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Advice

posted Wed 16, Apr 2014 at 7:05pm

Hi, I've been dating a wonderful girl for 6 months and I love her a lot. When I broke up with my ex I met this girl and another girl at roughly the same time. Not expecting anything to happen...

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Help!!!!!!

posted Wed 16, Apr 2014 at 1:49pm

I live with my bf for 4 years. Hasn't been the first time he's lied but not the first he's been caught either. We have kids 2 get her from seperate marriages. No of which live here full time. I've ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Relationship without any signs of love

posted Wed 16, Apr 2014 at 8:19am

I've been with my partner for almost 10 years and we've got a 5 yr old child. My issue is that I feel we are more of housemates than partners. We never hug or kiss, last time we made love was about...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

Pl.give me suggestion

posted Tue 15, Apr 2014 at 4:32pm

Hi, I'm visiting to India after 7 years. My side family is happy but my husband's side family is making excuses not me to visit India . My sister in law said that if you stay at my parents house, t...

Tags: Mother in law,sister in law
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Sudden break up

posted Mon 14, Apr 2014 at 10:24pm

I met my (ex) boyfriend over a year ago and we were instantly very connected to each other. On our first date we expressed our feelings about relationships and we opened up very quickly about our c...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

Unconfident Boyfriend

posted Mon 14, Apr 2014 at 5:21am

My boyfriend and me are together for more than a year. We were both grad students doing research. Last year he had to go back home due to some health issues and since then it has become a long dist...

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Making a Commitment

The Same Issue... How to stop it?

posted Sun 13, Apr 2014 at 7:53pm

So my bf and I have been together for over 2 years now and have been living together for 1 year or so. I am 27 years old and he is as well. Since pretty early on, there has been a very simila...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

I don't know if I'm wasting my time or not...

posted Sun 13, Apr 2014 at 1:57pm

Sorry this is going to be a long post because I want to get as much detail in as possible... I started dating this guy (23) at the beginning of March (I'm 21), we had been talking on the phone f...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Hiding Things

posted Sat 12, Apr 2014 at 10:53pm

Hello, I am writing because of a recent situation I have noticed. Let me preface this was some history. I have been with my fiancée for almost 6 years now. We used to live in a major city and we...

Tags: Money,lies,hiding,secrets
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Money, Getting on Better with my Partner

Red flag, or is it just me?

posted Sat 12, Apr 2014 at 6:35am

Me and my fiancé have been together for 2.5 years and living together for 1.5 years. In that time the honeymoon period seems to be over for him, just the daily grind. I was married for over 17 ye...

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Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs & Jealousy

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

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secret messaging

posted Tue 26, Nov 2013 at 2:04pm

Hi, this is my first time on this site and would like some advice please. I've gone over the suituation in my head many times and am not sure if I'm overreacting or what I should do. A family me...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Hurting after my miscarrage.

posted Thu 28, Nov 2013 at 9:49am

I lost my baby at 10 weeks last week and I'm finding it very hard. We decided not to tell people about my pregnancy until I had a scan then we were going to tell our nine year old daughter first an...

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Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy & romance

should i leave him??

posted Mon 9, Dec 2013 at 12:18pm

Hi, I'm having a hard time atm, I'm 28weeks pregnant and I'm a high risk pregnancy this time. I do not live with my partner but only live a 25min walk away from each other thing is ive been unwell ...

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She needs to cover up or it's over

posted Mon 9, Dec 2013 at 1:58pm

My wife suffers from at times severe back pain. Her chiropractor suggested massage therapy.She tried a few with little success until she heard about a guy that does house calls and combines muscle ...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Is it over?

posted Mon 16, Dec 2013 at 10:21pm

Me and my husband have been married for a year a half and together for over 8 years. We have recently had a baby, who is now 9 months old. Now, more and more I feel like our relationship is over. W...

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Becoming a Parent, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

Maybe Linkedin is not so professional after all

posted Thu 12, Dec 2013 at 1:43pm

I just discovered that my fiancee requested to connect on Linkedin with someone he use to date, and one of his current Linkedin contacts is another woman he use to date. Both of these women are not...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Have I fallen out of love?

posted Sun 22, Dec 2013 at 9:54pm

Hi, I am in desperate need for advise. I have been with my partner for nearly four years and I have recently ended the relationship. I am starting to wonder if the circulating issues around our rel...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Having a Child with Additional Needs

A person who doesn't want to know me...

posted Tue 24, Dec 2013 at 12:03pm

So... Sorry for the really long text, but I think it's important for you to know EVERY detail of this complex story! I've met this guy in the beginning of this past Summer. He is a friend of som...

Tags: new,boy,love,doubt,care,friend,confused
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Sex/Intimacy & romance

About to separate

posted Thu 26, Dec 2013 at 1:17pm

My partner is and always has been very controlling. My parents were/are very dominating and I feel like when I met and married my partner I accepted his controlling behaviour as it was what I was ...

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Money, Work, Finding Time for Each Other, Friends & Family, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together

friends

posted Wed 25, Dec 2013 at 12:30pm

I have a problem with 3 male friends. I have known them for years, before any of us was married. One married this december, and the other 2 are unhappily married. Since his recent marriage I hardly...

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Friends & Family
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