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He's lost my trust.

posted Mon 27, Mar 2017 at 10:14pm

Hi I am just looking for some advice really. I am one of those women who don't like my husband going to strip clubs. I know some women are fine with it, but I'm not. It makes me feel very inadequa...

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Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

My girlfriend talks about her sex past during intimate moments and I can't cope with the truth

posted Mon 27, Mar 2017 at 11:18am

Hi everyone, A little while back me and my girlfriend were trying new things. At this point, I feel like it is really intimate and we are in the zone and she tells me about what she did to anoth...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Boyfriend makes no effort

posted Mon 27, Mar 2017 at 9:47am

Hi, apologies in advance if this is a long post. I have been with my bf over a year now he's 21 and I'm 20, I go to uni which is about 40 minutes away from where he lives, so currently we only see ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

My girlfriend/partner's position.

posted Sun 26, Mar 2017 at 9:53pm

So here it goes, I don't know if this is the right place to be asking for advice but this is what I found to talk on & needed help basically. So basically me & my girlfriend have been together ...

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Friends & Family, Making a Commitment, Mixed Families, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

Conflicting feelings

posted Sat 25, Mar 2017 at 1:16pm

I was married for 14yrs.  Im now 41 & my ex 43. My divorce was final January of this year, I filed because i had an affair. As soon as my ex told me he had a girlfriend, i wanted him back. I know...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

possible reconciliation?

posted Sat 25, Mar 2017 at 6:33am

Why would an ex-fling who did not want me and moved on with somebody else stalk me online with a fake Facebook account? She did this a couple months ago but I cut her out of my life in April so it'...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

How do I juggle my fiancé and nursing school but still make him feel loved?

posted Thu 23, Mar 2017 at 3:13pm

My fiancé and i are recently engaged. We have been together for 5 years. Before we were engaged i was not in school and our relationship was really good. We were always having fun, laughing, got in...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, A Psychologist's Perspective

How do I rebuild my trust

posted Tue 21, Mar 2017 at 4:42pm

I'll try to keep this as short as possible. 12 yeras ago my wife had a sexual affair with a work colleague. When I eventually caught her out and made her tell me the truth instead of denying it, we...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together, Sex and Affairs

Davina McCall wants to hear from you for a new TV programme

posted Tue 21, Mar 2017 at 3:20pm

Twenty Twenty, creators of First Dates and Gareth Malone’s The Naked Choir, are making a new studio show with Davina McCall that will discuss modern day issues. We’re looking for people to share th...

Tags: technology,relationships,phone
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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships

he left me strandered

posted Mon 20, Mar 2017 at 10:10pm

earlier this week me my partner and my mum was in manchester, for the past couple of weeks me and my partner have been going through a rough patch, the stress levels between both of us have been hi...

Tags: relationships,trouble,arguments.
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Work, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships

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I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

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Long Distance

posted Mon 25, Oct 2010 at 10:12am

Hi, im in a long distance relationship. and i have never met my boyfriend im thinking of going to visit him, yet my mum wont let me. i hate the fact i cant see him and ive done some really stupid t...

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Friends & Family

Help

posted Fri 5, Nov 2010 at 6:36pm

i'm hoping you can help, i have recently moved in with my fella and things were going great, however recently i have questioned his sexuality, our sex life is still great, but i have found myself q...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Just keep getting messed over

posted Sat 6, Nov 2010 at 6:53am

I haven't been here in a while but lately me and my boyfriend have been going through the same problems I thought we're over. I can't seem to understand how someone say they love you but turn aroun...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Dont know what to do

posted Wed 10, Nov 2010 at 4:30pm

Hello, I am looking for some help. Since the birth of our first child almost a year ago our marriage has gone downhill, we hardly ever have sex and I don't ever seem to want it... I don't know ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

comforting a greiving partner

posted Fri 12, Nov 2010 at 5:30am

My partner of 3 years has recently lost both his mother and grandmother within the space of a week and naturally is really struggling to deal with everything that is going on around him. He is the ...

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Friends & Family

disabled and marriage

posted Thu 18, Nov 2010 at 12:54am

About a year ago, I found out that I had major back issues. After seeing a doctor and a bunch of tests, I was disabled this bacame a big problem between my wife and I in all kinds of ways. After g...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

how to put right my relationship back together

posted Tue 23, Nov 2010 at 11:34am

i have been with my partner for 5 years but recently we have hit hard times.i cheated 3 years ago with my ex / mother of my children, i thought my new partner and i had sorted this and moved on, no...

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Money, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

What to do?

posted Sat 27, Nov 2010 at 11:20pm

HI all This is not an actual problem, but advice still wanted and welcomed. I am thinking alot latly about having a baby. I have been with my partner for 5 years, we are both 24, I'm 25 early next...

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In need of help

posted Thu 2, Dec 2010 at 4:37am

My marriage has been full of drama since day one. We have been married now for almost three years, but I don't think it can go on much longer. My wife has been seeing someone else, and although s...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Need some independent feedback

posted Sat 4, Dec 2010 at 8:15pm

It all started about 18mths. ago. My husband became very depressed and withdrew from me. I was beside myself to know what to do for him to help him. He went to his GP and got anti-depressants an...

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