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'useless, incompetent girlfriend' he said.

posted Mon 22, Sep 2014 at 1:16pm

Myself and my live in partner had a massive row last weekend over how to cook the dinner. Long story short I added boiling water instead of cold to the mix and my partner reacted like a just kille...

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Communications in relationships

Will she or won't she? It's complicated!

posted Mon 22, Sep 2014 at 12:09am

Looking for your help folks. There's a girl who, up until a month ago, had been a work colleague of mine for almost 12 years. We've always been close friends but never had any romantic interludes. ...

Tags: Dilemma,relationship,help.
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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

I'm his best friend's ex-girlfriend

posted Sun 21, Sep 2014 at 10:11am

Hi, I just wanted to ask people's opinions of the current situation... Here's a brief look of it: - dated and lived with (at his house) my ex boyfriend around 2007 till 2010. This ex boyfriend i...

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Friends & Family, Making a Commitment

My relationship is hanging on a thin thread

posted Sun 21, Sep 2014 at 8:06am

my boyfriend and i arent seeing each other as often anymore we were so used to seeing each other during high school but everything changed now we are both in college and we have different days and ...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

What does all this mean

posted Sun 21, Sep 2014 at 1:14am

I have known this guy since I was 17 we were always just friends and nothing more than that. We are now 27 years old.A month ago he found me on tinder and we went on a date to a bar so I can drink...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Friends & Family, Making a Commitment, Life transitions, A Psychologist's Perspective, Sex and Affairs

Seems to be no passion or itimacy left in partner

posted Sat 20, Sep 2014 at 11:28pm

I will try to keep this short. I have a partner of 16 years, in which I have 3 kids with, not married. About 5 1/2 months ago we had a fall out that nearly ended our relationship over the issue of ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Getting on Better with my Partner, Sex and Affairs

Both married but just seen each other again, after 16 years. Just so confused by his behaviour!!!!

posted Sat 20, Sep 2014 at 5:25pm

I was 35 just about to go thru a divorce and he was 29. We hooked up into a pretty turbulent relationship and I wasnt always the most reasonable person. His patience with me was incredible and, l...

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Long term boyfriend or crush?

posted Sat 20, Sep 2014 at 12:55am

I have been dating my boyfriend (name removed by moderator to protect anonymity) for about 3 years, since we were in college. He was my first relationship, kiss, everything. For the past 6 months o...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, A Psychologist's Perspective

I need your help & advise please! I'm so confused! :(

posted Fri 19, Sep 2014 at 12:58pm

Hi, here's my story. I am with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now and we are currently living together, we had a child but he died when he was still in my tummy and It really broke my heart but I ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Sex and Affairs

My actions are in excuseable what to do now?

posted Fri 19, Sep 2014 at 11:21am

hi all my bf has a son who tries to commit suicide and has done self harming to a point where he slashes his wrists in front of the entire class in school. he did it on my birthday too. i am havi...

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Bringing up Children Together, Mixed Families

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Jealousy issues with bf

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 6:45pm

Ive been with my bf for almost 9 years, and although i've always been a jealous person i feel like its now getting out of hand. Just some background info... Years ago I found out he was having an i...

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Affairs and Jealousy

Is He Leading Me On? I Really Care About Him ...

posted Fri 25, Nov 2011 at 12:15am

Hi all, I'm in need of some relationship advice. I'm feeling really blue about this. So here it is: I've known this wonderful guy for over a year, and was previously with another guy but knew hi...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Making a Commitment

help - we just cant talk without arguing

posted Wed 24, Sep 2008 at 1:12pm

My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sle...

