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Not sure what to do or/and who to pick

posted Sat 2, Aug 2014 at 12:19am

Hello i need some urgent advice, I think my ex still wants me back I was with my ex for ten and a half months and I loved him very much he broke up with me. It took me four months before I date...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

So confused, getting depressed and need advice.

posted Fri 1, Aug 2014 at 9:07pm

Hi guys, this might be quite a long post so i apologise in advance. I'm a 22 year old male who works around 30 hours a week, October 2010 I met a girl through an online dating site who lives ar...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Should I tell him or should I wait? Any advice please thank you

posted Fri 1, Aug 2014 at 5:18pm

Hello, I've been dating a really great man for 11 weeks now. I know that may not seem long but we're very close and I am developing feelings for him. I'm 30 this year and although I'm keen not to a...

Tags: relationship
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Getting on Better with my Partner, Life transitions, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together

He's not out

posted Fri 1, Aug 2014 at 10:33am

I met a guy on my year abroad and we fell in love. Eventually I had to go home and we started a long distance relationship. We Skype every day and we talk when we can. However I'm worried about...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

Friendship seemed to be heading to romance when "BAM"

posted Fri 1, Aug 2014 at 3:03am

I'm 54, divorced with a teen son, and been living with a woman for 9 years. We are no longer romantically attach and basically stay together to share expenses. About 4 or 5 years ago I met a wom...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Sex and Affairs

I don't trust his female friend. Am I crazy?

posted Thu 31, Jul 2014 at 11:21pm

Hi guys. I'm new here... I can't discuss this with anyone in my life, so *really* I hope you can help me wrap my head around this problem. Lately, I've been stressed by a new addition in my boyf...

Tags: trust,cheating,friend of opposite sex
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Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Communications in relationships

Breaking up

posted Thu 31, Jul 2014 at 9:36pm

I am a 31 year old female and I've been with my male partner for 7 years. We've been living together for 2 years. Recently we've been drifting apart, we never seem to spend any time together and ha...

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at a lost with the love of my life

posted Thu 31, Jul 2014 at 9:13pm

I am a thirty one years old male, my woman is thirty three, we share a home and split the rent which on my part is not that much. I am on ssi with a neurological disease and she carries the load wi...

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Money, Work, Housework, Becoming a Parent, Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Having a Child with Additional Needs, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together, Mixed Families, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Living Apart Together, Sex and Affairs

Confused

posted Thu 31, Jul 2014 at 4:30pm

Our relationship have been of 1yr 3 months. Last day we were talking on phone about various topics. He usually loves to boast off to me on how all girls are lined up for him. I don't mind these ant...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships

Sexless Relationshp

posted Thu 31, Jul 2014 at 3:19pm

We are a disabled couple and have been thoether for nearly five years. I am a visually impaired male and my partner is physically disabled (female). I feel that we are not having regular sex and w...

Tags: Sex
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Finding Time for Each Other

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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What do I do?!

posted Tue 26, Feb 2013 at 11:28pm

Its quite an odd situation I'm in. I'm in my first relationship, we're both in our first year at uni and are managing to survive the long distance. There's only one issue with us. He is Indian with...

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letting go of someone you can't have

posted Tue 12, Feb 2013 at 5:43pm

Please bear with me its a long one! A freind of mine left work to have a child with someone younger than her. She is only 23 herself, and while we were friends and got on well there was never any ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Long-Distance Breakup, Reconciliation possible?

posted Sun 3, Mar 2013 at 5:19pm

So I am looking for some advice on how to treat my current situation. I was dating my girlfriend for about 3.5 months when she broke up with me. We’re both in law school and I left for this spri...

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Damned if I do Damned if I don't

posted Mon 4, Mar 2013 at 6:43pm

Hi, I'm new to this forum but I could really use some help. I have been dating my Girlfriend for about 3 years and last September we got engaged while on a trip to New York City. She said yes an...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

I am so confused about everything, I don't know if it's about her?

posted Mon 4, Mar 2013 at 9:19pm

I'll start at the beginning, I met my now ex girlfriend over two years ago. She was (and still is) perfect, and she's two years older than me. Even though I was going out with someone else at the t...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Making a Commitment

I don't like that he did this?

posted Mon 4, Mar 2013 at 10:43pm

So my boyfriend has/gets a lot of tattoos, and a while back when we first started dating he allowed his female best friend to come to one of his appointments. I had never been to one before, but I ...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family

Is he really too busy or am i being insecure?

posted Sat 9, Mar 2013 at 6:09pm

I've been in a relationship with my bf now for just over 1 year which is the longest I've ever had. Everything was going really well but suddenly over the past couple of weeks I've been feeling rea...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

Why can't I forget the past???

posted Sun 10, Mar 2013 at 11:59am

ok, where do I start? My partner and I are both divorced and got together 5 years ago. He was honest about his past and told me that his ex-wife had many affairs both before and during their marria...

Tags: lapdancing,insecurity,confidence,sex,Goldfingers,Weymouth
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

On and off again

posted Mon 18, Feb 2013 at 1:26am

Hello everyone. Please bear with me as this is long. I do not know where to turn as all my family and friends are tired of hearing my story. I am sure I am over analyzing it but please help if y...

Tags: love,emotional,abuse,yo-yo,best friend,cheating,breakup,same-sex
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Affairs and Jealousy

Jealous of my guys Ex

posted Mon 11, Mar 2013 at 11:47am

So I found some pictures of my boyfriends ex- naked pictures some were really dirty and i cant get it out of my mind!! Its driving me insane i cry every day i feel sick thinking of it, I cant be in...

Tags: jealousy,romance,intimacy,relationship
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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