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The Relationship Forum is provided for visitors who are seeking advice and support from the community in relation to relationship issues. The aim of the forum is to help you to understand and explore your situation by talking to others who may be going through, or have experienced a similar situation. The Relationship Forum is moderated by a team of counsellors with lots of experience of helping couples as they work things out in their relationship. They facilitate the forum, providing advice, guidance and additional help wherever needed.

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Military wife adjustment

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 11:45pm

Me a my husband have been together for 4 years married for ten months and it hasn't Been all good. Yes we had our good times in the being of the relationship but know it just seems to die down. Fo...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

In love with a man who wants more

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 11:30pm

I have been a relationship for over 10 years now and have a child. I am deeply in love with him and can't imagine him out of my life. Lately he has made it known to me and our child that he has bec...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

My ex hates us because of new girlfriend?!!! URGENT!!

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 5:13am

My ex and I divorced in 2013. He has started dating this new woman. She is 38 and has 3 kids. My ex is a millionaire good looking man (hes a womanizer). They have been dating for 6 months after th...

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Ejaculate within 20 seconds

posted Sat 19, Apr 2014 at 1:40pm

long story short, I've been talking to a girl and she wants to have sex. This is really exciting for me because I'm actually a virgin, but I have problem with PE. I don't know what to do. A whil...

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posted Fri 18, Apr 2014 at 5:24pm

I have come through a very bad and turbulent time in my life due to problems with a controlling partner but finally found the courage to leave, am on my feet again, have a lovely home, good job and...

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posted Fri 18, Apr 2014 at 2:19pm

Hey, me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, we live together and we love each other very much and I know he cares about me, but I'm a very emotional person and very insecure in what I ...

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posted Fri 18, Apr 2014 at 12:22pm

Hi! I need advice! I met my boyfriend online and about a year ago and we've been officially together for 7 months. We love each other very much and we've tried to make the mest out of the distanc...

Tags: online,longdistance relationship,family,religion
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Friends & Family

Please Can someone Help me?

posted Thu 17, Apr 2014 at 11:53am

Hi there im new,.. I live with my Girlfriend and her parents at her parents house were been together for nearly 2 years.. Last night after I finished work I came home and she told me something r...

Tags: Threesome,Girlfriend.
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Work, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy


posted Wed 16, Apr 2014 at 7:05pm

Hi, I've been dating a wonderful girl for 6 months and I love her a lot. When I broke up with my ex I met this girl and another girl at roughly the same time. Not expecting anything to happen...

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posted Wed 16, Apr 2014 at 1:49pm

I live with my bf for 4 years. Hasn't been the first time he's lied but not the first he's been caught either. We have kids 2 get her from seperate marriages. No of which live here full time. I've ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

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Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs & Jealousy

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment


posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance


posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

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Choosing between two men - one faithful, one not faithful

posted Mon 20, Jan 2014 at 10:29pm

I can't believe I've got to this point where I'm posting on a forum for advice - but this is driving me insane. I'm someone who gets into a relationship hoping that it will be the last one, and ...

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Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Are we drifting apart?

posted Tue 21, Jan 2014 at 8:46am

Im 27 my boyfriends 28 weve been together 4 years living together 3 years. We started off like most people very intimate always having sex. We went on our first abroad holiday together couple month...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

What does this mean?!

posted Tue 21, Jan 2014 at 7:57pm

This girl was on my phone and she retweeted 'Im really tired of having feelings -_-' Could this be a sign or mean anything? She also retweeted 'Love is not about sex, going on fancy dates, or sh...

Tags: girl,like,twitter
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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Jealousy and irrational behaviour

posted Wed 22, Jan 2014 at 10:35am

I ended my marriage to be with my partner and he left his wife for me. We had known each other 6 years and he moved abroad for some of that time but we saw each other through business through this...

Tags: jealousy
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Not wanting children

posted Wed 29, Jan 2014 at 4:04pm

I’ve been living with my girlfriend for over 3 years and been together with her for about 5 years. When we started going out, I told her I did not want to get married or have any children ever, and...

Tags: no children
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Becoming a Parent, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

Sticky situation

posted Thu 30, Jan 2014 at 2:45am

So me, a male friend R and a female friend C are away travelling for 2 months on a medical elective, we're all 22 year old medical students. I'm in a relationship of 5 years but have felt quite...

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I don't want a divorce!

posted Thu 30, Jan 2014 at 12:55am

Recently my wife and I have been having a tough time. Communication has been very difficult. I went on an internet chat site and had a few convos with women that I had no intention of meeting and o...

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I just dont know her anymore

posted Fri 31, Jan 2014 at 12:26pm

Hi there This is a long one, please if anyone has the time to read, i feel lonely, hurt and confused. Me and my partner have been together for going on 10 years, we have 2 children. A boy, 7...

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Affairs & Jealousy

So confused within 5 hours I have been dumped

posted Sat 1, Feb 2014 at 10:11pm

I have been dating this guy, his been single 2 years I have as well ..... we met through friends , we've been together nearly two months and every thing has been perfect we are like two teenager...

Tags: Relationships,love,betrayal
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holiday nightmare

posted Mon 3, Feb 2014 at 9:51pm

im so confused. basically i went away with my boyfriend 22 and me 19, last year for our 1 year anniversary and he was a total dick. he told me on the day of our anniversary that "you love me mor...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance
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