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ruined relationship

posted Fri 26, Aug 2016 at 7:29pm

I am a 17 year old teem mom, I live with my boyfriend and things have been rough between us. I don't even know if I still care for him anymore. my feelings for him are all over the place. when I mo...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Should I be concerned...?

posted Fri 26, Aug 2016 at 5:41pm

I have this Malaysian boyfriend whom we were together for quite some time. Recently I've been re-evaluating our relationship as it seems we are not progressing anywhere and my feelings for him has ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Life transitions, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

How is this acceptable?

posted Fri 26, Aug 2016 at 1:59pm

My wife and I were literally having sex when she brings up that shes upset that I dont want to work out and have 6 pack abs anymore like when we first met. This turned into an argument as I had to ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Newly parents and nightmare mother in law drama

posted Tue 23, Aug 2016 at 7:59pm

I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. We have different backgrounds he is russian i am cuban. Recently I got pregnant and have had a beautiful baby boy with him. When his mum(hes an only...

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Becoming a Parent, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together, Mixed Families, Communications in relationships, Living Apart Together

Seriously need to hear other opinions!! (LONG READ)

posted Tue 23, Aug 2016 at 3:56pm

Ok..will try to make it short but even then will still be long so here goes...(Thank you in advance for reading and any help/opinion/advice)... I am 33 and he is 43. We first laid eyes on each ...

Tags: love,sex,hate,help,advice,opinion,crazy,stupid,Christian,Domestic,Discipline,family,soul,forever,someone,husband,wife,viagara,bipolar,happy,peace,joy
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Need Advice On This Serious Matter

posted Sun 21, Aug 2016 at 11:08am

Hi guys. I'm going to get straight to the point. I've been with my partner for 2 years and I love him to bits but recently hes developed some habits that are seriously putting me off him. His hygie...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Communications in relationships

I got engaged and I have doubts

posted Fri 19, Aug 2016 at 11:11pm

Me23(F) BF25(M) We've been together for a year and our relationship is great. We lived together 85% of the year and learned alot about each other we shared family vacations, he supported me through...

Tags: engaged,single,married,relationship,advice,love,wife,husband,boyfriend,girlfriend,cheating
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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships

NEED ADVICE ASAP- Is he just in it for the sex or will he eventually want a serious relationship?

posted Fri 19, Aug 2016 at 8:02pm

I’ve been hooking up with this guy (CC) for the past 4 months. Before we started hooking up I was still in a rocky relationship with my ex and he was aware that I was taken and didn’t speak to me o...

Tags: relationship,player,love,girlfriend,boyfriend,hookup,sex,serious,flirting
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment, Communications in relationships, Sex and Affairs

Great Relationship/Horrible Sexlife

posted Thu 18, Aug 2016 at 5:21pm

When I was younger my first boyfriend who I dated for about 3 years of high school broke up with me, throughout life I would often think of him! Fast forward to today and me and that same ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Sex and Affairs

is my girlfriend Alexithymic?

posted Mon 15, Aug 2016 at 8:49am

I have been in a relationship with a woman for 7 months and i feel pretty desperate about the state our relationship. I feel like we are on the verge of breaking up because there has been so much c...

Tags: alexithymia,gay,aggressive
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

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my wife doesnt show affection

posted Sun 9, Feb 2014 at 12:18pm

We are married with 1 child 9 years old, been together for 18 years, im 44 and she is 38, I have always instigated sex and over the years I have realised that its always me doing the trying all the...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. Help.

posted Fri 6, Feb 2009 at 8:32pm

Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 6 years. He is my first love and i care greatly for him. The problem is someone ive known for many years also, we have always had a spa...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

My boyfriend cannot have sex and has low libido

posted Tue 25, Jun 2013 at 5:30am

My partner and I have been together for 6 months. He told me truthfully at the beginning of our relationship that he has several factors that seem to affect his ability to have sex. He had brain ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

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disabled and marriage

posted Thu 18, Nov 2010 at 12:54am

About a year ago, I found out that I had major back issues. After seeing a doctor and a bunch of tests, I was disabled this bacame a big problem between my wife and I in all kinds of ways. After g...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

how to put right my relationship back together

posted Tue 23, Nov 2010 at 11:34am

i have been with my partner for 5 years but recently we have hit hard times.i cheated 3 years ago with my ex / mother of my children, i thought my new partner and i had sorted this and moved on, no...

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Money, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner

What to do?

posted Sat 27, Nov 2010 at 11:20pm

HI all This is not an actual problem, but advice still wanted and welcomed. I am thinking alot latly about having a baby. I have been with my partner for 5 years, we are both 24, I'm 25 early next...

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In need of help

posted Thu 2, Dec 2010 at 4:37am

My marriage has been full of drama since day one. We have been married now for almost three years, but I don't think it can go on much longer. My wife has been seeing someone else, and although s...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Need some independent feedback

posted Sat 4, Dec 2010 at 8:15pm

It all started about 18mths. ago. My husband became very depressed and withdrew from me. I was beside myself to know what to do for him to help him. He went to his GP and got anti-depressants an...

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he wants me to stop asking questions

posted Mon 13, Dec 2010 at 4:00am

My husband gets defensive when I ask him about phone numbers on our cell bill. He really doesnt like it when I ask him why he calls this one chick that he is on a firedepartment with. What I ask is...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Just don't know what to do...

posted Fri 17, Dec 2010 at 7:15pm

I have been with my partner for almost 10 years. We both still say that we love each other, we both agree that we are the best things that have happened to each other yet right now we are so far a...

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What do I do?

posted Sun 19, Dec 2010 at 11:28pm

I have a daughter of 7 from a previous relationship. I am now married with another daughter who is 2. My 7 year old sees her dad every Friday night. Everything has been fine up until now. Over...

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Becoming a Parent

Not Sure What to Do.....

posted Mon 27, Dec 2010 at 1:28am

Oh goodness! I have written on here before about many other situations that I have been going through in the past year and a half. I just find this site to be very helpful, so thank you to all who ...

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Becoming a Parent, Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Drama filled year

posted Fri 31, Dec 2010 at 2:48am

I don't understand why every relationship has to have drama. Sometimes people may look like they are in a healthy relationship but in reality there relationship may be a living hell. I know for me ...

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Affairs and Jealousy

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