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Obsessed

posted Sat 23, Jul 2016 at 4:59am

My fiancé is obsessed and fixated on certain things. He obsesses over the time he goes to sleep and when the time is getting near he begins to get anxiety. He obsesses over pain and illness. He ob...

Tags: obsession,fixation,aspergers,inflexible
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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

No sex life

posted Thu 21, Jul 2016 at 12:27pm

I have been with my boyfriend for 28 months, he lives with me & my kids. We have no sex life - and by this I mean nothing other than pecks and cuddles for 18 months now. It's depressing, it took 15...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

busy boyfriend?

posted Wed 20, Jul 2016 at 5:51pm

so my boyfriend of 2 years (in 2 weeks) plays cricket and it's currently the height of the cricket season and he's been playing every Saturday since May, so I work on a Saturday and I'm okay with h...

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Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Making a Commitment, Word from the street, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Partner is addicted to porn

posted Tue 19, Jul 2016 at 8:32am

Me&my partner are both in our early 30s and have been together for a little over 2 years. We've been living together for almost a year. I love my partner and he loves me too, we share lots of cu...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

confused what to do

posted Mon 18, Jul 2016 at 8:05pm

ok so ive been married with my husband for 7 years now. Its been really rough these past 4 years! pretty much since my son was conceived my sex drive just disappeared it was also painful to have se...

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Becoming a Parent, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships

Seeking for enlightment.. i feel jealous and scared loosing my bf

posted Mon 18, Jul 2016 at 7:43pm

Hi Im skylar. 34 yrs old single. I have a bf through online who happens to be 12yrs younger than me. His 22 yrs old. We haven't seen each other yet.. we had a cool off for 7 days after that he ca...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Stuck in the middle

posted Mon 18, Jul 2016 at 11:59am

Hi, so I am a 32 year old female and my fiance is 25. We live together and are due to get married next month. The problem is that my parents don't like my fiance. I feel like some of this is jus...

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Money, Work, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective

Commitment issues help

posted Mon 18, Jul 2016 at 8:29am

Myself and fiancé have been together for 11 years, about 4 years ago before we brought our house he was unsure and we broke up for 6 months as he was scared to commit and at the time I thought it w...

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Making a Commitment, A Psychologist's Perspective

Separated, anxiety, devastation.

posted Sun 17, Jul 2016 at 5:11pm

Hi there, I'll make it vague, I am 26 and my (now ex) partner is 23, we were together for 4.5 years and lived together 2.5 years. We split up 6 months ago, and moved out etc but then came ba...

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At my ropes end!

posted Sun 17, Jul 2016 at 12:17am

I've been posting on here for a while about my relationship and now I really feel that I'm at the end of my rope with this relationship. We went to an all inclusive resort to celebrate our birthday...

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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

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my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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Need some independent feedback

posted Sat 4, Dec 2010 at 8:15pm

It all started about 18mths. ago. My husband became very depressed and withdrew from me. I was beside myself to know what to do for him to help him. He went to his GP and got anti-depressants an...

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he wants me to stop asking questions

posted Mon 13, Dec 2010 at 4:00am

My husband gets defensive when I ask him about phone numbers on our cell bill. He really doesnt like it when I ask him why he calls this one chick that he is on a firedepartment with. What I ask is...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Just don't know what to do...

posted Fri 17, Dec 2010 at 7:15pm

I have been with my partner for almost 10 years. We both still say that we love each other, we both agree that we are the best things that have happened to each other yet right now we are so far a...

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What do I do?

posted Sun 19, Dec 2010 at 11:28pm

I have a daughter of 7 from a previous relationship. I am now married with another daughter who is 2. My 7 year old sees her dad every Friday night. Everything has been fine up until now. Over...

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Becoming a Parent

Not Sure What to Do.....

posted Mon 27, Dec 2010 at 1:28am

Oh goodness! I have written on here before about many other situations that I have been going through in the past year and a half. I just find this site to be very helpful, so thank you to all who ...

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Becoming a Parent, Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Drama filled year

posted Fri 31, Dec 2010 at 2:48am

I don't understand why every relationship has to have drama. Sometimes people may look like they are in a healthy relationship but in reality there relationship may be a living hell. I know for me ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Depressed...

posted Sat 1, Jan 2011 at 11:10pm

Moving on from drama is my motto... but in the process of moving on I'm leaving my kids father. The lack of respect he has for me has worked my nerve. I've tried to be patient and wait for him to c...

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No sexual desire :(

posted Fri 14, Jan 2011 at 11:25pm

Me and my partner had only been together about 10months before i fell pregnant. We were madly in love and already engaged at this point. After having our daughter we began to drift, the lack of spe...

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Becoming a Parent, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Breakdown in communication

posted Mon 24, Jan 2011 at 9:49pm

This feels like a diary entry for the latest stage of my relationship. My partner and I have not been talking for over two weeks since disagreements at christmas. This weekend was my birthday ...

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Open relation ?

posted Mon 31, Jan 2011 at 7:16pm

Hellow, i'm a 19 year old girl and have a boyfriend on 22, we have been together since I was 15 and i was his first girlfriend ever, we just bought a ouse together, we really love eachother so ever...

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Affairs and Jealousy

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