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Long Distance Relationship - Feelings

posted Mon 29, Sep 2014 at 9:19pm

Hi, Im writing for abit of advice. I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months now. This girl is amazing. She's everything I want in a partner. Shes thoughtful, kind, beautiful. I think she's t...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

help!

posted Mon 29, Sep 2014 at 4:12pm

We have been together 3 years, I am 18 he is 21. We have only slept with each other and at first i said I was fine with it. I'm starting to doubt that I want to only sleep with one person and feel ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

am i a bad person or what?

posted Mon 29, Sep 2014 at 11:41am

I'm in a long distance relationship for a year already. We live in different countries so we see each other every 2-3 months. And I noticed that every time we go back homes i feel the same set of e...

Tags: ldr,long distance relationship,doubt
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Life transitions, Living Apart Together

Relationship with a Married man

posted Mon 29, Sep 2014 at 8:33am

I've been in my current relationship for 2 years and 4 months, my partner is married but has been separated from his wife for over 3 years and currently lives with his parents, I moved to my curren...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Bringing up Children Together, Living Apart Together

Think my wife has found someone else

posted Mon 29, Sep 2014 at 4:39am

One off my wifes apps have appeared on my phone via the iCloud she did not know it was on my phone it is a diary app and I found this entry. ,,Well, it's like this …. Met up and the most amazi...

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My girlfriend of 2 years said that she has fallen out of love with me.

posted Mon 29, Sep 2014 at 3:46am

Hello, i appreciate anyone coming to look at this and plan to leave a bit of friendly advice it is greatly appreciated. I've known her for nearly 4 years, we have been dating for 2 years and i f...

Tags: Love issue,She doesn't love me anymore,Spark,Sparkless,Stopped loving,help wanted,help,advice,feeling scared,assistance
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Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

Stuck between a hard place and a stone!

posted Mon 29, Sep 2014 at 3:15am

Hi, Iv been with my boyfriend for 2 years we are both in out late 20s. We don't live together yet but it's been brought up in conversation. We both love each other. He is a carer for his parents, w...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships

Im not sure if im happy

posted Mon 29, Sep 2014 at 2:34am

Im a guy that met my girlfriend when I was 17, she is 25 and we have been together for 3 years. I love her and she is very good to me, we have worked hard and built an amazing life for ourselves wi...

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Problems 2 1/2 year relationship

posted Sun 28, Sep 2014 at 10:56pm

I have been dating my bf for 2+ years, and we haven’t had sex. (We are both virgins)We never indicated anything like waiting to get married. We used to fool around all the time but, we never made...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

Confused, need help

posted Sun 28, Sep 2014 at 10:55pm

Ive moved away from my hometown and moved in with my partner who is 20 years older then me and I've been with him a year and been living with him 9 months and I'm not happy started flirting with a...

Tags: Help
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Work, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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Getting back with the ex?

posted Fri 14, Dec 2012 at 1:30pm

This is a slightly complicated situation, so I'll try to make it as simple as possible. I was with my boyfriend for nearly two years. It was a perfect relationship. We talked about moving in t...

Tags: Ex boyfriend,dating,getting back together,long distance relationship
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Current relationship and an old ex

posted Mon 17, Dec 2012 at 1:11am

Hey everyone Well I'm confused with my current situation and just looking for some where to write down my thoughts and maybe get some useful advice a long the way. I have 2 problems, first is t...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Humiliated by my ex.. Can I trust another man??

posted Mon 17, Dec 2012 at 8:31pm

My boyfriend (now ex) were together two years, we lived in Spain together for 6 months and recently moved back to the uk. We found a lovely house to rent and I moved my stuff in on Thursday. On Fri...

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Affairs and Jealousy

I threw up in front of him and he broke up with me.

posted Wed 19, Dec 2012 at 3:33pm

I was seeing this amazing guy for 3 months. We were incredibly happy, really close and excited about our future together. We met online, and while he hasn't logged into his profile since the day...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Advice needed.

posted Sat 22, Dec 2012 at 10:24pm

I wonder if anybody can relate to this.I have moved from pakistan to Germany 9 yrs ago.the first few years were hardest.new language,unfriendly people,back to back pregnancies and breast feeding.we...

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Cheating?

posted Sat 29, Dec 2012 at 12:05am

Been reading up on the effects of cheating, They say 'When a couple doesn't engage in activities that were at once fun and fulfilling' it can lead to cheating. This happened to me after 3 years, i ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

I don't know what to do as we are growing apart

posted Sat 29, Dec 2012 at 8:55pm

I have been seeing my girlfriend for a year now, we had dated before, though due to moving to tertiary things had changed or rather it just vanished. We got back once again, everything was fine as ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

We're on a break...

posted Tue 1, Jan 2013 at 10:49pm

I initiated for us to go on a short term break (it's Tuesday now and it's only until Saturday hopefully) because we're doing a lot of bickering, taking each other for granted and not appreciating e...

Tags: Break,help,missing him
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Fading

posted Fri 4, Jan 2013 at 10:47am

My boyfriend and I have lived together for almost five years. We have been together for just over six years. When we were first together, there was a lot of excitement and we were magnetically ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Long Distance, Another Girl but with no cheating ... What do I do? What will happen?

posted Sat 29, Dec 2012 at 4:02pm

I've been in a relationship for 3yrs now. It was a rocky one with our ups and downs, but we are best friends and really care about each other. Our relationship was too serious too fast and most of ...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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