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Is she worth it?

posted Tue 24, May 2016 at 7:39pm

Please cut me some slack as to the quality of this post: it's my first and probably my last, but I need as much detail as possible to present my case. As of last week, I had been dating a girl I...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

What do I do?

posted Tue 24, May 2016 at 6:35pm

Hi guys, my bf of 11years has come home last week to tell me he is texting, calling and seeing this other woman. He said he didnt go looking for it, it just happened. He also said he needs time to ...

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Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

I don't believe in lasting relationship that are not fulfilling for both

posted Tue 24, May 2016 at 10:52am

And considering the rates of separation and divorce reality proves me right. Many of us are ready to do a lot to make it work because we know how important our romantic relationship is for our b...

Tags: lasting a relationship,marriage help,mother woman
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Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships

Married man texts and calls married woman

posted Tue 24, May 2016 at 3:45am

My 14 yr old son's baseball coach is married, texts and calls occasionally about baseball, then it usually turns personal. I am married, although it's a difficult marriage, so the attention I get ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Sex and Affairs

Stuck :( ...In what I used to think was the ultimate relationship

posted Tue 24, May 2016 at 1:11am

On some level I feel like this relationship will lead nowhere, but on the other, I feel that I might be panicking and pulling the trigger before it’s due. So I am here to figure out where I am real...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions

My Ex and I

posted Sun 22, May 2016 at 1:59pm

I'm feeling really lost and found this website so I hope there is someone out there who can help. I am 18 and a student with exams coming up shortly. 3 weeks ago my ex broke up with me out of the b...

Tags: relationships,ex
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships

Communication

posted Sun 22, May 2016 at 1:01pm

My boyfriend and I are in our layer 30'so and have been together for 1yr. In the beginning we had some challenges with his and flirting on social media however we worked through those issues and th...

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Communications in relationships

Am i that shallow? should i give this a go? does outside look matter that much ? sexual attraction matters??

posted Sat 21, May 2016 at 11:35pm

OK i do not quite know how to explain this but here i go. My relationship of 3 years ended 6 months ago. And i think i should try and move on. I have a friend that i have known for nearly tw...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Advice needed

posted Sat 21, May 2016 at 10:13pm

I am in the difficult situation of having fallen out of love of with my husband. We haven't been intimate in months and we just seem to have grown further and further apart. He tried to initiate se...

Tags: Separation,out of love
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Trying to deal

posted Sat 21, May 2016 at 8:25pm

Hello everyone, I'm trying to find out if I should cope with the fact that my fiance spends more time in the studio with his friends making music than at home with his family. My fiance, I can't...

Tags: Fiance,neglecting family,dreams
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Making a Commitment

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my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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Foreign exgirlfriend

posted Wed 20, Jul 2011 at 10:56am

I am English and went out with a Brasillian for 4 Years, She went home 3 years ago she is studying Law in Brasil now which is a 3 year course so she wont come back to England I have my family some ...

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Work

Scared of having to choose between being closer to family or boyfriend

posted Thu 21, Jul 2011 at 7:17pm

I'll try to make this short and sweet, so here it goes: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year (I'm in my mid 20's, he's in his early 30's) and recently moved in together a few months...

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Friends & Family, Making a Commitment

I love my boyfriend (3 yr relationship) but am attracted to other men and not him is this normal??

posted Fri 22, Jul 2011 at 1:13pm

I love my boyfriend dearly. He is my best friend, my soul mate and we live together. I would never want to hurt him. I can imagine having his children and him being a wonderful father. Trouble is I...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Can we get the connection back?

posted Mon 25, Jul 2011 at 10:11am

I have been with my husband for 10 years, and married for 4 of them. Recently we have been having alot of difficulties which I put down to us not spending enough time together or making an effort -...

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Finding Time for Each Other

Can u trust again

posted Tue 26, Jul 2011 at 5:26am

Can u as a person find trust in someone again? How do u work on your trust issues to make sure that you have no doubt about this person? Is it wrong to doubt? Or must she proof to u that u can t...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Reading to "get away"

posted Fri 29, Jul 2011 at 12:32am

My gf and I have been living together for just over a year. We are 15 yrs apart (i'm 35 and she's 21). We were met through a mutual friend when we had both just gotten out of long term relationship...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Feeling pretty lost.

posted Sun 31, Jul 2011 at 6:58am

Recently I broke things off with my significant other. Things have gotten way too out of hand and I don't know why I let it continue for as long as it has. However it's different now seeing as I ju...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Liking another guy just as much as my boyfriend

posted Mon 1, Aug 2011 at 6:27pm

I have a boyfriend, and we have been in a fairly good relationship for around 6 months now, but I'm not feeling really happy with our relationship. He lives kind of far away and I don't go to schoo...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner

Depressed and bored after 30 years of marriage

posted Wed 10, Aug 2011 at 5:49pm

I would really love some help and support as I'm incredibly depressed about the state of my life. My husband is very un-communicative and un-supportive, I've tried talking to him about these issue...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Confused.com!.. Problems coming to terms with my girlfriend's past.

posted Fri 12, Aug 2011 at 2:59am

I am currently in a relationship, 2 months old, after 2 months of seeing eachother beforehand. Everything was going fine until I have hit a wall in the last few weeks where I am getting terribl...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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