Jun 2011 at 10:47am

Hi, So I am in this relationship for nearly 4 years now. Until about half a year ago, it was mostly a long-distance relationship (and by long I mean LOOOONG!). A little before I finally came to ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Boyfriend doesn't want sex

posted Tue 14, Jun 2011 at 10:46pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and we are very much in love. Unfortunately, love doesn't seem to be enough. The first two dates, he couldn't keep his hands off of m...

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In a good relationship but starting to miss my Ex

posted Tue 21, Jun 2011 at 3:24am

hello i hope someone can give me some advice on this i am extremely confused and all alone with my thoughts and would like someones input please! about a year ago my ex broke up with me and star...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Confused and Don't Know What to Do

posted Tue 21, Jun 2011 at 9:06am

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years and have lived together for the past 3 years. We have had our ups and downs but we have always remained together. We have never betrayed eac...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

should i be concerned with new guy ??

posted Fri 24, Jun 2011 at 8:24pm

Hi I have been with a guy for about 5 months now iam 29 he is 32.... for once with a man i feel happy he is very loving attentive and ticks a lot more of the boxes compared to old relationships....

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Money, Work, Getting on Better with my Partner

Advice

posted Tue 28, Jun 2011 at 3:52pm

I have posted on here before and found it helpful so I am doing in once more. My husband and I have been together for 13 years and married for nearly 6. When we first got together he was separate...

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Is my husband cheating? So confused.

posted Wed 29, Jun 2011 at 9:43am

Even typing that header makes me feel disloyal. My husband and I have been together for more than fifteen years and have a couple of kids - to the untrained eye we probably look like a happy fami...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Dealing with Sex addiction and intimacy problems

posted Thu 30, Jun 2011 at 2:39pm

Hello, I am a 47 year old man and have a few questions on relating with women in a healthy ways. My wife and I dated for one year and have been married for 22 years. Unfortunately my lack of intima...

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