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Getting on Better with my Partner

Shoul I Leave Him?

posted Tue 1, Nov 2011 at 10:09am

Hi Guys Im Kinda New To This Site... Okay So Im 16 And Going out with a guy who is 25 ( Yes 9 Years InBetween Us.) 3 Days Ago Was His Birthday, so as usual he picked me up from school with his car...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

I met another guy during a break up, but now my bf and I are back together, help!

posted Mon 21, Nov 2011 at 5:37pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 5 months now. The majority of that time we have lived together also. We've had ups and downs that have led us to break up several times (his fa...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment


posted Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 2:31pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, we are both only 20 so started dating when we were 16. 10 days before we got together my boyfriend broke up with me and we had been to...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Boyfreind caught masturbating in bed while I'm asleep

posted Mon 23, May 2011 at 11:40am

Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance


posted Sat 28, Jan 2012 at 10:12am

I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and moved in with him 3 months ago. I have just discovered that he is a member on a swinging website and that he masturbates online over a w...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

Is it him or me???

posted Tue 13, Mar 2012 at 10:51pm

I've been with my partner for over 7 years and we have a young baby now and I'm back at work, I went back only weeks after her birth and I'm trying to juggle home work and baby. We have exchanged ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

Partner has fallen out of love with me

posted Wed 11, Apr 2012 at 12:30am

I was with my partner for 3 and a half years. We split up 3 weeks ago. Things weren't going well for a while and I could feel that we were going to break up but it just doesn't feel real at the mom...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Affairs and Jealousy

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Is he being a bit over the top or is it just me? and how can we get some privacy?

posted Tue 13, Nov 2012 at 9:18am

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months now and he is always asking me to stay at his but the things is his parents have such strict rules. I mean I don't mind the whole we can't sleep ...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Sex/Intimacy and romance, Friends & Family

just love or in love??

posted Mon 12, Nov 2012 at 9:58pm

I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 years and lived with him for 3. I started dating him when i was 15. We broke up in feb of this year. It was my choice. I felt as though something was missing and i ...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance, Making a Commitment

Please help :(

posted Thu 15, Nov 2012 at 10:59am

A year ago next week, I met the most amazing person. He was just what I wanted and needed after my previous break up six months beforehand. However, I went into this relationship with some 'baggage...

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I feel trapped, and I thought I was good at this relationship stuff...

posted Fri 16, Nov 2012 at 1:26am

Hello, I think I'm writing here just to get all this off my chest. Iv been in a relationship for roughly 10 months now, and I know it may not seem like a long time, but I have just had enough o...

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I don't know whether to take him back :S

posted Mon 19, Nov 2012 at 6:53pm

A few weeks ago I left my boyfriend of 4 years. He is saying he is sorry and has realised what he did was wrong and has said he will change, but the problem is I really don't feel that I can forgi...

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is she just a friend?

posted Wed 14, Nov 2012 at 11:46pm

theres this girl that my boyfriend has been friends with for years. He always says how i should be more like her because she doesnt say anything to her boyfriend when shes angry and i do which he c...

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Affairs and Jealousy, Getting on Better with my Partner, Making a Commitment

Long-distance relationship. Help!

posted Sat 17, Nov 2012 at 6:08pm

I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm beginning to feel incredibly bitter. I am a grad student and we are different continents right now (I'm in London and she's on the East coast) so we wil...

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Finding Time for Each Other, Making a Commitment

could just use some advice really i feel quite strong on my view but i always doubt myself, is my relationship as real as it seems

posted Tue 20, Nov 2012 at 10:06pm

Hi there, I have a turkish boyfriend (I know the response that provokes) we have been together for a couple of months, I met him whilst on holiday with friends but we were only friends or aquainanc...

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Sex/Intimacy and romance

boyfriend loves me but doesnt want to be with me

posted Wed 21, Nov 2012 at 10:52am

Hello, my boyfriend and i havent been together for over a month now. he says he still loves me but doesnt want a relationship anymore with me, because i've put him off having relationships. on the...

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posted Sun 18, Nov 2012 at 2:26pm

I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have 4 children in total but only 2 together, the youngest is only 8weeks old. My partner has constantly cheated on me throughout our relationship, al...

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Affairs and Jealousy

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