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I thought my ex and I were getting back together, but he may have cold feet

posted Sat 4, Jul 2015 at 3:22pm

Have I blown my chances of getting back with my ex? My ex and I broke up three months ago in April. We had been dating for more than a year. He had been going through a lot of personal stress an...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

Is this the end?

posted Sat 4, Jul 2015 at 2:29pm

I was in a relationship with this man for 8 years now. Because of non-commitment and he hurt me by hiding a big thing which happened in his life few months back. I was not really able to accept tha...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Not sure what to do

posted Fri 3, Jul 2015 at 10:38pm

Hi I am not sure what to do about my relationship with my bf. I moved away from my parents and friends to be with him in the country and gave up my job and moved to a different job. I give him most...

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Not sure what to do

posted Fri 3, Jul 2015 at 10:36pm

Hi I am not sure what to do about my relationship with my bf. I moved away from my parents and friends to be with him in the country and gave up my job and moved to a different job. I give him most...

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My girlfriend never seems to want to talk to or see me anymore

posted Fri 3, Jul 2015 at 8:25pm

I've only been with my girlfriend for 6 weeks now, it's the first time I've ever felt thing strong about someone before. We started talking when we met online, we were talking for about 3 weeks bef...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

My girlfriend never seems to want to talk to or see me anymore

posted Fri 3, Jul 2015 at 8:25pm

I've only been with my girlfriend for 6 weeks now, it's the first time I've ever felt thing strong about someone before. We started talking when we met online, we were talking for about 3 weeks bef...

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Communications in relationships

My boyfriend doesn't seem interested in being physical

posted Fri 3, Jul 2015 at 3:24pm

I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 25, we've been together 5 months. When we first starting dating, we had sex all the time. He was always holding me and we would make out and cuddle alone from the world. ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

My boyfriend always sees his one particular female friend alone

posted Fri 3, Jul 2015 at 6:22am

I know the female friend of his,but I always see the girl changing her prolife,and the background's always his room.The girl sometimes comes to drink with him during midnights,I just can't imagine ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Constant Break-up

posted Thu 2, Jul 2015 at 5:54pm

My partner and I (now separated) have been through a lot in the short time we have been together. We disagreed about things, yet it seemed like we were always on the same page. We just disagreed in...

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Addiction problem

posted Wed 1, Jul 2015 at 7:09am

Hi, My husband and I are married for 5 years now. We have two beautiful daughters. Last year while I was at my mother's for my delivery, my husband picked up this habit of doing drugs. Eversince ou...

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Communications in relationships

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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email account dilema

posted Wed 6, Jun 2012 at 8:17pm

If you were to open your laptop/computer one afternoon and found your partners email account opened (i.e they had not signed the night before)would you; A - Sign out straight away B - Quickly s...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Dilemma - rock and a hard place

posted Wed 6, Jun 2012 at 3:59pm

I would like to have other peoples viewpoints on a thorny problem that I walked into. I have a wonderful wife and 2 lovely children that I live to love. However, I also have another child with a g...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Am I just insecure or is she cheating?

posted Wed 13, Jun 2012 at 9:26pm

I've been married to my wife for 6 years and we have 2 wonderful sons. Over the last couple of months she has been very distant and has not let her phone out of her sight (constantly on Facebook or...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Re-kindling sex with my husband - help!

posted Mon 11, Jun 2012 at 10:31am

I have been married for a few years and have two young children with my husband. Over the last year we have had less and less sex (my lack of enthusiasm/instigation) and I know it is getting him do...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Please help, Lesbian relationship crisis

posted Mon 11, Jun 2012 at 10:51pm

Alot of people dont agree with same sex relationships but im completely in love with my partner. Things are becoming really difficult and i dont know which way to turn. We consantly argure, over ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Travelling with my boyfriend

posted Wed 13, Jun 2012 at 9:35pm

I'm having huge confusion and difficulties in my relationship at the moment and any help and advice will be much appreciated. I have been with my boyfriend for a little under 2 years. When I me...

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Money, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

I Love My Boyfriend, But I'm Not In Love With Him

posted Sat 16, Jun 2012 at 12:09am

Hi all, So I am in a new relationship (two months coming up) and I'm a little confused on how I am feeling/"should" be feeling. He's a really great guy and we get along really really well most of ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

We have been Through so much

posted Mon 25, Jun 2012 at 8:08pm

Me and my ex girlfreind of 1 year and 7 months broke up a month ago. We didnt stop rowing mainly my fault i would jump and any little thing and always moan. she told me she wasnt happy and needed s...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

How do i deal with my spoiled girlfriend

posted Fri 12, Apr 2013 at 4:34pm

We’ve been together for 1.5 years( both 18) and it might be over soon. She was brought up ridiculously pampered and spoiled by her wealthy parents. She’s never had a job or had to work for anything...

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Money, Work, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family

Unsure if i am a commitment phobe,or just haven't met the right man

posted Sun 28, Apr 2013 at 7:41pm

I am 35 and have been single for 5 years after a 14yr relationship break up which i have a 7yr old son. I am an open and honest person and have a joy for life.I have been dating on and off since ...

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Making a Commitment

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