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My boyfriend snapped

posted Fri 19, May 2017 at 12:45pm

My boyfriend of four years went absolutely psycho tonight and i am currently up at a friends trying to work out what to do.. Our relationship had been going incredibly smoothly up until yesterday. ...

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Am I over reacting?

posted Wed 17, May 2017 at 9:58am

Okay so, I'm really jealous person and I have trust issues. (Reason for it is bc of something that happened in my childhood). For someone who is like this though I'm okay with my boyfriend to watch...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

He is mad

posted Wed 17, May 2017 at 12:00am

My boyfriend of 2 yrs broke up with me after Easter weekend. He said he was unhappy and uncomfortable in the relationship. This was after a fun filled weekend with his family. This was my 1st t...

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Relationship issues

posted Tue 16, May 2017 at 8:13pm

I am in a relationship with someone who cannot accept my kids from a previous marriage. She has no kids, and doesnt want them, but tried as she wanted to be with me. But we experience constant prob...

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Communications in relationships

Confused...please HELP!!!

posted Tue 16, May 2017 at 2:28am

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I have three children and he has one. I was married and divorced twice, and he was married once, engaged once and in a long term relati...

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Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

Worried about boyfriend's new female friend

posted Mon 15, May 2017 at 4:24pm

This is going to be a bit of an essay so I apologise in advance! To give you a bit of background, my boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years and we have a house and a dog to...

Tags: relationships,female friends,cheating
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Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships

Obsessing over ex and new girlfriend

posted Mon 8, May 2017 at 9:58am

I wrote on this forum a year ago when I just had been dumped by my ex who treated me so poorly in our 6 year relationship...I was with a narcissist and I had super low self esteem and this intense ...

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Is he cheating?

posted Sun 7, May 2017 at 12:24pm

I had a difficult pregnancy so we did not have sex for nearly a year. We recently had sex again for the first time. It was fine. But I had heard before that after a long period without sex, men usu...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

Should we stay together?

posted Sun 7, May 2017 at 8:21am

Hi, I'm 49, been living with my girlfriend for nearly 12 years. I like her, as a friend. But for as long as I've known her I've felt we lack something. I had no relationships before I met her. The ...

Tags: sex relationships
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Am I just wasting my time. Should I break my own heart by leaving before he break mine

posted Sat 6, May 2017 at 10:00pm

Hi all, So where to start. Unexpected relationship both of us have our issues mainly caused by family. We met through shared accommodation and got together. Due to a housemate feud I wanted to mov...

Tags: trust issues,resentment,sexting,looking at other women,should I leave him
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

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I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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Experimenting/ Sexual fantasies

posted Sat 23, Oct 2010 at 7:38pm

Me and my husband have been together for 4 years, married for 3 years, we have 2 beautiful children, a 3yr old and a baby of 4months, he is 40yrs old and I am 25yrs old. We are happy pretty much mo...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance

Long Distance

posted Mon 25, Oct 2010 at 10:12am

Hi, im in a long distance relationship. and i have never met my boyfriend im thinking of going to visit him, yet my mum wont let me. i hate the fact i cant see him and ive done some really stupid t...

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Friends & Family

Help

posted Fri 5, Nov 2010 at 6:36pm

i'm hoping you can help, i have recently moved in with my fella and things were going great, however recently i have questioned his sexuality, our sex life is still great, but i have found myself q...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Just keep getting messed over

posted Sat 6, Nov 2010 at 6:53am

I haven't been here in a while but lately me and my boyfriend have been going through the same problems I thought we're over. I can't seem to understand how someone say they love you but turn aroun...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Dont know what to do

posted Wed 10, Nov 2010 at 4:30pm

Hello, I am looking for some help. Since the birth of our first child almost a year ago our marriage has gone downhill, we hardly ever have sex and I don't ever seem to want it... I don't know ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

comforting a greiving partner

posted Fri 12, Nov 2010 at 5:30am

My partner of 3 years has recently lost both his mother and grandmother within the space of a week and naturally is really struggling to deal with everything that is going on around him. He is the ...

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Friends & Family

disabled and marriage

posted Thu 18, Nov 2010 at 12:54am

About a year ago, I found out that I had major back issues. After seeing a doctor and a bunch of tests, I was disabled this bacame a big problem between my wife and I in all kinds of ways. After g...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

how to put right my relationship back together

posted Tue 23, Nov 2010 at 11:34am

i have been with my partner for 5 years but recently we have hit hard times.i cheated 3 years ago with my ex / mother of my children, i thought my new partner and i had sorted this and moved on, no...

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Money, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

What to do?

posted Sat 27, Nov 2010 at 11:20pm

HI all This is not an actual problem, but advice still wanted and welcomed. I am thinking alot latly about having a baby. I have been with my partner for 5 years, we are both 24, I'm 25 early next...

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In need of help

posted Thu 2, Dec 2010 at 4:37am

My marriage has been full of drama since day one. We have been married now for almost three years, but I don't think it can go on much longer. My wife has been seeing someone else, and although s...

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Affairs and Jealousy

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