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No Contact Advice? Desperate Childs play?

posted Wed 23, Apr 2014 at 9:47am

Is no contact an american fad or could it make my ex miss me & get him to come back? Have many people successfully tried it? If anyone would recommend it, should i text and apologise for all the n...

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Ex boyfriend issues

posted Tue 22, Apr 2014 at 10:16pm

My ex boyfriend and i dated for two years and had broken up about two years ago. A week after we broke up he had a new girlfriend that he randomly met that week and i thought it was just going to b...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Help dating advice

posted Tue 22, Apr 2014 at 9:50pm

Hi I have recently been out of daring due to last relationship , my friends keep telling me to try move on , I can't stop thinking about my ex keep having dreams about her and can't sleep and every...

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Friends & Family

Two girls...kindof

posted Tue 22, Apr 2014 at 5:41am

So my ex ended it and started to see another guy. Without the whole story, we had some troubles obviously in our four year relationship. But we were engaged at one point just a couple years ago. An...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment, Bringing up Children Together

Am I just a display model?

posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 9:19pm

Hi, I have been with my Girlfriend for a few months now and have got some doubts. When we initially started dating we seemed to progress a bit faster than I anticipated (i.e. for a first date we ha...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

Strong feelings for a close friend that has a boyfriend

posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 9:16pm

I've lived in a shared house with a girl and three others for 2 years and have absolutely fallen for the girl. It started over 3 months ago and I've tried so hard to turn off these feelings but I j...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Made a huge mistake in dumping my beloved boyfriend - what to do?

posted Mon 21, Apr 2014 at 7:58am

Ive made a terrible mistake and ended up dumping my beloved boyfriend nearly 2 weeks ago now. We had been together almost 9 months. Im his first long term relationship in many years... He is q...

Tags: break up,getting back together
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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Military wife adjustment

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 11:45pm

Me a my husband have been together for 4 years married for ten months and it hasn't Been all good. Yes we had our good times in the being of the relationship but know it just seems to die down. Fo...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Getting on Better with my Partner

In love with a man who wants more

posted Sun 20, Apr 2014 at 11:30pm

I have been a relationship for over 10 years now and have a child. I am deeply in love with him and can't imagine him out of my life. Lately he has made it known to me and our child that he has bec...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

confused

posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

webcam

posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy

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Is it too late?

posted Sat 2, Nov 2013 at 9:58pm

I've had no intimacy with my wife of 37 years in the last 14 years. It's been "leave me be" or "stop it, you're annoying" since she turned 50. Before I retired this year it didn't seem as much of ...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

is it rape if its your husband?

posted Wed 23, Oct 2013 at 6:51am

I'm new here and newlywed. We just moved back to the states after the wedding to be closer to family. I don't know if I'm overreacting but I feel uncomfortable around My husband. He has been sex...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance

How should I show him my feelings?

posted Mon 2, Dec 2013 at 7:13pm

I am 25 and I am in love with a senior lecturer in our university. I guess he is about 15 years older to me. He had been doing a lot for me and have been helping me out of all the trouble I ever ha...

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Sex/Intimacy & romance, Affairs & Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

secret messaging

posted Tue 26, Nov 2013 at 2:04pm

Hi, this is my first time on this site and would like some advice please. I've gone over the suituation in my head many times and am not sure if I'm overreacting or what I should do. A family me...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Hurting after my miscarrage.

posted Thu 28, Nov 2013 at 9:49am

I lost my baby at 10 weeks last week and I'm finding it very hard. We decided not to tell people about my pregnancy until I had a scan then we were going to tell our nine year old daughter first an...

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Becoming a Parent, Sex/Intimacy & romance

should i leave him??

posted Mon 9, Dec 2013 at 12:18pm

Hi, I'm having a hard time atm, I'm 28weeks pregnant and I'm a high risk pregnancy this time. I do not live with my partner but only live a 25min walk away from each other thing is ive been unwell ...

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She needs to cover up or it's over

posted Mon 9, Dec 2013 at 1:58pm

My wife suffers from at times severe back pain. Her chiropractor suggested massage therapy.She tried a few with little success until she heard about a guy that does house calls and combines muscle ...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Is it over?

posted Mon 16, Dec 2013 at 10:21pm

Me and my husband have been married for a year a half and together for over 8 years. We have recently had a baby, who is now 9 months old. Now, more and more I feel like our relationship is over. W...

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Becoming a Parent, Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Bringing up Children Together

Maybe Linkedin is not so professional after all

posted Thu 12, Dec 2013 at 1:43pm

I just discovered that my fiancee requested to connect on Linkedin with someone he use to date, and one of his current Linkedin contacts is another woman he use to date. Both of these women are not...

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Affairs & Jealousy

Have I fallen out of love?

posted Sun 22, Dec 2013 at 9:54pm

Hi, I am in desperate need for advise. I have been with my partner for nearly four years and I have recently ended the relationship. I am starting to wonder if the circulating issues around our rel...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy & romance, Having a Child with Additional Needs
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