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I'm in a happy relationship but I've fallen for someone else.

posted Tue 26, Jul 2016 at 3:24pm

My ex and I got back together. This time around things are a lot better, he treats me like a princess and he's learned from his mistakes and so have I. He makes me really happy but, all my friends ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Sex and Affairs

I'm in a happy relationship but I've fallen for someone else.

posted Tue 26, Jul 2016 at 3:24pm

My ex and I got back together. This time around things are a lot better, he treats me like a princess and he's learned from his mistakes and so have I. He makes me really happy but, all my friends ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Sex and Affairs

Am I in a one sided relationship?

posted Tue 26, Jul 2016 at 3:37am

I’ve been with my partner for just over 8 months, and I am head over heels in love, only thing is, I think he might be ready to end the relationship. We are barely ever intimate, and even asid...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Communications in relationships

My second relationship. Few questions.

posted Mon 25, Jul 2016 at 6:05pm

I am 28 and this is only my second relationship. We live with one another as she moved from michigan to live with me to pursue her career and be with me. I enjoy our relationship alot. She is a gen...

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Money, Housework, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Think he's more serious than he lets on

posted Sun 24, Jul 2016 at 4:09pm

So I met this guy a few weeks ago. We met at a bar and we were both a bit drunk. We slept together, sexually and nonsexually, and he made sure I gave him my number. He kept saying he really wanted ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

Needing help and opinions!

posted Sat 23, Jul 2016 at 7:16pm

Hi, I need some help. Me and my boyfriend have a normal relationship and he is a great guy. He treats me well. But he made a mistake. A couple days ago I was sleeping and I woke up to him rubbing m...

Tags: Dating
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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Obsessed

posted Sat 23, Jul 2016 at 4:59am

My fiancé is obsessed and fixated on certain things. He obsesses over the time he goes to sleep and when the time is getting near he begins to get anxiety. He obsesses over pain and illness. He ob...

Tags: obsession,fixation,aspergers,inflexible
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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

No sex life

posted Thu 21, Jul 2016 at 12:27pm

I have been with my boyfriend for 28 months, he lives with me & my kids. We have no sex life - and by this I mean nothing other than pecks and cuddles for 18 months now. It's depressing, it took 15...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

busy boyfriend?

posted Wed 20, Jul 2016 at 5:51pm

so my boyfriend of 2 years (in 2 weeks) plays cricket and it's currently the height of the cricket season and he's been playing every Saturday since May, so I work on a Saturday and I'm okay with h...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Making a Commitment, Word from the street, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Partner is addicted to porn

posted Tue 19, Jul 2016 at 8:32am

Me&my partner are both in our early 30s and have been together for a little over 2 years. We've been living together for almost a year. I love my partner and he loves me too, we share lots of cu...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

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my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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In a good relationship but starting to miss my Ex

posted Tue 21, Jun 2011 at 3:24am

hello i hope someone can give me some advice on this i am extremely confused and all alone with my thoughts and would like someones input please! about a year ago my ex broke up with me and star...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Confused and Don't Know What to Do

posted Tue 21, Jun 2011 at 9:06am

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years and have lived together for the past 3 years. We have had our ups and downs but we have always remained together. We have never betrayed eac...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

should i be concerned with new guy ??

posted Fri 24, Jun 2011 at 8:24pm

Hi I have been with a guy for about 5 months now iam 29 he is 32.... for once with a man i feel happy he is very loving attentive and ticks a lot more of the boxes compared to old relationships....

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Money, Work, Getting on Better with my Partner

Advice

posted Tue 28, Jun 2011 at 3:52pm

I have posted on here before and found it helpful so I am doing in once more. My husband and I have been together for 13 years and married for nearly 6. When we first got together he was separate...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is my husband cheating? So confused.

posted Wed 29, Jun 2011 at 9:43am

Even typing that header makes me feel disloyal. My husband and I have been together for more than fifteen years and have a couple of kids - to the untrained eye we probably look like a happy fami...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Dealing with Sex addiction and intimacy problems

posted Thu 30, Jun 2011 at 2:39pm

Hello, I am a 47 year old man and have a few questions on relating with women in a healthy ways. My wife and I dated for one year and have been married for 22 years. Unfortunately my lack of intima...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

A not so welcoming family

posted Wed 6, Jul 2011 at 4:30pm

Where do I begin... Well my son is 11 months old, and has maybe seen his paternal grandma 10 times since he has been born. A thing to note is that she lives less than a mile away from us and never ...

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Friends & Family, Bringing up Children Together

What do you when you have a boyfriend and your starting to have feelings for someone else?

posted Thu 7, Jul 2011 at 7:54pm

Okay well me and boyfriend just started dating I'm really happy cause I've been wanting to go out with him for a really long time but now I don't cause I think I'm starting to have feelings for one...

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Friends & Family

Girlfriend's old fuck buddy?

posted Mon 18, Jul 2011 at 2:48pm

I've been dating my gf for a while and I really like her. However, as it turns out she had a fuck buddy not long before I met her, and only stopped sleeping with him because he moved away. Fuck bud...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Foreign exgirlfriend

posted Wed 20, Jul 2011 at 10:56am

I am English and went out with a Brasillian for 4 Years, She went home 3 years ago she is studying Law in Brasil now which is a 3 year course so she wont come back to England I have my family some ...

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