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Very sad and lost ; (

posted Sun 1, Feb 2015 at 9:38pm

So ive been with my boyfriend for about 8 yrs and love him very much!! We are very loving and affectionate and we flirt all the time! We have a good relationship we can talk about anything for the ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Now living apart

posted Sun 1, Feb 2015 at 8:37pm

Me and my partner have been living together for over two yrs...his two children moved in with us...over Xmas he got very lazy..and was going on about getting his own place...he moved out in January...

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Living Apart Together

Daughter and her Ex

posted Sun 1, Feb 2015 at 8:14pm

I'm new here and searched out the site as I don't know which other way to turn. I will try to be brief: My daughter and her ex were together for 6.5 years, had a son and lived together. They ar...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Being possessive right or wrong?

posted Sun 1, Feb 2015 at 3:00pm

I had to walk out of a relationship few months back. I was deeply involved in the relationship and I had a lot of trust in it. I am very introvert by nature and have very limited friends. In fact m...

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Friends & Family

Opposites attract but does it work out?

posted Sun 1, Feb 2015 at 1:38pm

i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 years. I am deeply attached to him and really love him. I think he's going to propose to me very soon. I don't know whether i want to marry him...

Tags: Opposites,Marriage
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Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

A guy who was already taken

posted Sat 31, Jan 2015 at 5:38am

I like the guy from my class and he also likes me but he already has a girlfriend. He told me it was truly on-and-off relationship. However, he loves her because he has been with her for 6 years an...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Insecure husband

posted Fri 30, Jan 2015 at 11:55pm

I could do with some advice, my husband of 2 years (together for 5) is really Insecure and I feel like he has suffocated me with this over the years. Yesterday we got into a bit of an argument and ...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Communications in relationships

Confused hurt and low. Things need to change.

posted Fri 30, Jan 2015 at 8:19pm

I can't really be bothered going into the whole story so to be as brief as possible my hubby of 5 years (together for 12) cheated on my last year with a friend I asked him to find work for. Before ...

Tags: Affairs,relationships,problems,life,decisions,confused,sad,depressed
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Affairs and Jealousy, Sex and Affairs

Off to uni-need honesty and good advice please ?

posted Fri 30, Jan 2015 at 4:12pm

I have been dating my boyfriend for around 8/9months ( He is not my first boy friend). I am 17 nearly 18 and he is 19. I am wishing to go to study agriculture at a uni around 20mins from home an...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, Communications in relationships

Opinion Needed

posted Fri 30, Jan 2015 at 11:34am

Ive been having marriage troubles for some time and im wanting things to be different, basically im wanting him to stop drinking as much and to stay awake instead of falling asleep. I know hes b...

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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What to do

posted Fri 7, Sep 2012 at 3:57am

Hi I'm have this problem well it's not a problem idk what it is I've been dating this guy for about 6 or 7months and living with him before he popped the question we've moved the wedding date back ...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Why she isnt dating me? Kindly reply from depth of your heart...its killing me

posted Sun 2, Sep 2012 at 9:19am

I Met Her In Bus 4 months back it was me who started starting at her ...I continued staring at her continuously for a couple of days (We Go to Office my same Bus but she boards the bus after me and...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

HELP! I have a boyfriend but i think i like someone :|

posted Mon 3, Sep 2012 at 10:32am

I have a boyfriend & we've been together for almost 3 years. He's been so perfect to me. I love him. I don't have any negative comments about him. But here's this guy.My long time crush.I admit unt...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Coping mechanisms for feeling lonely

posted Wed 15, Aug 2012 at 7:19pm

My boyfriend of 3 years has already explained numerous times he can't commit or settle down as a family. We have both been married before. I would love to be able to just walk away but I love him ...

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Making a Commitment

Absolutely no idea what on earth to do

posted Tue 11, Sep 2012 at 9:26pm

I have been broken up with by my girlfriend (I am a girl too) of nearly 2 years, and I am honestly a little confused about the whole situation. We were very much in love and very happy together, bu...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

What am doing wrong?

posted Tue 4, Sep 2012 at 2:01am

I have been seeing this guy for a few of months now and it doesn't really seem to be going anywhere. We met at a club and he drove me home. Nothing happened, we just kissed. And i don't ever do any...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Do I belive what people say about him?? please please help

posted Mon 10, Sep 2012 at 7:47pm

i was married 18yrs and have now been left him 15months. i met a guy who usd to go to the same school an we fell in love immediatly he showed me all the things i was missing in my marriage and tre...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Where do we go from here, please help, I really need some good advice.

posted Thu 13, Sep 2012 at 10:35am

I would be grateful for any constructive advice please, I have been engaged since Christmas and in my relationship for just two years. The first year(as it usually is)was wonderful, we were so ha...

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To go or not to go

posted Wed 5, Sep 2012 at 5:19am

I have been with my husband for five years and 2 months, we have been married 5 years and 1 month of that time. I should have known marring someone I didn't know would have it's down falls....but I...

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Affairs and Jealousy

I'm so insecure in my relationship..

posted Mon 17, Sep 2012 at 6:55pm

Hello, I really need some advice with my relationship problem. I'm currently in a relationship with an amazing man, we've been together nearly a year and it's a perfect relationship. He is so cari...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

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